I am not crazy about recieving oral sex am i frigid?  

diva371969 47F
140 posts
5/28/2006 2:16 pm

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I am not crazy about recieving oral sex am i frigid?

I dont enjoy oral sex (recieving). Does that make me frigid....I love giving!...how important is oral sex too you???????????? there are other ways to make a woman hottt then going down on her for an hour...kisssing....caressing...touching....knibbling on other parts of her body....so why is mouth on vagina so important?....i personally enjoy penetration the most...some stimulation is required (of course)...but...could most men brag about their oral abilities because they lack in other areas???????????????????????
youre frigid!
i am like that and you are perfectly normal!
you are crazy oral is the best!
oral sex is all i care for penetration is the least turn on!
youve gotta lick it before you stick it!
there are other ways to make a woman hot besides going there!
i dont like oral period !...i think its disgusting....no bodies mouth belongs there!
maybe you should go see a sex therapist?

Shelly_Marie 43F

5/28/2006 2:31 pm

i am not 'crazy' about it, either actually. But I do like it from time to time depending on my mood, but i also could do without it, totally too. I like giving oral sex better and it turns me on alot more...penetration does too. we'll have to see what other people think on this too...lol...

Shelly_Marie 43F

5/28/2006 2:33 pm

added: you might like it more if someone did it that was really good at doing it, too...not sure...

JaniSux 44F

5/28/2006 2:42 pm

I love being eaten, BUT it is not for everyone. My younger sister has never liked it and she may never enjoy it. We all have our likes and dislikes, oral sex included. You are just as normal as the next person. You are allowed to dislike something, it certainly does not mean frigidity.


LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
5/28/2006 2:59 pm

Hiya Diva

shelly is right ...... how he does it matters ......i do enjoy good licking , for a while ... what i dont like is it going on forever

if only a part of the overall things done, and done to my instuctions, its great ..... but many guys seem to have the idea that its critical and must be forever. ... yuk to that.

this changing around applies to ALL things for me ... anyonedone for long time gets boring ..... keep changing (including oral). and it's great for me. .. and that includes changing speeds for oral, fingers, cock

yes, i REALLY like sucking a cock ... i can even cum just doing that if the guy is highly reactive so that i know im turning him crazy..


free2chose2 66F

5/28/2006 3:22 pm

Until recently I didn't "appreciate"being an oral receiver-guess I had never gotten over the hill before

Don't worry, be Happy

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
5/28/2006 3:30 pm

I fully agree with janisux. Shortdogg

roosterz13 43M
2 posts
5/29/2006 7:11 am

(DIVA) your not frigid, my girlfriend was the same way, when we first started going out, the first time I went down on her she told me to stop that she didn't like it,I told her just lay back & enjoy now she can't get enough (oral) so I think if you get with the right guy that knows what he doing & he's gently & caring you will learn to really enjoy, happy hunting!!!

buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
5/30/2006 12:32 pm

You're fine. If you give but don't like to receive, any man who complains about it isn't worth your attention. There are lots of men out there who would think they had died and gone to heaven in such a situation. Could be you just havn't been with a man who knows how to do it for you, but the bottom line is if you don't like it that's fine.

diva371969 47F

5/30/2006 7:55 pm


eroticalover1 42F

6/1/2006 1:08 pm

Well, I think everyone is different in all things. Oral stimulation will only achieve the desired results when you are with someone that you feel relaxed enough with, are aroused by them and they take the time and LISTEN to what you say you like!!

If you had a lover do that my sweet, you'd have some kinda fun!!

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