was it doomed?  

drumsguy 45M
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11/13/2005 9:53 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

was it doomed?


my best friend told me that she was not surprised, that "S" (the soon to be ex) left me. when i asked why she answered the whole swinging thing. that throwing other partners into the mix it was inevitable that one of us would want out. my answer was 1000's of cpls swing and almost all never have any trouble.
my take on it is, she just didn't want me anymore, and THEN she found some one.
bet then again maybe playing separately was the worst idea. that was mine; swinging was a mutual decision. i never fell for my playmate. it was/is good sex...that's it.
"S" just did not love me any more, and that's it.
actually, i'm pretty sure i'm ready to move on, already. but dating scare the shit out of me. and i realize there are like a zillion men on here looking for ladies, most more handsome than me (by the way...what's with all the cock pics?). but, this may be a good place to try for a while. maybe there is one intelligent lady here that wants sex and a good honest man too.

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