One Night Stands (Hate them!)  

dcupmama 49F
57 posts
4/30/2006 8:14 pm

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One Night Stands (Hate them!)

Don't get me wrong, I love to have sex with no relationship requirements, I just don't like the idea of one night stands, they are so impersonal and make me feel used. What do you think?

blondietickler 43F
295 posts
4/30/2006 9:04 pm

if there was more to it than the one night, then isn't that a kind of relationship? i believe you can have just sex with nothing further coming from it than the (hopefully) satisfaction of two people. who knows.

antone30 48M
51 posts
4/30/2006 9:17 pm

Yes I'm not fond of one night stands ether, you really don't get to know what the other person(s) really likes and you mostly don't get the great sex that people that know each other can get.

tny5569 66M

5/1/2006 5:02 pm

love to try can not say one night but one day or one weekend but I prefere more than once if both partnere we like eachothere I'm married but my wife she is not into sex anymore all most one year never had sex now I deside to enjoy myself I never like cheating but people need needs so this I do not call cheating hoping to find some one nice lady close to me and like to have fun

rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
5/3/2006 4:33 pm

I guess it's kinda like AdultFriendFinder getting rich telling guys to pay for their site and you will find sex. The only sex you get is from them.
I guess that's kinda like a one night stand. When you say "I feel like I'm being used". It's a good thing I like to blog.

alwaysopen1963 53F
9 posts
5/3/2006 7:02 pm

I AGREE WITH YOU 100%, sex is sex, but more than once is always better, you can explore more, & find out what each other like most. i tend to do more & go farther when i know them better !!!

btweenthighs 57M
2 posts
5/4/2006 8:09 am

One night stands are for when you are drunk and just want to get laid. I think the perfect relationship is a friend with benefits. As long as both people understand that there is no future, just good friends who like to have sex with each other. Everyone on here is looking for sex, that's it sex. No one seems to hook up on here because the women want relationships. It is kinda of a catch 22. Since we are all here for the sex, why not build a relationship around that? Then you have the best of both worlds.

rm_melisiousxo 48F
182 posts
5/4/2006 11:46 am

It's a conundrum..You never know it's going to be "just a one night stand" the first time you have sex with eachother. You might think it will be something that will last and it dosen't. Then ,by've just had your first ONE NIGHT STAND. You hope the sex will be amazing for both parties involved and it will turn into a friends with benefits situation. That does not always happen. The best way to avoid it I guess, is to make sure you know the person well enough prior to sleeping with them. But that takes all the fun out of it now dosen't it???

sweetiegrl33 44F

5/8/2006 11:22 am

I have run into this issue too. It seems that out of the guys I have met here, and have sex with, only one is worthy of repeating. So I guess for now I am happy with one niters. Of coarse it would be ideal to find that fuck buddy that you see once or twice a month.

EbonyHnk 36M

5/9/2006 9:41 am

Ummmmmm ... i could create so many senarios and arguements and still wouldnt come up with a definate answer .

- If you dont like it Hunny dont do it - Problem solved ?

assfun42 50M

5/12/2006 7:12 am

sure there are guys out there that would feel as equally used if no contact was made after such an encounter, bring em on ;o)

rm_iloveit6942 44F
18 posts
5/13/2006 4:17 am

one night stands are ok, but it's just about a straight fuck. personally, i don't feel able to ask someone if I can pee on them the first time lol if you see someone more than once, you get to know what turns them on and vice versa, making the sex [eventually and hopefully] mind-blowing!!!

rm_sarge45 71M

5/14/2006 4:32 am

One night stands are ok for pur release, but I would like to have some lasting friendship also out of a relationship.

unladylike1962 54M/54F
14 posts
5/14/2006 5:25 pm


rrr45044 61M

5/16/2006 5:35 pm

one night stands are not my style. i love to make love to my partner and that means that i have to know her and her needs. can't do that in one night even with the best of communications.

FALCON0256 60M

6/5/2006 6:57 am

Ive never "planned" a one night stand! The one night stand is usually the result of lack of connection!

hhwsprxxx 52M

6/6/2006 4:35 pm

One night stands ,they happen .Sometimes it might be the best thing at that time, so you think.I must say it is not what I am looking for at this point in my life.

rockhard696961 55M
1 post
6/12/2006 1:36 pm

One night stands may be good at the time but when one looks back they are cold. I like a women who wants more and is not afraid to open up. She is aggressive and open at the same time. Giving but wanting more.

Spiker151 58M

6/15/2006 8:26 am

I agree absolutely. Sex is much better with a friend, someone you know and trust and are comfortable with.

twistedfreak44 47M

7/9/2006 1:10 pm

To be honest, dont want a one nite stand, thats why im looking for a ffwb. Dont really want a relationship, relationship, just want a friend, when she needs it, or I need it, when can hook up. Gives you the more then once, and it also, teaches you what they want, and what you want.

urbanbrandmale 33M
3 posts
8/22/2006 12:35 am

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volcanic_gigo4u 40M

8/23/2006 2:26 am

I think ur very much right "dcupmama" one night stands, they definately are impersonal and make not only you but can make anyone feel used.

It takes a while for an indian woman at least to shed her clothes for someone & if u put all those efforts just for fun once the purpose of sex for fun is defeated.

However my catch on this one wud be the more a woman involves herself or has sex with a man, more & more open she feels to be with that particular man. Therefore it's always better to have longterm physical partners & explore the fun.

dcupmama if u are on the same page wid me on this one, just touch base wid me at volcanic_gigo that's on h o t m a i l(remove da spaces) & let's take it up for some real time fun.

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