Why is it  

david8utoo 47M
12 posts
3/27/2006 12:31 pm

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Why is it

So hard to find a playmate?? Whether it is a couple a single female or whatever, there are always problems. At this point in my life I am not looking for strings nor a relationship, I am looking for friends to chat/email/cam and hang out with and on occation have benefits. Am I asking too much? What are you opinions? Tell everyone your experiences


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
3/27/2006 1:49 pm

It is hard to meet people here.

Welcome to the blogs

Purry {=}


david8utoo replies on 3/28/2006 7:29 pm:
Thanks for the warm welcome

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
3/27/2006 3:10 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
3/27/2006 6:31 pm

I think this goes back to how men and women view things differently. You say you don't want strings and you aren't looking for a relationship. You're being honest. You're saying what you want. Somehow in some women's minds, not mine cause I got over this, this is taken as a challenge and they'll prove to you (or try to) that what you really need is them. Then with other women, you've shot yourself in the foot with your statement because they don't want you to say absolutely no to a relationship. Oh well, welcome to blogging. : )

david8utoo replies on 3/28/2006 7:33 pm:
I agree with you in theory. However, In being honest, I thought it would make things easier. I am looking for friends with benefits and maybe way down the road a relationship, but right now I want to have fun with friends and not worry about the "love" thing. Hey sometime things happen and you cant avoid that but I wanted to be up front in stating I am not looking for a serious relationship at this time

Knot4Everyone 40F

3/28/2006 8:35 pm

It's great to be honest - I commend you for that! By reading your post I get the impression that you are looking for sex and sex only. Maybe you are - there's nothing wrong with that. I myself wouldn't be comfortable just meeting up with some stranger, having sex and then walking away. Not generally, anyway. (Every now and then the mood does hit me!) My point is that perhaps the women you speak of want to be more than just a playmate. Towards the end of your post you mentioned friends with benefits - which are you looking for? Just a playmate or a friend with benefits?

david8utoo replies on 3/29/2006 12:05 pm:
I see what you mean. Kinda like mixed signals. I will adjust my profile accordingly. I have no problem meeting someone for something other than sex. I have a couple females on here I email with back and forth just to be their sounding board. Listen to them and just normal every day chit chat. Thanks for your help


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