Just Because  

dasher121 36M
3656 posts
3/28/2006 6:54 am

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Just Because

Life is a strange strange journey, we don't really know where it will lead us. Yet we move along with it anyway, keeping our fingers crossed and hoping, just hoping that things will work out to our advantage.

I do what I do just because,

because life is too damn short to worry all the time.

because remembering the past is a good learning tool, but dwelling on it leads to your own destruction.

because I am my own man, stand on my own two feet.

because of the love of my family.

because my friends are family to me, and I would die for them just like my own blood.

because I march to my own tune.

because people love to hate where I am from.

because the people where I'm from love that you hate us

because I talk with a funny accent.

because I stand tall and proud, no matter how beaten down I am inside.

because I never stop searching, and someday will find what I'm looking for.

because I don't rush the future, it will be here when it gets here.

We all do things "Just because". Whether it be on impulse or premeditated, we do what we do. And with the knowledge that our actions do not define us, but how we move on after wards does. How we all must grab life by the balls sometimes. Because if we don't, who will?

The Dude.


3/28/2006 7:29 am

Right on!

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 8:04 am:
Thanks! And welcome welcome

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
3/28/2006 7:53 am

Very good point. And you dont have an accent, you sound just like me.

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 8:04 am:
yeah, every once in a while I stumble upon a point or two lol. And yes, we do talk a like and are proud of it!!!

PassionKisses4Me 44F

3/28/2006 7:59 am

wonderful post sweetie



dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 9:47 am:
thank you

free2chose2 66F

3/28/2006 8:23 am


Don't worry, be Happy

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 9:48 am:
this game will never die

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
3/28/2006 8:44 am

Dude, You're someone who I admire....

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 9:49 am:
thanks dude, very cool of you to say. But Im not someone to admire, just some one to occasionally roll along with.

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
3/28/2006 8:57 am

So here is a question....roll with the motions and just go where it takes you? Or take the risk, put yourself out there and trying to direct your own course even if you might fail?

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 9:50 am:
You always want to have a hand in your own destiny, I def believe that. And you should take an active part in what you do and where it takes you. But sometimes things cant be explained, so you have to just roll with whatever it is and take where it leads you. Everything happens for a reason.

TabithaElectra79 37F

3/28/2006 9:05 am

You are very right with the 'just because', great post!

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 9:51 am:
I try, and have rare moments hahaha.

rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
3/28/2006 9:53 am

because life is too damn short to worry all the time.

You got that right....lots of right on's in this post, Dude!

Bottom line is that the worry*ing will make you old before your time and then you'll look like shit and you'll be too tired to even remember where all the worry lines came from! Life IS too short for that and it is also too short for alot of other petty things that people give alot of time and energy to along the way. Live and learn and be true to yourself...always. Somedays that is all one can do! And put the creative mind to work conspiring WITH God and the Universe in your behalf...NOT worrying about *stuff* that probably
isn't even real anyway. Love to you always, kiddo...

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 1:02 pm:
And much love back, thank you kindly. As always you shed more wisedom on the subject. Worrying all of the time will just bring you down and make you look like shit lol. Be positive, harness your energy, and use it constructively to what makes sence to you.

rm_AnOddGirl 57F
3469 posts
3/28/2006 10:10 am

So, what is the tune you dance to?


dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 1:02 pm:
Its kind of upbeat yet sounds like the cartoon tune when a big dumbass is walking lol.

HBowt2 58F

3/28/2006 10:31 am

good words for us all to remember....

dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 1:03 pm:
thank you, sometimes you have to look towards the simple things.

(Princess Lips)

3/28/2006 11:26 am

because I stand tall and proud, no matter how beaten down I am inside.

Stand tall dude...


dasher121 replies on 3/29/2006 3:11 am:
always will

jadedbabe78 105F

3/28/2006 12:31 pm

lol, funny accent. My accent is so diversified from living everywhere...you never know what sound will come out of my mouth! lol

Good post!


dasher121 replies on 3/28/2006 1:04 pm:
Wow, that would be weird. Having such a mix and not knowing what sound will come out. Still, it is vry unique so more power to you.

jadedbabe78 105F

3/28/2006 1:10 pm

It's not weird to me, lol....just to people I talk to! During the course of a convo, my voice will carry a southwestern twang, the famed Chicagoan accent, plain uppity Yankee accent, no accent/just western.....it makes for an interesting time! lol

dasher121 replies on 3/29/2006 3:51 am:
can def understand that and sounds very cool

Allsleeky 35F

3/28/2006 3:06 pm

This is an awesome post,I really like it!

dasher121 replies on 3/29/2006 3:51 am:
thanks glad that you enjoyed.

ediesedgewick 57F

3/28/2006 3:47 pm

You very smart man--I always said that---great post.

dasher121 replies on 3/29/2006 3:51 am:
and I still disagree hahaha. But thanks,blushing here

MWWwantsmore 51F

3/28/2006 4:55 pm

Rock On Man You said it!

Life is too damn short!

dasher121 replies on 3/29/2006 3:52 am:
Right on! Just gotta go with the flow, you know? lol

carebearluv2 41F

3/28/2006 6:26 pm

I believe to be one's self and be accountable is one of life's hardest battles. Glad to see you are fighting yours...

dasher121 replies on 3/29/2006 3:52 am:
I try my best

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