Friday the 13th  

deeonlee111 57F
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1/15/2006 2:14 pm

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Friday the 13th

Has it been 3 months since I've been here? I wish that I could say that I was having sooooooooo much fun that I didn't have time to time to post. Not the case. Due to circumstances and distance, my friend and I aren't as hot and heavy. He says that he loves me and that because his love isn't based on sex, it doesn't kill him to be away from me. As long as he gets to talk to me and knows I'm thinking about him, he can be content. Hmmm....isn't that where I came in? There is someone else I've been talking to. He's younger than me and with the prettiest eyes and the sexiest smile. I'm trying to write a scenario for us, but for some reason I get only so far before I get stuck. Maybe I just need to let my imagination run wild a bit. The fact that we haven't done anything except shake hands might have something to do with it. Anyway...Friday the 13th. I love the day because it has never been anything except lucky for me. But his one finally got me. I was at my friend's house, like I am every Friday night, and we had a great time as always. I did shots, which I usually don't and believe me this made me a little forgetful. No I do not drive when I am snockered. Will stay put till I'm able to drive safely. Anyway, I was leaving and was ready to drive off when I realized I had left some pictures in her house. I got out and went back into the house to get the pics. I got back to the car and realized that the door was locked and that the car was still running! I spent the next 20 minutes looking for a locksmith. Everyone was either closed, didn't answer the phone or the number was no good. I was about to give up when my friend called her brother to ask if he could help. He said sorry, he was wasted and had no ideas. I was frustrated,but couldn't blame anyone but myself. Then the phone rang. It was her brother saying he had a buddy there who did the exact same thing and gave us the name. I called and 30 minutes later I was on my way home. I guess that in a way Friday the 13th is still kinda lucky for me.

rm_John66235 66M

1/15/2006 4:32 pm

Well I had a good Friday the 13th too (but in a different way ). --

On the topic of a distant relationship... I was in a long distance relationship with my ebony babe for 2 years, but in the end it broke down because of the distance, and also because of her overwhelming need for sex . (she needed it more than I did ). I'm still in love with her, and I always will be -- but it's over.

I guess it all comes down to the 'strength' of the individuals involved , whether a widely separated or long distance relationship will survive.
I had the strength, but my babe didn't !

I hope yours works out ok dee.

deeonlee111 57F

1/15/2006 4:58 pm

John, the need for sexual contact can be a strong one as you can tell by all the people on the site. I don't expect it all day everyday, but once every two or three weeks doesn't do it for me. You can have all kinds of feelings for someone but your lives need to be in sync for the most part. Especially when it comes to sex. As I grow older my urges get stronger and self gratification gets old. There's more to it than that, but I think you get the drift. I'm sorry your situation didn't work out, but with the new year comes new promise. Don't give up.

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