Maybe this site is not for me  

deliciouskity 39F
73 posts
7/28/2005 7:40 am

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Maybe this site is not for me

Hey All

I have started to realize that maybe this site is not ment for me . I have to say even though I am into certin things I am not one who likes to be treated like a whore . Maybe its just me but I tend to get thoes emails that are like " hey baby lets fuck " ect.... That to me is rude and I dont know what woman responds to that . I think the only reason I stay on this site is because I have met some great people and I knwo that not everyone is like that . I understand this is a sex and swingers site but come on people lets not go over board with stuff .

nightstogether 56M

7/28/2005 8:07 am

All the women here get those mails; sad but true. Some men actually believe that telling someone they should f*ck with them just like that works!

private-intellectual (.de)

redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
7/28/2005 8:54 am

Hey kitty, here is an idea. You initiate the contact establishing the type of contact you like. Put up filters on your email to allow only the type of contact you like. You can customize your experience to suit you.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
7/28/2005 9:01 am

deliciouskity - The beauty of the emails, you can ignore the one's you would like to. No, not everyone is like that on this site...just read some of the other blogs and you will see....

Hang in there... have fun.... and tell the others "Bite Me!!" lol...


deliciouskity 39F

7/28/2005 9:40 am

I dotn get it and I am sure there are woman who are ok with it , but I knwo that I am not . I am not the type to just have sex with everyone I meet . I have to get to know that first and talk with them and become friends and then I may not even its all about hwo I feel when I am with that person ect....


lookinferalady 35M/30F
1 post
7/28/2005 9:51 am

but dont u see, thats why there are these sites, for guys ike that, cant get anywhere close to a girl in the first place because of how rude they are, they are basically tryin to degrade us all, including the sweet gentlemen on here, dont let those dinks ruin it fer u dollface, im lookin fer a ladie, n guys STILL email me askin me to fuck, they jus dont get the point, hang on, ull find what ur lookin for, if u leave then those guys got exactly what they wanted love, take care

deliciouskity 39F

7/28/2005 10:35 am

Wow I am very glad I am not the only female on this site that feels the same way . I am going to hang in there , I know that not all guys on here are like that . I have some great guy friends and even met a few in person and thoes dates turned out to be great . I am very up front I let people knwo right away I dont chat about sex right away I am more than just a peice of ass . get to know me and you will find that out


ndhanks 53M
12 posts
7/28/2005 10:59 am

This site is like the rest of the world, you have your jerks and your nice guys. Don't let a few spoil it for the rest of us. Be patient, ignore those jerks. Change your profile to reflect your feelings, you will still get the jerks, but I would bet not as many.

Have a great Day

deliciouskity 39F

7/28/2005 2:53 pm

Yeah I think that is what I thought I did but oh well I might have to go back and re do somethings . Thanks again for the responce back.

hepcat0 36M
8 posts
7/28/2005 3:35 pm

I almost don't have anything to add, everyone is right.
Unfortunately the jerk asses make it hard for all of us, even us guys. My fear is that when I try to talk to someone on here I will be mistaken for those jerks. It makes it hard for guys like me, and I'm sure the guys that posted in here, who want to talk and get to know somebody and just see what happens. So, I hope you don't give up, you deserveto find what you are looking for.

deliciouskity 39F

7/28/2005 4:02 pm

Thank you , I fell that everyone deserve to get what they want and I am not going to stop looking for it . I try and give everyone a chance that emails me or leave me a post , unless the first thing is hey baby lets do it or anything along thoes lines. You can never have too many friends

Naughtywench4u2 44F

7/28/2005 9:32 pm

Hang in there sweetie. I do know exactly what you're talking about but don't let those asses win out. ((Hugs))

deliciouskity 39F

7/28/2005 10:43 pm


I wont and thank you so much for the responce, I do have to say I love tour pic =)~ , Hope we can chat , email me sometime .


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