Will I Be the Hero or the Wimp?  

donevan34 50M/38F
3 posts
11/1/2005 11:05 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Will I Be the Hero or the Wimp?

Today I’m going to do something different. I haven’t gotten any comments on yesterday’s story so I’ll wait for feedback for a day or two. If anyone is here to follow the fantasies, sorry ‘bout your luck chuck.

We received an e-mail on another site. A gentleman wants to meet with us Friday. Prolly won’t happen, as Jules is working ‘til 10 pm. But it brings up the question of whether I’m really ready for this. I’ve been in 3 three-somes in my life (2 MFM, 1 FMF), one with Jules (MFM). I really don’t have a problem with MFM meetings with bi-sexual males. I know that from experience.

The problem is this guy is straight. While the idea of both of us doing her at the same time is very appealing to me, that’s not what I’ve been fantasizing about. The idea of watching them both going at it makes me horny as hell. But am I a mature enough person to do this without getting hurt? I think I am, but I would never do or suggest Jules do anything that might damage what we have.

I know this is one of the things Jules wants. She got real hot at the fantasy of her doing 3 guys while I watched. She would prefer to see me with another guy, but wants to explore other activities also. That much of this is safe. It’s just that this is the first time we’ve done this particular thing. I know what I’m feeling is just last minute jitters.

I’m really putting the cart before the horse here. More to follow I’m sure J

On another topic, I may be abandoning this ID here. I can’t find a way to change us to couple, so I think if Friday does happen, and works out good we’ll be re-creating our ID. I’ll post it plainly enough for anyone interested to see.

rm_skirehoboth 60M/52F

11/3/2005 4:10 am

We have done the threesome thing and have had a lot of fun. We do have a strong relationship and talk about with we are doing.As along as we do it with the right frame of mind we feel everything is ok. But i understand what you are feeling. Keep things under control and dont do the same guy more than once.I dont know if that helps but we feel fine with doing threesomes whenever we want. we have done mfm and fmf and really enjoy it

donevan34 50M/38F

11/3/2005 5:51 am

Thanx skirehoboth, you offer some great advise. The first MFM 3way was with a good friend of mine. Unfortunately he got the idea in his head that we were going to become a 3way marriage. Needless to say (but I will anyway, lol) he is no longer a friend. Actually, to tell the truth, the whole experience was awful. I was still in denial about my sexuality, as was he. We all 3 drank alot of wine, then went to it. after a couple hours my ex (wife then) appoligized for not getting him off and informed us she was done, then passed out. So 15 minutes after she passed out he was humping my throat like a wildman, and finally shot his load in me. (we weren't worried about condom as I knew as a fact he was a virgin) So in the morning the ex (wife then, lol) was all "I'm so sorry I fucked up your first time, I'm sorry you didn't get to cum." and he says "Thats ok, Don took care of it for me." She was devistated. Hey, what can I say, I give better head then she does. The first 3way, FMF, was even worse, the ex (wife then, is this buggin you yet?) got all jealous and was convinced I was gonna run off with the other girl.

The good thing is I know the signs for those kinds of mistakes now. At least most of them. Your idea of only one timers is pretty smart. Jules and I have agreed that the only action we're doing is togather, no 1 on 1's. And I really think it was just nerves that bothered me, like I said, this is the first time I won't be participating directly.

Thanx again, you've given me alot to think about.

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