devil91166 50F
19 posts
7/23/2006 5:32 am

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10/19/2006 3:54 pm


Okay here is another question. Why do men want to just meet and not get to know the woman first? I like to chat for a bit and see if i even have a connection with the man first. And why is it when you meet them one time and they never say anything to you again after that. They could at least say sorry had a good time but dont want to see you again lol. Oh well i dont think i will ever understand men lol.

ZZ_Todd 59M

7/23/2006 5:57 am

Because most men are selfish... and overdosed on testosterone. They seem to forget that feelings are an important ingredient to human interaction, whether it be sexual or otherwise. And, I suppose many think that because this is a "sex" site that women here are "looking for" that, even when the women make it clear that they aren't. For me, it's an outlet for my personal expression in my blog... meeting someone is really only a nice bonus to being here.

huggablemike1978 38M
6 posts
8/7/2006 2:00 pm

I agree with ZZ, but in addition to that, you have to take into account that there are many WOMEN who do the same thing. I've talked to a few women who within 10 words have wanted to get together...In my more immature days I'd take them up on that, but now I'd rather get to know a woman, find out who she is, what she's all about and if there's even a chance that we'd have a good time together outside of the bedroom. Thoe women believe they can get any guy that they want so they'll just say it right off the bat..but then they get defensive and obnoxious if you turn them down or tell them you want to talk more first. (I have only had that happen once on AdultFriendFinder btw)

Personally, for me the personality and that spark that's generated from intersting conversation is more important than seeing a pair of breasts or even a wonderful smile. but hey....that's me, there's a lot of scumbags out there too (of the male AND female variety).

devil91166 50F

8/9/2006 5:19 am

Huggable I agree with you it is men and woman that do that. It just sucks. They are all in a contest and says who can get laid the most. Even if you get to know a person they do the same thing. But you know what i guess life is to short to even worry about that anymore.

sweetsmile58 60M/58F

8/18/2006 9:32 pm

You just haven't met the right guy yet.

rm_raregems2 63M
5 posts
8/20/2006 4:01 am

Well Devil,we arn't all like that,I for one like to get to know a woman and talking and being friends is half the fun of meeting someone.And just jump em and run is being just plain rude I think,but then what do I know,I'm just a man? lolAm I making any sense?

devil91166 50F

8/20/2006 7:03 pm

Yes bigwilly you are right not all men are alike. Just now adays you dont know which ones are good and which ones arent anymore. It just seems they just want to fuck and leave. Oh well.

Scorpio111463 53M

9/13/2006 2:28 pm

Hey Devil, I'm new here but I think you're right men are mostly like that but I know I'm here because in my last relationship my other just didn't enjoy sex as much as I did and that made it hard to be compatible. I'm hoping to meet someone here who I know I share at least one thing with and hopefully expand from there....

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