If You Had To Do Without One Sex Act ....  

dfw_femme_fatale 46F
412 posts
1/12/2006 2:56 pm

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If You Had To Do Without One Sex Act ....

Back to the little book of "If"

"If you had to give up one sex act for the rest of your life which would you choose?"

That's an easy question for me ... as I consider oral sex ... sex.

I would choose receiving oral. It's never done much for me, no matter how accomplished the giver. Just never enjoyed it.

So what about you, what would you give up?

bangingmyhead 54M
157 posts
1/12/2006 8:24 pm

Like you, I would give up receiving oral. I would rather give. It could be that it's been so long that I don't remember what it's like

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
1/13/2006 1:58 pm

For you I would give up Giving oral sex so I can recieve from you! I know you could suck me cross-eyed. I just love a girl who loves cock! From then on it's "game on"!

TrueTxGtlman 53M

1/18/2006 6:20 am

If I had to give something up I would not want to give up receiving oral or giving oral as that is the one true sexual pleasure that you can give and the other can just receive. That is the highest feeling for me to know I was giving such pleasure. But ANAL sex I could live without. There you have other choices for about the same stimulation and since I don't receive anal it wouldn't be any particular loss for me. BUTT since it has been awhile for any sexual encounters for me... I guess I should say I have given it all up and that really sucks. Nice post I_HEART.


TrueTxGtlman 53M

1/18/2006 6:35 pm

So are you the captain of this Titanic? All I know is people on the real Titanic had better luck than me. Hope you steer you way through the icebergs and captain us to the promise land, AND SOON!!!!!!!!!!


rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
1/19/2006 4:59 am

It has been a long time since I was in Dallas! While I was there I went shopping in a Texas sized Mall and there was an ice skating rink in the middle. Some business associates and I were having some drinks and watching people try to ice skate. I had nobody like you to visit then! The story of my life revealed!

rm_chocluv213 44M
7 posts
1/21/2006 3:01 pm

I'm gonna have to agree with TX. If I had to give up something, it would have to be Anal. I love Oral way too much. Besides, anal can be a bit of a hassle.

rm_texasunit 48M

2/17/2007 6:35 pm

I would forego anal sex too...this lady put two fingers in last week and I'm still sitting funny.

loisandclark24 50M/47F
72 posts
2/17/2007 6:40 pm

I think that question would be better to give up one sex act you do. If you do not scat or anal, you would not miss them. Me Anal would be mine, but Lois and I do not want or desire anal sex. I say...

What one sex act you enjoy...would you give up?

Well it can't be receiving oral, because there is nothing like head from a lady who enjoys the art of head. And yes it is an art!

Can't be penetration, because the act of -making love- puts me in a state of euphoria.

Can't be kissing because just as there is an art to head...kissing is very sexual, and there is an art to that also.

So I would say giving oral...all though...I love giving oral, what is the use if the other is not into it?


openDFWguy 48M

3/10/2007 7:34 pm

Clark has it right about "its about giving up something you'd miss"....


flirting, when done right, is as much sex as physical contact.. the cerebral part of sex is paramount.

I am fascinated by a partner's power over me as they give me oral sex. so recieving is WAY out. (iim selfish that way)

I pride myself on giving head. So, like our Blog-Host, I couldn't give up giving.

penetration is not an option to give up.

Since so few truly understand anal-sex, how to properly give or recieve it, & all the hassles... I just can't bring myself to give it up...

I think it would have to be role-play & drastic kink... the mind-fuck (good kind) of role play is sooo erotic.. but, to sacrifice it & keep the rest... I can be me... lol


rm_DaddyDom57 59M
7 posts
6/18/2007 4:35 pm

Hmmmm....gotta think about this one........what would I give up???

Damn girl, thats a TOUGH one.

I know, I'd give up........um, no, I like that to much too....hmmmm

Oh, Oh, how about ..........no......not that either...damn

oh hell, I give up, just shoot me instead........sigh.

DoctorAutobahn 48M
25 posts
2/6/2008 11:08 am

Something I'd miss, probably receiving oral. The reason is because I've got kind of a thick one and I've met so FEW women who can do much with it that I don't even expect to be pleasurably fellated yet it remains an aspiration.

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