Love on aff  

duststormdiva 51F
7253 posts
6/25/2005 11:15 am

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Love on aff


I got a wink from a man the other day. I viewed his profile and noticed he is looking for marriage. Of course there is a big difference between love and marriage. You don't have to be in love to be married.

Marriage is a word that will probably never be a part of my life again. If you are in a relationship and its working, why ruin it by getting married?

I have met some wonderful people on this site. People whose friendships I will cherish for the rest of my life. Friendships that will only continue to grow.

My question is, can you find love on a sex site? How many people are actually looking for that, yet they hide behind their profile that says they are looking for "no strings"?

DustStormDiva



passionateman101 58M

6/25/2005 12:43 pm

You seem very wise and I am intrigued by your thoughts and question. Please hook up with me and lets see where we might go with a passionate AdultFriendFinder


Puurple_Passions 46M/39F
140 posts
6/25/2005 12:48 pm

Yes, you can. My hubby and I met on another adult website. We've been together now for 5 years, married for almost 3 of them. You just can't give up too soon. If it's meant to be you're paths will come together in the right place at the right time.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
6/25/2005 1:04 pm

Oh, I am not looking for marriage.

DustStormDiva


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/25/2005 1:46 pm

Actually, I have almost always been in a relationship for my entire adult life. Now that I have spent over 2 entire years single I find that I am getting used to it, and liking it too. The only problem with this is that somehow my life seems "incomplete" (to paraphrase a love story movie I saw once) and I find that I still desire companionship.

Apparantly I still have something left to give. It wasn't too long ago that I felt all used up.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
6/25/2005 1:49 pm

Katey and Puurplepassions, I think that it's wonderful that you have found happiness. Congratuations and good luck in the future.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
6/25/2005 8:34 pm

Keith, I used to feel incomplete too, and I prayed for a husband. I learned a very valuable lesson during that period of time. You really need to be careful of what you pray for.

I desire companionship as well, but I am way too busy to be involved with anyone for more than just a couple of hours every now and then. Sure, I have a lot of free time right now, but I am on a months long vacation. Starting in July and until Thanksgiving, I will be busy 21 hours a day again. Good Luck Keith!

DustStormDiva


NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
6/27/2005 11:38 am

Ya know, you have a point. I knew a couple who got along great....till they got married, then everything went to hell.

As for me, I'm sure I'll never find "the one." Yeah, my profile says I'm looking for some fun, but I guess I'm subconsciously looking for someone. Thought I had, till fate intervened and blew everything out of preportion. I won't get into details about it.

Anyway, have fun.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
6/27/2005 7:49 pm

Nick, most people who say they are not looking for anyone usually are, even if only subconciously. Good luck to you.

DustStormDiva


PillsburyCodeBoy 60M

7/14/2005 10:07 am

I think you can find love anywhere. I don't see why you couldn't find it here.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/18/2005 1:04 am

PillsburyCode, I really like your handle. I agree with you, if love can be found at a bar, why not here? Most of us here are great people. My father warned me once, because he knows I like to chat, he said, "Becareful, there are weirdos on the internet." I told him, "I married a weirdo I found at church!" "Good point!" he said.

DustStormDiva


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