Anal Sex Blog ... Again  

duststormdiva 51F
7253 posts
7/29/2006 11:22 am

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Anal Sex Blog ... Again


A while back I blogged on anal sex ( Anal Sex According to Me ) and expressed my appreciation for the newly found enjoyment I get from it.

I have found that when my boyfriend and I explore this area, that I get crazy with lust and desire. We usually do it with me on my belly and I am bucking back towards him to get him in as deep as possible. I love the feeling when he climaxes inside my forbidden oriface. My pussy throbs when he does.

Wild. That's how I get when we are in that position. I twist my body so that I can kiss him and I kiss him with such desire as his manhood slides in and out of my ass. My fingernails clutch the sheets, or wall, whatever I can grab ahold of at the time. Sometimes I entertwine my fingers with his and I know my nails sink into his flesh.

I have never orgasmed by anal sex alone, but have when I was on my back and rolled my hips up with my feet on his shoulders and he massaged my clit. I think that is my all time favorite anal position.

Anal sex. It's great!

DustStormDiva



abitcrazy4sex 44M
1335 posts
7/29/2006 11:50 am

anal sex rocks !! reminds me of a post i did awhile back what do you think about anal sex ? my lover had an earth shattering orgasm during anal , it was the greatest !


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/29/2006 12:34 pm

This is new to me and I am still a bit nervous with it, but I know once I fully relax, oh my God.

DustStormDiva


abitcrazy4sex 44M
1335 posts
7/29/2006 12:58 pm

    Quoting duststormdiva:
    This is new to me and I am still a bit nervous with it, but I know once I fully relax, oh my God.
yea , once you learn how much it can really make you tingle and sqyirm i think you wont want to go back . i know i dont !


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/29/2006 7:13 pm

    Quoting abitcrazy4sex:
    yea , once you learn how much it can really make you tingle and sqyirm i think you wont want to go back . i know i dont !
Oh, I enjoy making love to my boyfriend as we always have done, I'll always want to enjoy vaginal intercourse, but anal is like a bonus.

DustStormDiva


Panthiest 72M

7/29/2006 8:33 pm

I've had different reactions from different lovers. Looooong time back one woman claimed it was the only way she could have an orgasm. She didn't need lube because by the time I got around back her butt was open and ready for it plus her natural juices had run down and over her anus. She would growl and use a hand on her clit while I slid in and out. It was OK but no big deal for me. Met a woman who wanted a one night stand just to experience anal - but being ignorant, neither of us had any lube and we couldnt make it work. Then a lover of several months and I decided to try it but it wasn't spontainious. Had to have the plastic on the floor, In position, apply lube, very mechanical and not very interesting to me. My last lover of nearly a year, when she got to a certain level of heat, loved it when I reached for the lube and squirted it on her anus because she knew my fingers were going there. We never got to where I could get my cock in, not because I'm large but we never got the postion right and constantly adjusting position lost the libido momentum. But she would have full body orgasms that had her screaming when I had two fingers in her pussy and two in her putt, wiggling them as I slowly slid in ...and out...At first I wondered if it was her butt or her clit I was thumbing so I removed my fingers from her vagina and just slid in and out of her anus. She rode my fingers deeper into her butt looking me in the eye showing me and telling me how much she loved it which got me hot as a pistol. The big turn on, is the intimacy of all barriers down. By making all of her body a gift to me, with no limits, completely vulnerable she was allowing herself to feel complete pleasure which I used to take her higher and higher which even with just my fingers gave me wonderful "sympathetic" feelings. She was beside herself when she came. I stopped sucking her clit so all sensation was focused on her anus which began spasming on my fingers - which had her orgasming in waves through her whole body.
Now here's somethbing you might want to try. Later, nealy 15 minutes into giving me a delicious blow job, she returned the favor by putting a little lube on her finger and sliding it in my butt hole. I'd never had wanted that before and I had to let down my boundries and leave myself vulnerable which had me coming like a rocket. She swallowed me which she never had done before - it was total acceptance of each other...after we just lay arms around each other and let the feeling wash over. Beautiful memories.
For me, the key isn't anal itself. It's giving yourself up completely to the other and the other using that to give the most pleasure. Enjoy


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/30/2006 5:26 am

    Quoting allowmesatisfyu:
    I love anal as well. I really enjoy the feeling of an anus around my dick and I love the way it makes her feel. I was told that the orgasm is different from the orgasm from clitoral and vaginal ones. My x girlfriend and I would use a dildo as well. Her on her back, me in her anus and her using the dildo in her pussy. She would then get on her knees and I would be in her pussy and use the dildo on her ass. Lots of orgasms in all positions. Have fun and enjoy. We did. Oh I like having a finer or small vibrator in my ass while she would lick me. Man what a feeling!!!!
That's cool that you were willing to explore a little ass play too.

DustStormDiva


expatbrit49 62M

7/30/2006 7:12 am

rofl.... no argument from me or my lover

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


abitcrazy4sex 44M
1335 posts
7/30/2006 3:28 pm

    Quoting duststormdiva:
    Oh, I enjoy making love to my boyfriend as we always have done, I'll always want to enjoy vaginal intercourse, but anal is like a bonus.
bonuses are good


rm_wetfingeraz 53F
3012 posts
7/30/2006 9:48 pm

I've only done it twice but have orgasmed both times, which I guess is unusual for anal virgins. I do have to admit, however, I really have to wrap my mind around the fact that initial feeling is something trying to get in rather than something trying to come out, if you get my drift. But once I'm past that, it's been pretty awesome.


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/31/2006 6:57 am

    Quoting Panthiest:
    I've had different reactions from different lovers. Looooong time back one woman claimed it was the only way she could have an orgasm. She didn't need lube because by the time I got around back her butt was open and ready for it plus her natural juices had run down and over her anus. She would growl and use a hand on her clit while I slid in and out. It was OK but no big deal for me. Met a woman who wanted a one night stand just to experience anal - but being ignorant, neither of us had any lube and we couldnt make it work. Then a lover of several months and I decided to try it but it wasn't spontainious. Had to have the plastic on the floor, In position, apply lube, very mechanical and not very interesting to me. My last lover of nearly a year, when she got to a certain level of heat, loved it when I reached for the lube and squirted it on her anus because she knew my fingers were going there. We never got to where I could get my cock in, not because I'm large but we never got the postion right and constantly adjusting position lost the libido momentum. But she would have full body orgasms that had her screaming when I had two fingers in her pussy and two in her putt, wiggling them as I slowly slid in ...and out...At first I wondered if it was her butt or her clit I was thumbing so I removed my fingers from her vagina and just slid in and out of her anus. She rode my fingers deeper into her butt looking me in the eye showing me and telling me how much she loved it which got me hot as a pistol. The big turn on, is the intimacy of all barriers down. By making all of her body a gift to me, with no limits, completely vulnerable she was allowing herself to feel complete pleasure which I used to take her higher and higher which even with just my fingers gave me wonderful "sympathetic" feelings. She was beside herself when she came. I stopped sucking her clit so all sensation was focused on her anus which began spasming on my fingers - which had her orgasming in waves through her whole body.
    Now here's somethbing you might want to try. Later, nealy 15 minutes into giving me a delicious blow job, she returned the favor by putting a little lube on her finger and sliding it in my butt hole. I'd never had wanted that before and I had to let down my boundries and leave myself vulnerable which had me coming like a rocket. She swallowed me which she never had done before - it was total acceptance of each other...after we just lay arms around each other and let the feeling wash over. Beautiful memories.
    For me, the key isn't anal itself. It's giving yourself up completely to the other and the other using that to give the most pleasure. Enjoy
It takes a while to get the position right. My boyfriend had trouble getting his cock in but I was tense, and he is on the bigger side of average. I have learned to relax more. My biggest problem before was I could not get out of my head that he was going to get poop on his dick. Not only that, but I was taught it was so tabu and never to be explored. At first I felt I was doing something wrong. But once I got those thoughts out of my head I started enjoying it. I have found that I am extra conscience about it, and my old fears creep up, if I have just gone to the bathroom.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/31/2006 6:58 am

    Quoting expatbrit49:
    rofl.... no argument from me or my lover
You and your sexy PPS seem to have a healthy sex life. You two seem very happy. I am happy for you.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/31/2006 6:59 am

Indeed!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/31/2006 7:00 am

    Quoting fun1968xxx:
    Isn't it amazing the things we find out when we open our minds and experiment? We could be missing out on all sorts of fun if we let our inhibitions and hangups get in the way!

    Glad you are having fun!
Now and then I still let my inhibitions get in the way and that causes me to tense up and then our anal love making is not as successful. I need to stop doing that, because it really wears on my boyfriends feelings.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
7/31/2006 7:02 am

    Quoting rm_wetfingeraz:
    I've only done it twice but have orgasmed both times, which I guess is unusual for anal virgins. I do have to admit, however, I really have to wrap my mind around the fact that initial feeling is something trying to get in rather than something trying to come out, if you get my drift. But once I'm past that, it's been pretty awesome.
I totally understand why and how you have to wrap your mind around that little fact. That is one mind altering that is hard for me to do.

DustStormDiva


Panthiest 72M

7/31/2006 11:37 pm

Duststorm....I did a little research on this and back before condoms were everywhere, supposedly anal was practiced a lot more as a form of having sex with birth control. I have some erotica from the 1890's and anal seems at least as popular then as now.
If you're still feeling uptight about it from time to time, it's understandable. I found my ex really got into it when I brought her to the edge of orgasm and pulled her back a few times til her passion was over riding her concerns, then anal put her over the top. If you can't handle your guy's cock, maybe his fingers would do it for you. Maybe him too in a different way. I get very hot when I know she is loving what I am doing with her body. Also, I knew when she got her breath back, she would give me something special in return. If you're concnerned about shit on the stick (Ha!) how about taking a poop and then a shower together - soapy fingers could make you clean as a whistle and hot as a pistol. ooo-la-la!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/1/2006 8:34 am

    Quoting Panthiest:
    Duststorm....I did a little research on this and back before condoms were everywhere, supposedly anal was practiced a lot more as a form of having sex with birth control. I have some erotica from the 1890's and anal seems at least as popular then as now.
    If you're still feeling uptight about it from time to time, it's understandable. I found my ex really got into it when I brought her to the edge of orgasm and pulled her back a few times til her passion was over riding her concerns, then anal put her over the top. If you can't handle your guy's cock, maybe his fingers would do it for you. Maybe him too in a different way. I get very hot when I know she is loving what I am doing with her body. Also, I knew when she got her breath back, she would give me something special in return. If you're concnerned about shit on the stick (Ha!) how about taking a poop and then a shower together - soapy fingers could make you clean as a whistle and hot as a pistol. ooo-la-la!
I always go to the bathroom before we have sex, anal or vaginal. We do shower together. As for shit on the stick, well, I am not worried about that anymore, because my boyfriend tells me his cock comes out clean. My concern is, as wetfingeraz said, "I really have to wrap my mind around the fact that initial feeling is something trying to get in rather than something trying to come out..." I have trouble when my mind wanders about what I am doing. I will all of a sudden have an overwhelming desire to defecate. Then my body tenses up and I can't enjoy it. He knows when I am uncomfortable, and he really tries to relax me, but sometimes it just does not help, because I have let my imagination wander too far. If I can stop those thoughts, our anal love making is incredible. It was last night.

DustStormDiva


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