A little about me  

dlvryboy4u 47M
5 posts
11/20/2005 7:55 pm

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A little about me

So here I am the new kid on the block in this vast jungle know as A.F.F. Not quite sure what a blog even is I figured just jump in and hope the landing is soft. I am a 33yr old father and husband, very happy with both. Before the birth of my daughter sex in the ole household was 3 or 4 times a week on average, sometime even 2 or 3 times in the same day. With the pregnancy of my wife it went up even more, Then with the birth of my daughter (whom I love) the sex came to a screaching halt. The first whole year I was very understanding, Mom not feeling good about her body, little or no time, worried about waking baby, and sweet sweet sleep. Year 2 I start trying to build up her self esteme telling her how beautiful and great she looked (and she did). Still nothing. Well here we are on year 3 and daddy needs a little physical healing. This has been a year or 3 in my life. Now I'm going to go read some other blogs and see what is supposed to be in here.

imBambi 58M/50F

11/20/2005 8:55 pm

Dear FedEx Man (delivery boy),

Just a bit of humor with your name - hope you don't mind... Anyway, I took a peep at your profile - it's great. Your blog is honest, straight forward, well written, and it explains a lot. I think you will find what you are looking for on this site. However, it might take longer than you want for several reasons:

1) You are a man (most people want single women).
2) You live in Illinois (versus a really swinging place).
3) Being married reduces your chances even further.

Here are my SUGGESTIONS...

Generally, from this point on, all you need to do is write a daily blog. Keep it fairly short (as you have done) - unless you really have something compelling to say. Be open with your emotions and about who you are. Above all, have a very catchy title (just as you have done). There are thousands of blogs out there, the ones that get read are the ones with the best title (until you establish a following).

There is also a section for questions and answers - be sure to post INTELLIGENT questions and provide answers to questions posed by others.

As for the magazine, if you are so inclined, write an article. Although the magazine will not give you good readership, you can tell people to read one of your articles after they make initial contact with you. This is one way of demonstrating your intelligence (which you obviously have), your opinions, and your creativity.

Finally, read the blogs of others and comment. This will attract other people to your blog. Also, some of the blogs will give you ideas on what to write about (especially the blogs written by MzHoneyHole? - she is always one of the most popular bloggers).

Good luck!
"Mr. Bambi" (also known as AtomicKisss)

rm_lickmepretty 50F
851 posts
11/20/2005 9:19 pm

Hi, welcome to blog!

Are you aware there is a new group created for bloggers and their readership to meet and frolic in the chat room? (A place for serious discussion as well)

A group where interesting blog posts will be “spot-lighted” along with the links of how to get there. A place where new kids on the block can actually get seen as well as the predominant “hierarchy”.

A place where ideas can flow--from suggested blog topics, to writing "critiques", to directions on how to better use the elements of color, photos, and font style/size to make your blog more eye appealing; as well as instructions on how to better use linking to other posts.

Being that this is an adult site, we will also have a group post running where writers and their followers can indicate where they're from so maybe you might actually be able to meet some folk "local" to you.

Flirtatious banter is encouraged--crude obscene assaults will not be tolerated and are subject to deletion.

So...Stop in and have a little fun over your cup o' joe!

Here is a link to the group Blog Cafe, look forward to meeting you there!

(come find out what blog can be)

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