Male Harem, or Polyandry Post I  

demonicsexkitten 41F
7229 posts
11/20/2005 11:27 pm

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Male Harem, or Polyandry Post I


OK... some of my friends on this site have surely given up on me EVER getting my Polyandry post I've been talking about for the past month written. And no... i'm still not quite writing it. But I was thinking about life this morning, and my family, and remembered... Grandma had a live-in boyfriend for years while her (live-in) husband was still alive. And given "common law marriage" (Did WA state have common law marriage in the 70's? I only know of Idaho laws)... technically, my grandma was in a Polyandrous marriage. Two Husbands. Strange, now that I think about it.

shyknight2005 42M
163 posts
11/21/2005 11:55 pm

Hmm...so granny and you have the same ideas about love, sex, and marriage, eh? Is it a genetic factor that women in your family are not happy with only one man, or is it upbringing? Interesting if it is a genetic trait...looking for more than one mate...hmm...


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
11/22/2005 9:11 am

well... for me, it was never "want more than one"... i've always and only ever wanted one. but everytime i pray "God, i'm tired of waiting! please send me the one i'm to marry!" and suddenly there are 3 guys asking.... anyhow...

grandma's husband was 17 yrs older than her... and my first serious relationship... he was 16 yrs older than me. so my family wonders if THAT is somehow genetic. on the other hand.. my dad is dating a 23 yr old, and my mom a 30 yr old... (shortly after which i was proposed to by 2 14 yr olds..)

ok... so maybe my family, genetics and all, is just totally screwed up

oh... and my brother is dating a stripper. whom he paid to give a lapdance to our mom when he stopped to pick up his paycheck (he was a bouncer for a while). now THAT is totally wrong... hahahha. but at least i'm forwarned... never go anywhere with my brother. "just in case". of course, i already knew that. Mom's still trying to figure out how to get even... i don't think it's possible.


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
12/4/2005 2:36 pm

Well, maybe you should check The Karmic Stud Book, Second Edition for ideas

I rather envy you, three guys after you at the same time? Lovely thought...

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


letshavefun020 51M
17 posts
2/19/2006 7:48 pm

I think Polyamory can be a good thing. It is clearly not for everyone but it could be for some. For me, for you? Time will tell.


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
2/15/2013 9:25 pm

albuqcpl: Theirs didn't work so well. He was "a roommate" renting a room. Mom suspects Grandpa's unwillingness to take his anger out on Grandma is part of why he abused his kids so badly.

I'm not made for a polyandrous relationship. I'm too territorial. While I believe I would be fine with multiple men... I was raised to be "fair" and if they must share me: then I have to expect to share them. And I don't do well with sharing. I take it personally... if a man wants somebody else: then obviously I am not good enough. Of course, it would possibly be different if 2 people entered into a polygamous relationship together, open and honest about it.


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