It's lonely sometimes in this crowded world  

desertslowhand 52M
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6/5/2006 12:07 am

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7/8/2007 11:23 pm

It's lonely sometimes in this crowded world

I would like someone to explain to me what a man is supposed to do when his wife has decided that sex is simply a chore, a duty, that she will perform when requested, but little more.
It's not as though I am a "wham-bam-Thank-you-Maam" kind of guy. I want to make love to her. I want to go down on her and make her come first. I want to do different things and do them different places. If I could get her to tell me what she wants (and I have asked!) I would do it. Willingly! It's been my therory since high school that if the girl enjoys it, then she is going to be more interested in doing it again. And I really want to do it again. And again.
Every time I have tried to do something to improve our (my) sex life, it has made things even worse. At several points I have almost really cheated on her, but I would chicken out at the last minute and simply go back and make another attempt to interest her in me.
And each time, my thoughts return to what it would be like to have really passionate sex again. The kind you have when she is really into it! That is what I really want!


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