date #3  

donaldduck215 38M
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8/23/2005 9:31 pm

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date #3

ok well as i have posted on the advice lines... date #3 is set for saturday night... although it may be bumped up to sometime this week for a movie... and #4 will end up being Saturday for the dancing...

as of now i have yet to kiss this girl... it is in a way driving me crazy... she felt that she had to write me the other night and explain to me why she said no... and it was a good reason i thought...

to sum it up... she is not ready to take our friendship to that kind of level and kissing... to her... is another level of seriousness. She really likes me and enjoys being with me and also thanked me for not pushing the issue of the kiss.

as i told her, i respect her for her descisions and don't want to ppush her into anything she is uncomfortable with. i am happy to be friends and able to talk and do things with her. i also told her that i respect her and thank her for being able to tell me her feelings about this.

well she ended up resonding to this. first off she thanked me for understanding, and continued by telling me that she just wants to be sure that it is the right thing before we take any kinds of physical steps.

so for now i press on with life in general, work 50 hours a week and attend college full time, looking for spare time tha i will be able to spend with her and do things... at the same time being able to give her time and let her go with the flow of things as well

anyhow i will keep you all informed on the things that unfold so don't worry about that

SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
8/24/2005 6:52 pm

Oh! That answers my question. You did not end up kissing her that night. Well, clearly a good move. It’s cool that she wrote you to clarify her feelings. I’d rather have someone tell me that and continue to hang around with me than ditch me or gross out on me for moving in for a little lip action. No harm in playing in cool. And, your response was great–especially thanking her for telling you how she felt.

I replied on your thread–but I guess you won’t be moving in for the Rhett Butler action Saturday. But, you never know! Sometimes, once a person feels the pressure is off–suddenly they open right up! Because the feel comfortable and know you are in it more for the long haul. We’ll see! Most important thing is you do have date #3 so she MUST like you. Ok, mister, I’ll be lookin’ for you Sunday!

donaldduck215 38M
1 post
8/25/2005 6:45 pm

ok date 3 is actually bumped to tonight... we are meeting up at one of the local parks to walk in the rose gardens and chat a bit... hehe i will let you know what goes on this evening until then Chao

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