ANAL SEX  

dynamicpussy80 36F
6 posts
8/6/2006 1:16 am

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8/6/2006 4:23 pm

ANAL SEX


MY HUSBAND WANTS TO PERFORM ANAL SEX WITH ME BUT IT HURTS.WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT EASIER AND MORE COMFORTABLE?

rm_smc469 42M
617 posts
8/6/2006 2:12 am

The best advise I can give is, RELAX and go slow - tell him not to force it. Ease it in alittle at a time and alow yourself time to adjust to the new feeling. and ofcourse use lots of lube (KY or wetlite have always worked great for me)rub it on your asshole and his dick before you try penitration. Maybe try some assplay first to give you a chance to get used to the new feeling you will experience.
Hope all goes well and above all have fun


rm_smc469 42M
617 posts
8/6/2006 2:14 am

Oh and welcome to blog land.


timberwolf6972 44M

8/6/2006 2:31 am

Always use plenty of lube to start with. Do not start with him putting his cock in your ass. Like the guy above me said, try to stay relaxed. Tense muscles will only complicate this situation and increase the chances that you might not enjoy anal sex.Use one finger till you get adjusted to it. If this feels good then move up to two fingers.

After you are comfortable with this then you may be ready to try a cock. Be sure that he is very gentle and very slow moving with short strokes until you are ready to handle anymore. After this and you are comfortable with his technique and a cock in your ass then it should be smooth sailing from there on out. I wish you luck. {=}


Zen1012 43M
1 post
8/6/2006 3:41 am

There is a technique which seems to work. Get your husband to lube 2 fingers and slide them into your ass, then squeeze your ass muscles as hard as you can on his fingers, keep this up for about 30 seconds. You might try this twice or three times. It has the effect of loosening the muscles in your ass, just like looseing up before a work out. You might feel discomfort as he initially penetrates you but but after a few seconds it should feel better.

Hope it works


jerseybikerman 62M

8/6/2006 9:28 am

from what i found out from a ex-girlfriend start with a small butt plug with lot's of lube working your way up to a larger size one (the same size a your husband's) it worked for her


tdgstr869in 46M

8/7/2006 11:43 am

All the guy who applied to your post are very good techniques for any couple who starting out experiencing anal sex but they forgot to mention to that you need an enema an hour before having anal sex, so your hubby wont have doo doo all over his dick because that can get pretty messy.


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