It's Over  

duststormdiva 51F
7253 posts
2/8/2006 9:43 am

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6/6/2007 1:37 pm

It's Over


The married man I have been seeing for the past seven months ended it today. We will remain friends. Always, but never again lovers.

Inspirational Thought:

Things turn out the best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.

-- John Wooden



I am off to soak in a hot bath now.

DustStormDiva



kyplowboy22 61M

2/8/2006 5:00 pm

That is what you wanted, I believe. Good then. Later

kpb


docdirk 47M

2/8/2006 5:30 pm

I'd volunteer to send out a hug, but I'm not sure it would get through this friggin site and out to ya!

Ah hell:

((((HUG)))

Hope this decision was for the best for both of you.

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...


goldinboy2 60M

2/8/2006 7:40 pm

So sorry to hear that sometimes a hot bath works wonders.


ticktock500 44M

2/8/2006 8:31 pm

what?????????????????
get a smirnoff ice or two in you and?????
well, well, well, look who's earned her one day medallion


slidein2meplz 62F
1994 posts
2/8/2006 11:54 pm

I think I know how you feel...holler at me if you need to.
{{{ HUGS }}}

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


MrNuttz05 49M

2/9/2006 12:30 am

If it helps, I was dumped today too! Seems like Oprah still has this thing for Stedman! Oh well... I tried to tell her it wasn't about the money... Things will work out for you... The desert will work it's magic for the both of us


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 1:02 am

    Quoting sweetneeds2:
    Be strong Dusty.....You will be ok....hope the bubbles comfort! It is good that you can be friends! The quote is very appropriate. Hugs & Kisses...Thinking of you! ~Sweet~
I have no choice but to be strong. But that does not make this any easier. I mean I am dating others, but to know there is an ending to such a beautiful relationship is hard.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 1:03 am

    Quoting kyplowboy22:
    That is what you wanted, I believe. Good then. Later

    kpb
Deep down, yes. Was I ready for it? As much as I tried to be, no.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 1:05 am

    Quoting docdirk:
    I'd volunteer to send out a hug, but I'm not sure it would get through this friggin site and out to ya!

    Ah hell:

    ((((HUG)))

    Hope this decision was for the best for both of you.
OH! I did get that hug! I guess AdultFriendFinder still delivers, (sometimes) slow, but still delivers.

It was the best decision. He wants to work on his marriage. I told him to run with it and make his marriage everything he wants it to be. Then I told him I'd miss him.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 1:05 am

    Quoting goldinboy2:
    So sorry to hear that sometimes a hot bath works wonders.
A hot bath and a good hard cry. Yes it did some good.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 1:06 am

    Quoting ticktock500:
    what?????????????????
    get a smirnoff ice or two in you and?????
    well, well, well, look who's earned her one day medallion
Don't give me that medallion yet, love. You know what else I have chosen to do.

DustStormDiva


MillsShipsGayly 51M

2/9/2006 6:14 am

hmmmm .... grieve fully .. then .. doncha look back


campfirecozy 67M

2/9/2006 7:12 am

Bummer, Diva.
As one of the married guys here on AdultFriendFinder, it is a reason for pause/reconsideration. There is probably unspoken pain on both sides, regretably.
Hugs -->((((Diva))))


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:26 am

    Quoting slidein2meplz:
    I think I know how you feel...holler at me if you need to.
    {{{ HUGS }}}
Thanks! I sure will!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:30 am

    Quoting MrNuttz05:
    If it helps, I was dumped today too! Seems like Oprah still has this thing for Stedman! Oh well... I tried to tell her it wasn't about the money... Things will work out for you... The desert will work it's magic for the both of us
Oprah will never leave Stedman, don't you realize that? HEHE. The desert seems promising!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:40 am

    Quoting MillsShipsGayly:
    hmmmm .... grieve fully .. then .. doncha look back
Looking straight ahead.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:43 am

    Quoting campfirecozy:
    Bummer, Diva.
    As one of the married guys here on AdultFriendFinder, it is a reason for pause/reconsideration. There is probably unspoken pain on both sides, regretably.
    Hugs -->((((Diva))))
He wants to make it work with his wife. I think that is admirable. We both admit we will miss each other. We had a great relationship. Unless he reads this blog, he will never know the impact this has had on me.

DustStormDiva


rm_1102wavedMy 60M
19 posts
2/11/2006 5:05 pm

Dusty~

I'm a single dad & had a best friend that is married for 23 years in March! She fell in love with me, told me & then we fell in love with each other for almost 3 years. We had real beautiful sex only once; like maybe 6 months ago & the tried to say good~bye. I wanted to wait for her to leave her husband. The guilt was just to overwhelming for her. In the year of 2005; we broke~up maybe 25 times!I told her to go to Marriage Couseling. She told her whole family; it was a mess. I go to sleep & wake~up every day thinking of her as does she! My birthday was January 31st. i called her, but I do not think I'll call her on Valentines Day. We agreed to pray together every night from 11:15 till 11:45 p.m.
She's with her husband & I'm home alone! I live in Temple Tx.
Love does not shut off like a water faucet; it leaks & drips some days! I miss her; I'm a single Dad trying to get my precious son through college! I need to be loved like she loved me again, but when?


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/11/2006 8:03 pm

    Quoting rm_1102wavedMy:
    Dusty~

    I'm a single dad & had a best friend that is married for 23 years in March! She fell in love with me, told me & then we fell in love with each other for almost 3 years. We had real beautiful sex only once; like maybe 6 months ago & the tried to say good~bye. I wanted to wait for her to leave her husband. The guilt was just to overwhelming for her. In the year of 2005; we broke~up maybe 25 times!I told her to go to Marriage Couseling. She told her whole family; it was a mess. I go to sleep & wake~up every day thinking of her as does she! My birthday was January 31st. i called her, but I do not think I'll call her on Valentines Day. We agreed to pray together every night from 11:15 till 11:45 p.m.
    She's with her husband & I'm home alone! I live in Temple Tx.
    Love does not shut off like a water faucet; it leaks & drips some days! I miss her; I'm a single Dad trying to get my precious son through college! I need to be loved like she loved me again, but when?
I am sorry for your heartbreak. I know first hand how difficult it is. *hugs*

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/12/2006 3:33 pm

    Quoting BigGirlzRSweet:
    Hugs... I know it's not easy to have something end before it's time... or even WHEN it's time. Grieve it... and move on. As you said, it's about all you CAN do. In the mean time... hugs and smoochies to you! You're such a beautiful woman... inside AND out!
I am moving on. I'll miss him dearly. Thanks, honey, you are beautiful inside and out, too.

DustStormDiva


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