i hate bitches  

daybreak68 39F  
800 posts
3/5/2006 6:10 pm

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3/6/2006 2:24 pm

i hate bitches


grrrrrrrrrrrrrr first lemme start by saying I just dont understand bitches! i have this guy friend. well a while ago some stuff happened between us. his current interest found out about it and pitched a flippin fit! she couldnt believe that anything happened. in fact she was REALLY bothered by it. I wasnt in any way trying to cause problems with them, but I wanted to meet her. I mean we've been friends for a few years and I was glad to see him happy. I was prepared to like this girl just based on what he had told me about her. I had no idea she felt the way she did til he told me tonight. I guess they are taking a break or whatever. and I cant help but think that part of it is b/c he told her about us. what the hell do I do?! I'm so afraid that this is gonna put a strain on our friendship. and thats what I dont want to happen. I dont know what I'd do if i didnt have him as a friend. hes been my sounding board. hes one of the few people that knows everything there is to know about me. and still lets me vent and bitch and then gives advice when I need it. anyone with any ideas?? lemme know!

okay I'm done for now. y'all have a good night.

Dawn happyf;


Fat_Ass_Pussy2 47

3/5/2006 6:43 pm

Girlfriend,

Don't stress over that chicks issues. They are not yours to contend with. NEVER let another person (girl or guy) get in between your friendships. Good friends, like this guy, are truly hard to find. If that bitch wants to break up with him over something that you had with him in the past, before they got together, he should just say... Fuck Her!!! She couldn't have been that emotionally stable to start with if she is gonna act like he never had a relationship with a female before she crossed his path in life. She is a flake, and he shouldn't stress her either. You two enjoy your life, whatever you make of it and don't think twice about this drama starter. Let it go girl.

Feelin' your pain, and tossin' you a pill.
Peace Out
FAP2


nastycookiegirl 40F

3/5/2006 6:48 pm

Hey girl,

I don't think you should worry so much about your friend. The fact that his girlfriend is bothered by what you had with your friend at one point shows how weak she is about her self image. You seem to be a strong woman and I bet that your friendship with your friend will not change for the worst, but end up getting stronger. Think of it this way, he was testing her to see how she felt about him having a good friend of the opposite sex. I have to say there are some women out there who have a problem with men who continue to have friendships with those women they had sexual relations with...she may be one of them. Just let it roll off your shoulder and go on with your friendship. If it ends up being a problem just know that if your friendhip means as much to him as it means to you everything is going to be alright.

No worries, promise.

nastycookiegirl


Shelly_Marie 43F

3/5/2006 7:41 pm

well, if you want to stay on everyones good side, then maybe try having a talk with her one day alone, telling her nicely that you dont have any intentions of interfering with them or whatever it is she's worried about, but tell him about your plans to do this first and ask him if he thinks its a good idea. If this is a new relationship, that may be all her problem is. But if having a talk with her does no good, then there is not much that you can do but talk to your friend about it, and the girl is just paranoid.


daybreak68 39F  
292 posts
3/6/2006 2:24 pm

thanks ladies! i realize I'm stressing about something I have no control over. shes gonna wig about something that happened way before she was even in the picture. Its not my problem to deal with.
thanks again all of you!

Dawn happyf;


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