dicegrrl 39F
146 posts
11/9/2005 10:35 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Ok, fair warning, I'm really cranky right now. My shoulder is killing me from a horse accident this summer and is still not fixed and vicodin is not helping. So here I am to voice my opinion on the male hypocrites I find here.

One of the things that really hacks me off is when I read a man's profile and find this "I'm not changing my life, just looking to add excitement/sex/what have you". Do they realize how insulting that is? First, it's just plain stupid. You ARE here to change your life because if you wanted it to remain the same you wouldn't be here. Get a clue.

Second, just be a man and state what you want. I've said it, I want a steady fuck buddy. What I'm not going to do is say "You are so insignificant that I won't include you in my life". Which is what the previous statement of "not changing my life.." really says and really means "I'll fuck you but I won't respect you". I have never responded to an email when a man has this in his profile. It's extremely rude and typical of the male bullshit that we women on this site have to put up with just to find one decent man. I'm in no way defending women here either. I know there are women here to play this game too. I'm just so sick of this cop-out that I keep finding on the male profiles out there. Makes me glad I'm single sometimes.

JarrodSparrow 33M

11/9/2005 3:57 pm

Wow...you are cranky, D...but I understand your thinking.

There's no place here for that, but it goes on a lot and it makes the few women who are here (what is it, a 3 or 4 to 1 ratio?) want to talk to men less and makes them wonder if there really are any decent guys.

You would hope that they would understand this dilemma once they wrote it, but some men are just dense.

And I don't know if I'm glad to be single, but I'm definitely not rushing into one of those shallow relationships either.


rm_kc146970 46M

11/9/2005 7:01 pm

I hear what you are saying dicegrrl...Both men and women need to be honest with themselves and tell the truth about what they want. I am looking for a fuck buddy!! Not a girlfriend, not a wife, and not a friend! Yet, I meet woman on this site who want to "change" me...All men and women dicegrrl is speaking the truth...except girls are as big of hypocrites as the boys...

rm_GMJack75 41M
4 posts
11/10/2005 9:27 am

Well spoken Dicegrrl, like you said; Just being on this site is a change all in itself. Meeting someone, for the most part will change you in some way or another. It may be so miniscule that you don't really notice, but it's there....

Frostygirl 46F

11/24/2005 6:29 am

dicegrll..rock on sista...This is so well said and I feel the same exact way!

dicegrrl 39F

11/24/2005 3:15 pm

Thank you all for backing me up on this. I was beginning to think I was the only one who saw this bs around the site. Again, I wasn't defending women either. I know there is a lot of bs on both ends of the spectrum so let's just be honest and sincere and see where that takes us. I hope you all find what/who you are looking for!

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