HARD or s o f t  

docdirk 47M
5418 posts
2/4/2006 3:33 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

HARD or s o f t

Hard or Soft?

How do you want to be touched?

Do you want it hard? Do you want to be taken? Forcefully, powerfully, confidently? Do you want to be swept off your feet... urged to your knees... legs in the air... pulling of the hair... skin slapping skin... penetrating deep within? Do you want to your clothes ripped to shreds? Thrown down on the bed? Loud screams and pleas, carpet-burned knees, loss of control until sweat and exhaustion take its toll?

Or do you want it soft? Do you want your body to be explored like a new-found world? Read like a braille poem? Slowly, erotically, sensually? No stone unturned... no square inch spurned... no silken hair unraised... every slight touch praised? Shall I brush the hair from your eyes, shall I run my nails across your thighs? Shall I massage your flesh and give you chills? Shall I lick and caress until your passion spills?

Like most, my desires change with the days, throughout the days. Sometimes, I just want a good, hard fuck. But lately, I've been craving something softer. Something longer. Something lingering. Two naked bodies bathed in candlelight, touching, teasing, exploring. I think it would be great for both my partner and I to achieve climax without penetration. Just to see if we could arouse one another that much.

It could take all night. But dammit, I'm dedicated!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

SexyRycheBabe 44F
820 posts
2/5/2006 1:50 pm

Hmmmm... I like the idea of climax without penetration. It would certainly be a lot of fun to try and make for a completely sensual experience. And, probably amazing.

You're going to get a lot of offers to be your partner in experimenting with this, so, I'm not even going to try to compete. Thanks for giving me something to think about, though.

And, I have to agree, some days it's great rough and fast. Sweaty and filled with need. Delightful. Dirty. Angry. Stress-relieving. Other times, when emotion is involved, it's great to be soft and slow. Meaningful. Deep. Loving. Spiritual. Life-affirming.

May I suggest an every-other-day, rotating schedule?

docdirk 47M

2/5/2006 10:08 pm

SRB - Compete? You're at the top of the list!! And I could definitely go for the rotating schedule. When would you like to be rotated? LOL!!!

sweetneeds2 - Yes, dedicated I am. And I'm sure you have NO problem turning soft to hard!!!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

kyplowboy22 61M

2/6/2006 6:56 am

Nothing wrong with dedication, beau. Just remember, practice makes perfect. lol


SexyRycheBabe 44F
820 posts
2/6/2006 7:47 am

doc, I can handle a rotating schedule, too. I think I'd like to be rotated twice a day. Fast in the mornings. Slow at night. On the weekends, I think I could squeeze in a mid-day hard/fast, soft/slow combo. What about you?

SilkenKiera 37F  

2/6/2006 11:36 am

J.J. That sounds sooo hot. We all have to remember to back it down a notch and build it back up again! It's hard to do, but worth it in the end!


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
2/8/2006 12:02 am

Okay, first we can fulfill your candle light fantasy... then you can take me as in the description in the beginning part of your blog.


docdirk 47M

2/8/2006 5:01 pm

Hey Mzhony, Kiera, Dusty, sounds as if a mix of the two styles is the key. Of course, I knew it all along. Only so much gentle teasin a guy can take before he needs to get down to it!!

KPB, A yes, practice does make perfect, eh? (Well, OK maybe not "perfect," but as close as we can!!)

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

mangomamiCT 41F

2/8/2006 9:26 pm

I want it all !!!!!!!!!!!! YUmmy

docdirk 47M

2/11/2006 2:32 pm

Mango - Your wish is my command!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

NSAAddict 42F

2/11/2006 3:51 pm

Sign me up for a number two as an appetizer, number one as a main course and a return to number two for dessert please! And then as we lie there completely exhausted, I want you to read me this poem so it can linger in my mind replaying the night's events as I drive home with a dazed on my face. whew... I'm hot... thank you...

docdirk 47M

2/18/2006 11:28 pm

Candy - Keep that up and I'm gonna have to call 911! Bad Candy. Bad, bad Candy!!!!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

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