thinking of having an affair with a married man  

doingyourman 49F
15 posts
4/5/2006 6:27 am

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4/5/2006 2:04 pm

thinking of having an affair with a married man

I think it will happen soon. we work together, we're both married


4/5/2006 7:47 am

Go for it!

rm_just_me63901 43M
122 posts
4/5/2006 7:56 am

I would do a married woman, but you already knew that. Each to there own, but the fact that your questioning it would make me reconsider. However, I dont know any history on the situation so who am I to say? Life is short, Live it!

rm_crtyboy4 69M

4/5/2006 7:57 am

Don't, you will regert it

Fletch8491 50M

4/5/2006 7:58 am

Add that spice to your life! You deserve it.

SaucyNSassy 38F

4/5/2006 7:59 am

Don't do it! BUT since you probably will - read this first...[post 158198]

Good Luck,

HotSexyCupl 46M/42F

4/5/2006 9:50 am

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gemini0157 59M  
6842 posts
4/5/2006 10:02 am

I would have to say... This is probably not a good idea for a couple of reasons.... working at the same place for one.... I know it may seem like the easiest thing to do but, it can cause more problems than it will solve.....

rm_mesquitemom 43
23 posts
4/5/2006 12:12 pm

Doingyour man,

I can honestly say I am sitting on the other side of the spectrum.
I've been having an affair with a married man for 3 years now. I know he will never leave his wife, nor do I want him to. I love him, but I am not in love with him. I couldn't have an affair with someone for 3 years and not love them in some spectrum. We've talked about it, we both feel the same way.
After we've fucked each other senseless, lie there in our own sweat and juices, we talk - even about her. We both went into this with open eyes and up front honesty - and it's what has worked for us. I am single - and though I'd love that someone to roll over and hold onto at 3 AM, for now until he comes along, my married man works.
Women who are going to have affairs with a married man should go into things honestly and with open eyes, not diluding themselves. If a woman can't do this, or isn't "built that way" - stay away from them! For those of us who can, or consider it, have to know they will never leave thier wives and be fine with that - open with them about it - and enjoy the ride while it lasts.
Whatever you do, be happy and settled about it - just know with him ahead of time that things will never change the home life.

rm_DrBuzz2 46M
112 posts
4/5/2006 12:40 pm

Tough one - If you've done this before then go for it! If you have not, then think hard before you go down this road...... there is no turning back...,for better or for worse

MONA_14 29F

4/5/2006 12:54 pm

you are invited to be our Friends

rrr45044 61M

4/5/2006 12:57 pm

If it's for the sex, then go for it. It would be nice to have a change of pace sexually. Learn a new position, skill, whatever.

If it's for love, forget it.

rm_NOCUT41 51M
1 post
4/7/2006 4:13 pm


SirMounts 102M

4/23/2006 9:03 am

Well, at the end of the day, only you can decide what is right, and wrong for you. But go into it with your eyes open, knowing that you might be risking... absolutely everything.
Welcome to blogging, doingyourman. *smiling*

rm_therocket29 41M

4/24/2006 12:13 pm

go get it, escpecially me, i know the feeling and why we do it. that is why i am here. if interested meager29 at y ahoo

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