Honesty IS the Best Policy  

duststormdiva 51F
7253 posts
8/20/2005 1:36 am

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Honesty IS the Best Policy

I was reading some of keithcancook's earlier posts and was very intrigued by his post Promiscuity + Long-Term Relationships = A Good Lover???. He had shared how many lovers he had been with and wondered if all the women who raved about his love making skills were telling the truth.

Few men have asked me, "Did I make you cum?" But never has anyone asked me if they were good. If they were great lovers I told them. I have never had bad sex, it has always been at least nice.

shesaladydriver mentioned that she was 34 before she had an orgasm during intercourse, but was unsure if it was her lovers or her. Well, I was 30 before I experienced an orgasm during intercourse. It was amazing. I have never achieved an orgasm during intercourse since then. But like shesaladydriver I didn't know who to give blame to for my inability to orgasm during intercourse; however, I feel it is me.

I have always been a bit inhibited, and my upbringing taught me to wait for my husband, because premarital sex was a sin. Well, I guess you can call me the black sheep of the family because I was the only one who had children out of wedlock. I am the youngest of seven.

Because I was so uptight about sex, I feel that could have prevented me from relaxing enough to orgasm during intercourse. Even today I have to concentrate on relaxing so I can fully enjoy the moment.

Since being a member of this site, I have had some mind blowing experiences sexually. One man I have managed to meet with on a couple of occassions has totally rocked my world. (You know who you are). I can't wait to see you again.

Sorry, I drifted from the original context of this blog. I never have lied to a man about his performance. Yet, I have never been asked, "Was I good?" But as mentioned before I have been asked, "Did you cum?" I'll tell them no if I didn't, but that opens up curiosities for him to find out what he could have done differently.

keithcancook I have enjoyed your posts, past and present.


DustStormDiva



keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
8/20/2005 7:03 am

OMG! You have gone deep into my basement for that one. It was like my 5th post ever or something like that.

PS: Did you find the cookies and milk I left in the cooler down there?


rm_willie8one2 70M
573 posts
8/20/2005 8:51 am

I remember the first time I ever was with a woman that she had a climax. My then girlfriend, soon to be my wife, and I were playing around on the couch and she started to act so unusual and screaming, banging her hands around. I thought I had injured her as I was young and inexperienced with women then. How things change with age. I found out that she was almost always like this when we made love together. I never had to ask her or her me if we were satisfied. As we both knew we were. Some years later she decided that she wanted a business career and said I could have the house and the kids and off she went. Today she is wealthy but I do not think she is happy. I went on to find other loves but that is another story.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/20/2005 10:28 am

Keith, There were cookies and milk??? Well, some bastard ate them before I got to them!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/20/2005 10:30 am

Willie, it's amazing how people seek out wealth only to find out they are not happy.

DustStormDiva


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
8/20/2005 3:55 pm

I bet it was my ol pal expat who ate them. He was in my basement recently, but I figured that the food was safe in a basement room with RELATIONSHIP written right above the door! (it shoulda scared him away)

Grrr. All ya get in expats basement are waxy egg salad sandwiches left over from Easter. I swear it is true. See The Butcher, The Baker and The Candlestick Maker for more information! Also, the comment area in What at expats place has even more.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/21/2005 8:48 am

Keith, I'll have to hunt expat down and have him make more cookies for your basement. I think the milk would have been bad by now. ick!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/21/2005 10:33 am

Okay Keith, I went to your blog The Butcher, The Baker and The Candlestick Maker and Expats blog What. Quite the imagination you have there Mister. I enjoyed your struggled to find your way out of the blogging basement. Interesting writing.

I had read Expats blog once before, fuckin hot! It's 10:30 in the morning and no one to molest or to molest me! However, being the creative woman I am, I'll think of something.

DustStormDiva


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
8/21/2005 8:03 pm

Yep, those blogs show conclusively that I am truly insane; and how I got that way. It all started in expats basement. As the LURKER, I trashed his basement relentlessly with some searing sarcasm. It is all over the place in his March and April posts. We had some fun with that last spring, that is for sure!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/22/2005 12:27 am

Keith, I thought I had responded to your last comment, but it was eaten by the blog monster. Anyway, let's see if I can remember what I said.

It's a good thing that Expat didn't take your sarcasm wrong. You know how type written words can be mistaken for the wrong mood.

I love a good sarcastic personality that is filled with humor.

DustStormDiva


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
8/22/2005 3:25 pm

LMAO! He got something alright. He went and erased 50% of it. However, in those days I made copies of almost everything I did on here so maybe one day they will again be brought into the light!

This time it will be in MY blog where it will be safe. Watch out expat ol pal, the LURKER still lives!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/22/2005 7:42 pm

Gotta love that type of revenge Keith!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/25/2005 5:21 pm

You would never be interrupting anything sillysmartstylis. Thanks for your comments, and share about your first climax. I should write about mine!

DustStormDiva


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