If She/He Was Drunk . . .  

duststormdiva 51F
7253 posts
2/8/2006 12:25 pm

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If She/He Was Drunk . . .

. . . and you were sober, would you do her/him?

Inspirational Thought

It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.

-- Roy Disney



DustStormDiva



elysianpleasure 47M

2/8/2006 4:53 pm

Nope... not even tempted.

Your inspirtational thought is right on!!!


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
2/8/2006 5:11 pm

Ummm... just how drunk is he?

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


MyRealLoverOne 45M

2/8/2006 6:51 pm

Ok Dusty...I am going to bring application to your inspiration.....No! I would not do him/her. This is an easy decision because I know what my values are. Kisses!


digdug41 49M

2/8/2006 8:01 pm

at this point in time she would get it!

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ticktock500 43M

2/8/2006 8:32 pm

now we both know i wouldn't be sober


Sorceror07 54M

2/8/2006 9:08 pm

nope, simple answer for a simple question

tempted? yes, do it? no

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...


slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
2/8/2006 11:52 pm

Nope..not even. Ain't goin there. Doesn't matter how horny I might be or how bad I might want that person, but if he's that drunk..passed out...nope.

And...if it were the other way around and I was that drunk and passed out.. (which wouldn't happen cuz I rarely drink)but.. if it did...and he did do me while I was "out".. I would not be a happy camper... not sure what I would do..probably would have to depend on what the relationship was to begin with... but if it were a first date or even a 2nd or 3rd date..regardless if we "have" already at all... but I sure wouldn't want to find out that he did and then have to decide what to do about it.

I think I would feel taken advantage of...and I probably wouldn't want that person around anymore... I don't think I'd be able to trust someone if they did that.

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rm_1hotwahine 62F
21091 posts
2/9/2006 12:13 am

Interesting question, interesting answers. Aside from the fact that it's physiologically impossible for a woman to do a passed out drunk man, lol, no I wouldn't.
Wouldn't be any fun.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


MrNuttz05 49M

2/9/2006 12:42 am

Awwwww rats... Geeez... The answer to any, 'would you do her question', is supposed to be yes! So, my answer would be no... But I would cum on her left breast & call it a night... Can we all accept that? I'm begging here???


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 12:42 am

    Quoting elysianpleasure:
    Nope... not even tempted.

    Your inspirtational thought is right on!!!
Not even just a little? hehe

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 12:43 am

He's alert, horny and drunk and still has control of himself. Just loud and boisterous.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 12:44 am

    Quoting MyRealLoverOne:
    Ok Dusty...I am going to bring application to your inspiration.....No! I would not do him/her. This is an easy decision because I know what my values are. Kisses!
Honey you can bring anything to me that you like.

Kisses.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 12:45 am

    Quoting digdug41:
    at this point in time she would get it!
At this point in time because it's been awhile for you? OR at this point in time of drunkeness for her?

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 12:46 am

    Quoting ticktock500:
    now we both know i wouldn't be sober
If you were drunk and she was drunk, would you do her? teehee

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 12:47 am

    Quoting Sorceror07:
    nope, simple answer for a simple question

    tempted? yes, do it? no
Plain and simple, not hard to answer. It's black or white, no grey. I like that.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 12:50 am

    Quoting slidein2meplz:
    Nope..not even. Ain't goin there. Doesn't matter how horny I might be or how bad I might want that person, but if he's that drunk..passed out...nope.

    And...if it were the other way around and I was that drunk and passed out.. (which wouldn't happen cuz I rarely drink)but.. if it did...and he did do me while I was "out".. I would not be a happy camper... not sure what I would do..probably would have to depend on what the relationship was to begin with... but if it were a first date or even a 2nd or 3rd date..regardless if we "have" already at all... but I sure wouldn't want to find out that he did and then have to decide what to do about it.

    I think I would feel taken advantage of...and I probably wouldn't want that person around anymore... I don't think I'd be able to trust someone if they did that.
I didn't say anything about passed out, I just said drunk. *I know the pictures leads you to believe passed out. I just used it because I love the fact she peed her pants! *

What if you seduced him?

Passed out is one thing, being alert is another.

DustStormDiva


tillerbabe 55F

2/9/2006 1:59 am

I don't "do" drunk peeps. Slightly intoxicated?.....It's ON!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 5:47 am

    Quoting rm_1hotwahine:
    Interesting question, interesting answers. Aside from the fact that it's physiologically impossible for a woman to do a passed out drunk man, lol, no I wouldn't.
    Wouldn't be any fun.
What if he was not passed out. Some drunk men can still get it up.

DustStormDiva


KC_JJ 53M

2/9/2006 5:48 am

To me this whole thing might just be rooted in the idea of consent .

Is it?

Because if it is the answer from me would always be no. There is absolutely no situation imaginable in which I would have sex with anyone if I had any doubts about their desire for me to do so.

But the way in which you state this question it is not clear at all about what the drunk person wants. And that is a vitally important variable to include here.

As it stands I cannot answer this in the way that you asked because depending on the what the other (drunk) person wants it could have some very different answers from me.

Also I wonder if the answers to this question would be any different if you had specified if the kind of drunk you meant was like "borderline passed out/thoroughly inebriated" or simply "good and partied up but not out of it"

So in addition to not knowing the mindset of the drunk person there is also my uncertainty concerning how drunk they really are.

So the consent issue I already dealt with above. No way, never without clear headed absolute mutual consent.

If I did not know this person well I'd still stay clean away from it if they could barely stand.

If I knew them well already as lovers and knew that they really had wanted sex with me that night I might if I felt certain they had the capacity to actually follow though with the act. But again most likely not if they couldn't stand up straight.

I'd wait until they sobered up some so that we'd both get a lot more out of it.

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duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 5:49 am

    Quoting MrNuttz05:
    Awwwww rats... Geeez... The answer to any, 'would you do her question', is supposed to be yes! So, my answer would be no... But I would cum on her left breast & call it a night... Can we all accept that? I'm begging here???
Seems your answer is not what you want it to be. hehe. If I woke up and someone jizzed on my left breast I'd be pissed! haha you are such a nut!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 5:50 am

    Quoting tillerbabe:
    I don't "do" drunk peeps. Slightly intoxicated?.....It's ON!
Hehe slightly intoxicated!

DustStormDiva


MillsShipsGayly 51M

2/9/2006 6:17 am

In that moment when the angel on my left shoulder is arguing with the devil on my right ..... ANIMAL HOUSE

Drunk? Yes if interested
Passed out? No ... not into that necrophelia thing .. lol


campfirecozy 66M

2/9/2006 7:05 am

Well, there was one time during my young-and-stupid days, when my date passed out on me...(note: we had been out before and 'knew' each other in the most intimate ways). I unceremoniously undressed her and put her to bed...and proceded to do 'artwork' using a tiny paint brush and a bottle of Betadine. I must say, that she looked good in paisley!! P) She moaned and managed a smile as some of the areas were obviously more ticklish than others, and that aroused me. So, bottom line, I did it, somehow thinking (with the wrong anatomical organ) that she would enjoy this... I really felt bad about the experience later and it did have an impact on our level of trust that I will never forget. And I have never even considered it since! My advice...don't even think about it!


fantasylover_05 62M

2/9/2006 7:35 am

Dusty

First of all.. let me say this... I would NOT do "him" drunk or not... not even if I was drunk!! LOL LOL LOL

I would not do "her" if she was in a "drunken stupor" and not knowing what she/I was doing... I want it to be MUTUALLY pleasurable!!

Now as Tiller said..... "slightly intoxicated" is another story (with the above exception LO....

BRING IT ON TILLER!! LOL LOL


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:05 am

    Quoting KC_JJ:
    To me this whole thing might just be rooted in the idea of consent .

    Is it?

    Because if it is the answer from me would always be no. There is absolutely no situation imaginable in which I would have sex with anyone if I had any doubts about their desire for me to do so.

    But the way in which you state this question it is not clear at all about what the drunk person wants. And that is a vitally important variable to include here.

    As it stands I cannot answer this in the way that you asked because depending on the what the other (drunk) person wants it could have some very different answers from me.

    Also I wonder if the answers to this question would be any different if you had specified if the kind of drunk you meant was like "borderline passed out/thoroughly inebriated" or simply "good and partied up but not out of it"

    So in addition to not knowing the mindset of the drunk person there is also my uncertainty concerning how drunk they really are.

    So the consent issue I already dealt with above. No way, never without clear headed absolute mutual consent.

    If I did not know this person well I'd still stay clean away from it if they could barely stand.

    If I knew them well already as lovers and knew that they really had wanted sex with me that night I might if I felt certain they had the capacity to actually follow though with the act. But again most likely not if they couldn't stand up straight.

    I'd wait until they sobered up some so that we'd both get a lot more out of it.
You raised a lot of questions. I like that you didn't jump to conclusions about her situation. I did leave it wide open.

My sister was very drunk and with her boyfriend of six years and she was bartering with him for sex. Even though they were currently active, he refused to do her because of her being extremely intoxicated.

Slightly intoxicated might be different. But, I agree with you. If the other partner would not want you any other time, why would you want them while they are drunk?

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:11 am

    Quoting MillsShipsGayly:
    In that moment when the angel on my left shoulder is arguing with the devil on my right ..... ANIMAL HOUSE

    Drunk? Yes if interested
    Passed out? No ... not into that necrophelia thing .. lol
If they are passed out they don't have the opportunity to say yes or no. It's .

I learned this the hard way.

When I was 19, I went to a party. The last thing I remember is going to the bathroom, puking and tearing the toilet seat off of the toilet as I fell to pass out. When I woke up one of the guys I was partying with had stripped me naked and was butt fucking me. I have no idea if the other guy had his pleasures too.

I didn't realize then that it was "date " until years later. I felt so violated.

No means no and if they are passed out and can't give a response, it's .

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:17 am

    Quoting campfirecozy:
    Well, there was one time during my young-and-stupid days, when my date passed out on me...(note: we had been out before and 'knew' each other in the most intimate ways). I unceremoniously undressed her and put her to bed...and proceded to do 'artwork' using a tiny paint brush and a bottle of Betadine. I must say, that she looked good in paisley!! P) She moaned and managed a smile as some of the areas were obviously more ticklish than others, and that aroused me. So, bottom line, I did it, somehow thinking (with the wrong anatomical organ) that she would enjoy this... I really felt bad about the experience later and it did have an impact on our level of trust that I will never forget. And I have never even considered it since! My advice...don't even think about it!
Wow it takes a lot of courage to admit something like that. Thanks for doing so and sharing your feelings afterwards. That must have been a hard lesson for you to learn. I am glad you learned from it, though, some people don't.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 11:19 am

    Quoting fantasylover_05:
    Dusty

    First of all.. let me say this... I would NOT do "him" drunk or not... not even if I was drunk!! LOL LOL LOL

    I would not do "her" if she was in a "drunken stupor" and not knowing what she/I was doing... I want it to be MUTUALLY pleasurable!!

    Now as Tiller said..... "slightly intoxicated" is another story (with the above exception LO....

    BRING IT ON TILLER!! LOL LOL
How do you know you would not enjoy doing him? *snicker* I would!

I like slightly intoxicated sex.

DustStormDiva


canun505 40M
1 post
2/9/2006 3:22 pm

without a doubt


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/9/2006 7:50 pm

Without a doubt you would fuck her if she was drunk and you sober?

DustStormDiva


Fit131 42M

2/10/2006 1:42 pm

Umm, hope this is not in too poor taste, but I have a twisted sense of humour sometimes...

OK, I heard of this 2nd hand, but a couple had had an argument, before her night out with the girls. She left with it unresolved heading for a hen night. She stumbles back hours later to hubby, drunken and aroused by the male strippers that had been at the hen night. She wants some action from hubby but he is still fuming from the argument and is in two minds as to what to do. In the end he decides not to give in to her wishes, waits 'til she passes out and then wanks into her hair, with the intention of denying all knowledge then getting her to "explain herself" in the morning...

Don't judge me...


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/10/2006 4:23 pm

    Quoting Fit131:
    Umm, hope this is not in too poor taste, but I have a twisted sense of humour sometimes...

    OK, I heard of this 2nd hand, but a couple had had an argument, before her night out with the girls. She left with it unresolved heading for a hen night. She stumbles back hours later to hubby, drunken and aroused by the male strippers that had been at the hen night. She wants some action from hubby but he is still fuming from the argument and is in two minds as to what to do. In the end he decides not to give in to her wishes, waits 'til she passes out and then wanks into her hair, with the intention of denying all knowledge then getting her to "explain herself" in the morning...

    Don't judge me...
Oh, I have no intentions of judging you. However, I do have problems with her husband wanking in her hair. Personally, I think when a man cums in a womans face or in her hair it is sooooooooooooooo disrespectful.

Then again, I have issues with cum. I am barely coming around with the idea of having cum in my mouth.

DustStormDiva


aburrito 50M/50F

2/10/2006 11:03 pm

Not unless she changed those pants and panties...had a cold shower and had a few more sips of Absynth!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/11/2006 5:38 am

    Quoting aburrito:
    Not unless she changed those pants and panties...had a cold shower and had a few more sips of Absynth!
LMAO!!!! That was just too great! LOL

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/12/2006 3:30 pm

    Quoting BigGirlzRSweet:
    Nah... I wouldn't do it... and I'd PRAY that no one would do it to me while I was passed out drunk either! Now, if we were BOTH drunk, and NOT passed out, that's another story!
I avoid having sex with drunk men.

DustStormDiva


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