okay its official!  

daybreak68 39F  
800 posts
4/25/2006 6:21 pm

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4/27/2006 3:11 am

okay its official!

LIFE SUCKS!!!!

well y'all its official. I just lost the best friend I've ever had. and all b/c we have history. Apparently former lovers should never stay friends. Thats never been a problem for me before. I have numerous male friends with whom I used to fuck around. A and I fucked around, had some good sex, but decided that were would be better off as friends. It worked too. quite well actually. Until my dumbass decided I wanted to meet the new woman in his life. well she didnt take it too well, that we were friends as well as former lovers. And my only intention in wanting to meet this girl, was b/c she was so important to A. I'm sorry but i'm not evilminded enough to have wanted to meet her for any other reason. It wasnt my intention to cause problems. But apparently it did, so now I'm the bitch. He called me tonight to basically tell me good bye. at first I wanted to act like everything was fine and "whatevers whatever." But i cant do it. and even tho I understand, IT STILL SUCKS!!!


Dawn happyf;


ilsuconu 56M

4/26/2006 7:06 am

Seems that "A" is pussy-whipped by his new girlfriend. If he ever valued your friendship at all, he wouldn't have said good-bye and made you unhappy. I know it's not much consolation, but try to keep focused on something that lots of folks have said to lots of other folks in similar situations:

"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours; if it doesn't, it never was."


Fat_Ass_Pussy2 47

4/26/2006 10:20 pm

I agree with ilsuconu, Pussy-Whipped sounds about right. A friend is a friend. Unless you did something horribly wrong to him, even to the point of disgracefully disrespecting his new girl or his relationship with her, there is no reason why your friendship with him should end. It is sad to say, but if they end up together for the long haul, you will hear a lot about his unhappy life, cuz that is exactly what it will be. I am sorry to hear about the break-up on your part. I hope things will work out in the end for you and "A". He is gonna be living a life that is literally run by the emotions of his new love. Its hard to just ignore the separation, and I don't encourage you to do so. Let out your feelings about his decision in a letter or something. Mail it to him, or email him. At least you are venting it, and you are leaving him with "from the heart - honesty" which is what friends should offer each other in any case. Then once your final words are spoken, try to let it go. It will hurt, cuz he meant a lot to you, but wish him the best, "and mean it" and then don't look back... unless of course he taps your shoulder to talk one day in the future. And at that time... you continue to be his friend. Remember, this decision was his not yours, and from the way it sounds, he is not creating the distance out of spite or anger towards you, just out of protection of his current situation. Honestly, I don't think he realizes what he's doing. But hindsight is 20/20 and one day when he grows up, he'll see it.

Good Luck!
FAP2


daybreak68 39F  
292 posts
4/27/2006 3:11 am

FAP2-- thanks so much for your words of wisdom. and almost everything you said has been said at least once by some of the my other friends that know the situation. I'll try to be patient and see what happens. again thanks so much. that y'all read all my rants is appreciated more then y'all can know.

Dawn happyf;


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