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Different is ok..
Different is ok..
While I don't want to give the impression that AdultFriendFinder is one of the last bastions of open minded thinkers, I do think that the mental attitude of folks who come here, especially regularly, is an improvement over what you find on other sites.
Someplace else where I have a somewhat similar profile, I got a reply of:
"so instead of all the bs about kissing why don't you just come right out and say that you are strictly looking for a piece of a__???"
And you know.. just like it was ment to, that message got under my skin a bit. I did send off a courteous reply, though I don't think she really wanted one, explaining that I figured having selected "Intimate/Physical" as what I was seeking pretty much narrowed the field for anyone reading and thus the rest of my profile would therefore actually have what I was looking for in it.
I never did get a response, and when I decide to send a follow up smart ass remark, later the same day, about being more of a leg man than an ass man I discovered she'd decided to block me.
While I can't say I've gotten a huge number of interested parties writing and responding to me on AdultFriendFinder, I can most certainly say I never got the same sort of closed minded message here. and while I certainly have occasionally sent a curious message to someone who's here looking for "the one" I have always been just that.. honestly curious about a profile that seems to vary from the theme of the site.
Different does not mean inferior.
Different does not mean superior.
Different just means different and when people can't accept that difference without automatically assigning it a value, problems will arrise.