Looking in the wrong place  

db1358 37F
20 posts
6/21/2005 8:40 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Looking in the wrong place


Found many interesting people -
some sounds really nice... some interests me too. But when I show my other side, my softer side, they backed out. Why? Are people only interested with the superficial? With satisfying their lust? their physical needs? Is that all the matters?

What about the mind? emotion? spirit? (Well, you may forget the last but keep the mind and emotions together.)

I get horny after a good discussion, or after watching a good movie (what others may call "deep). I am always in the need of feeding my mind. I need to feel... not just the burning between my legs but the excitement of seeing that someone, of talking about things that will both enrich us... ahh... I guess I'm looking in the wrong place.

rm_indul_gent1 56M
89 posts
6/21/2005 11:38 am

you're not looking in the wrong place, you only need to delve deeper ... there are indeed the kinds of people here you seek, the one's who value emotional intimacy and intellectual stimulation, just as you do ... they are just a little harder to find .... don't give up


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
6/21/2005 3:37 pm

Gent covered it indeed. Explore the site a bit. Intelligent life exists.

[blog talldarkavg1]


rm_hard4065 51M

6/21/2005 4:17 pm

There are many ways of looking at the situation,Myself I get to deep into relationships, then they go to hell. I have been told I have been the nicest, most trusted, and best partner they have ever had. they had no complaints,but just didn't want a lifelong commitment. they have admitted that someday they will look back and see how big a mistake it was to break up. But in the meantime, I have come to the conclustion that I can not afford the heartbreak again, So I will never turn my heart loose again. People change and there is no stopping it, My heart wasn't made for big changes, So I'm here for the fun.


db1358 37F
1 post
6/22/2005 12:48 am

Ahh... it's good to see replies although to be honest, I wasn't expecting any... like I always do anyway. Give your all and don't expect any, that's the most exciting part of living. The satisfaction is really great that way... the pain is greater when you begin expecting... that's the other side of it.


stevey_b_uk 37M

7/18/2005 6:44 am

i would love 2 have a chat with u x


manoyko 39M
3 posts
7/23/2005 10:53 am

you always deserve the one that you want.


subfordom2005 48M
48 posts
9/19/2005 5:06 am

Unfortunately, there are bad eggs and good ones in this world. It is simply being able to see through beyond what they show. I meet a lot of people everyday and I realize also that a lot of them are only interested in what you have to offer them and not for what you are. I kinda write similar things in my blog.


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