Gold Digger  

duststormdiva 51F
7253 posts
12/11/2005 6:10 pm

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Gold Digger

I have a couple of friends who I am very close to who have married for money.

Well, the one friend, her husband is a lying a manipulative asshole.

The other one, actually snagged a decent one, but she is a bitch.

I just don't understand it. I mean I will never support a man again, but I certainly will not marry a man because he has a fat wallet. I don't need a man, nor do I want a man to pay my bills. I can do that myself. What I have is mine and I will never have to worry about getting that taken away from me.

Respect, honest, caring, honest, ethical, honest, self sufficient, honest, loving, honest, true, honest, motivated, honest, ambitiou, honest ... the list goes on and on.

What ever happend to loving someone because they have the traits listed above.

As you can see, honesty is one of the top priorities that I expect in a man.


DustStormDiva



slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
12/11/2005 9:03 pm

I know Dusty....I had one, once... and only because he died...is why I lost him. I'm still searching for one who has those traits.

I think they are out there...just where are they hiding I'd like to know. If you find a nest of 'em... holler.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


kyplowboy22 61M

12/11/2005 9:26 pm

Just look til you find it, what it is you are looking for. Just be able to know it when you see it. Later

kpb


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/11/2005 9:47 pm

slidein2meplz I think I found one. But right now my heart is with someone else. Someone else that I can't have. This other person knows where my heart is and that's okay, because we have a special friendship and if it goes further it will be in time. But he sure does make me happy for now.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/11/2005 9:49 pm

kyplowboy22 in time, dear. In time.

DustStormDiva


KC_JJ 53M

12/11/2005 11:47 pm

Well, the one friend, her husband is a lying a manipulative asshole.

Serves her right!

The other one, actually snagged a decent one, but she is a bitch.

Serves him right!

Sorry for my rash and impulsive judgements there but I think the whole "I'll love you if" type of marriages are a big crock of barnyard bicuits soaked in sheep dip topped off with a big dollop of cockamie malarkie!!!!!!!

It was nearly sweet justice when my last GF (who for the most part married for money) told me straight up that she'd made a rather large compromise when it came to the bedroom concerning her new hubby with the big p-----.....; pocketbook.

I mean I do want her to be happy but there was something that did feel a bit strange about her marrying up with a guy who seemed so out of character for her. And to me it was clearly the money that really clinched it with her for this guy.

Anyways, I now find myself in a quite familair situation around here where I suddenly have no clue what the hell I'm talking about.

So I'll now shut up and go away.

KC_JJ

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rm_willie8one2 70M
573 posts
12/12/2005 5:23 am

I have a "Gold Digger" now, what a mistake I made.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/12/2005 6:06 am

You are right, she got what she deserved and the guy gets what he deserves. If you marry for money, it's worth every penny. I'd stay single before I did that.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/12/2005 7:29 am

BigGirlzRSweet and I was perfectly content looking for men just for sexual pleasure. Now I want more. And at my age, I feel I deserve to be picky.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/12/2005 7:30 am

willie8one2 get rid of her.

DustStormDiva


KC_JJ 53M

12/12/2005 11:34 am

that sme girl friend once told me that she would be willing to be a "domestic whore" for money if it meant she'd never have to work a day job.

Well she did indeed eventually get that situation.

I once told her that she could now write off all her astroglide and other "love toy" type items on her taxes as business expenses.

She didn't think that joke was funny.

I did though.

KC_JJ

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duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/12/2005 3:55 pm

KC_JJ Well, she should be cautious of her comments if she does not want people to make jokes about it. I loved your come back, by the way.

DustStormDiva


desertsunbare 53M
35 posts
12/15/2005 1:12 am

A whore is someone that has sex with many clients for money.
It's different if you marry for money. Then you only have one client.
But yes, you're still a whore.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
12/15/2005 2:05 am

desertsunbare interesting, and how true!

DustStormDiva


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