Orgasms  

duststormdiva 51F
7253 posts
7/14/2005 5:11 pm

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Orgasms


I was thinking today about men and how they (at least most I have been with) usually cum fairly early in the game. Yes, it can be disappointing, if they can't rise back to the occassion and go on longer, but my question is this... Should it be considered a compliment? I mean if they orgasm before me is that because they don't have stamina, or is it that he is sooo into the moment that he loses control?

If a lover is attentative, then it does not really matter to me how long they last during intercourse. I have seen disappointment or embarrassment in the faces of men who feel they should have performed longer. I never want a lover to feel in adequate because they are disappointed in their performance. I know that I have a strong sex drive, so strong, it's almost abnormal, so I have a bit more understanding.

DustStormDiva



rm_Catharsis32 44M

7/14/2005 9:38 pm

If you go to quickly it can be embarassing. I have done both cum cause I was excited and because I was exhausted. However, I do go back up and that is all she wrote I will stay up for good after that. If it does happen the guy should be atleast willing to take care of business in other ways.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/15/2005 3:01 am

Catharsis, A good lover does take care of things other ways. Thanks for your input.

DustStormDiva


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
7/15/2005 8:51 am

It's a compliment Diva. I just did...twice...oops three times.

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rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
7/15/2005 8:51 am

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CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
7/15/2005 8:03 pm

That is very well said from A-Z cumtounge44

-CuteAZguy27


rm_aztecoqui 55M

7/16/2005 12:14 am

Duststormdiva, always take care of your partner first, than take care of yourself. At least that how I do it!!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/16/2005 9:41 am

Talldark, I wonder if that is why you have trouble getting some? *grin*

cumtongue, I like the way you think. A man who is concerned with his partners enjoyment and has a goal to ensure she is taken care of first in many ways is very considerate.

aztecoqui, I have always taken care of my partner first. As I get older and wiser I realize that I should be taken care of too!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/16/2005 1:44 pm

Cute, intriguing, very intriguing!

DustStormDiva


Cdav3556 40M  
27 posts
7/16/2005 6:32 pm

Simply put...I do believe in taking care of my partner first and foremost...(read my profile). I am extrememly oral anyway so I never have a problem getting her to cum. However, I am blessed with a gift of control...as I can pretty much time when I want to cum. Sometimes are longer than others...but most of the time I can do it whenever I want. Personally, I feel like it is the man's responsibility to make sure that his woman cums first. I think it's a little selfish that a man allows himself to cum before his mate...(unless she wants that). As far as getting it back up, I very RARELY have that problem also...as I can STAY hard most of the time after I cum, or can get back up in a matter of minutes. Guys...no BS...if you want her attention, make her ass cum so hard that she taps out before you even THINK of getting yours...(that is unless she is like a current g/f of mine that I know! She gets so exausted after I make her cum ONCE that she is too tired to go anymore!)

That's my two cents...BANK ON IT!

Ciao gang!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/17/2005 5:23 pm

Cdav3556 I like your views on taking care of your women. I like a man who is generous when it comes to giving out orgasms. For too long I was always making sure my lovers were taken care of when they never took the time to take care of me. I have become a little bit more selfish when it comes to that now.

I checked our your very detailed profile, very nice, straight and to the point. I'll be checking out your blogs too. Make it a great day.

DustStormDiva


marcuserectis 61M
1 post
7/19/2005 6:12 pm

Premature Ejaculation sucks for the woman, but it's HORRIBLE for the guy..Hehehehee..The best age for a man is 50 or so, hell I'm always good for an hour, cause I'd rather eat my dessert first...Hehehee


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/20/2005 2:14 am

marcuserectis, 50 year old men is a good age for premature ejaculations or good for an hour?

DustStormDiva


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