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Where to begin...
Where to begin...
It's odd really. For the most part we are all on here looking for similar things, but it seems for so many on this site, we don't really find it. My quest began over 1 year ago...
I heard about the site from a woman who works in my office. She was telling my HR rep how she had placed an ad into this AdultFriendFinder site and had been inundated with email from adoring males from all over the Springfield area, but so far had only been able to hook up with 1 of them.
"Hmmmm." I thought. "Maybe this would work for me." So I signed up, began to look through the various ads (some of you ladies have some very hot photos in your ads, by the way), and found several ladies whom I thought would be a blast to get to know, and sent them an email. Sure enough, I received some responses, we exchanged outside email addresses, and suddenly my email was filled with offers from young cheerleaders to see them on their website, for a nominal charge, of course. Curses.
More looking. Several more replies to ads. A couple of return emails. Nothing.
Months went by. I mean, I got more action when I was a broke teen and barely knew how to pronounce various female body parts, let alone knowing anything about how to make a woman feel good like I know now.
Met up with a nice woman, had some coffee, flirted some, even played a couple of times, then nothing.
So now here I am, wondering how the world has changed so much. It's not like I'm some kind of ogre or something. I'm a pretty good looking guy (OK. I'm no Adonis) but I have nice teeth, keep myself well, clean cut, smell good, decent sense of humor, nice size (both the obvious and private). But for the life of me I can't figure out what it is that women want on here.
I thought I knew the answer to that when I signed up, and reading the ads it would seem to be evident. I don't know if maybe there are so many responses that some of you women just throw them away, or if there are too many to process, or if I have really lost it that badly. Or maybe a combination of them.