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dragoniatoyou 57F
9 posts
1/8/2006 6:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

well well


I'm wondering if I'm a pig, I'm a large (ok, fat) woman, but I'm not interested in large men, so does that make me rude? I always let people know my body type before we meet and set it up so they have the option of saying "no thanks" before it goes any further. Hopefully the swimming will help in that area, lol.
I'm also wondering about age, I'm 45 but I still feel like I'm early 30's maybe. So I tend to go out with guys that are in the mid to late 30's and say no to anybody that is 48 or older, I'm not sure why I do this, I would love to meet an older man who feels and looks younger, lol, so maybe I am a pig, lol.
I'm also wondering how to say you're not interested without hurting anyones feelings, I am at a shallow stage in my life, and I do choose my dates based on looks, but what appeals to me doesn't appeal to my friends, so I don't exactly know what I'm looking for until I see it. I do however know when I see a pic and there is nothing there, but I've been told I'm not "real" because I choose not to meet someone based on their looks. So what to do?

SealyTulsaOnium 51M

1/9/2006 6:54 am

Sounds to me like you are living for your friends instead of trying to satisfy yourself. There are no easy ways to tell someone you are not interested in them without hurting their feelings. Just do it and not worry about it. All people our age are going to put on a few pounds,so don't consider yourself fat or large, just say pleasantly plump and do yo thang girl.


SealyTulsaOnium 51M

1/9/2006 6:57 am

Sounds to me like you are living for your friends instead of trying to satisfy yourself. There are no easy ways to tell someone you are not interested in them without hurting their feelings. Just do it and not worry about it. All people our age are going to put on a few pounds,so don't consider yourself fat or large, just say pleasantly plump and do yo thang girl.well well


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