Handle misconception.........  

dasher121 36M
3656 posts
12/22/2005 3:14 am

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Handle misconception.........

Ok ok so because of the holiday season, and even before hand, Ive gotten some comments about my handle. Some have made harmless cute remarks(no worries 1hot) and others have been complete smartass's.

So heres the "tooth" about what my handle really means. Its actually really stupid. The day that I signed up for (Im now typing the abbreviation and they are going to put the whole name up)AdultFriendFinder (yep there it is, someone's company has an ego haha), I was completely stuck on what to write for a handle. I had one that Ive used on a few other sites but this dude thought it was time for a change.

So sitting there typing in names, getting rejected for most, and deleting alot of others that I just didnt want to be reffered as. Then like a bolt of lightning it struck me in the head. No really, a bolt of lightning struck me in the head, had to go to the hospital. Now my hair is white lol. JK.

I had recently bought the DVD of the movie The Incredibles and one thing was just really stuck in there, the son with the super speed powers. His name was dasher and they called him dash for short. I had a similar nickname when I was younger for my ability to out run the police in any mental and physical condition known to man (aka sober, really fucked up, sprained ancle, ect.)

He was running all the time and very hyper. And had some of the funniest parts in the flick. A part that really got me, was when he gets his super suit. He puts it on and darts in front of the mirror, checks himself out and with a cocky arrogant smile says "The dash likes." while looking at his ass. That was it, there it was, dasher. See, not very interesting, I warned you. Should have kept watching tv instead of reading this.

So heres my next readers challenge. Mine was VERY stupid, but there still was an explanation.

How did you pick your handle?

dasher121 36M

12/22/2005 4:54 am

Oh, peeps, on a side not. One of my new favorite bloggers, EnEnigma517 has a post titled "Please help me decide". He needs some opinions on some writing that he will be putting out, so go over and give him your opinion. His writing is great, and a truely talented man who is looking for others to help him make a decision.

Cheers my freaky darlings

CelticKarma 43F
1350 posts
12/22/2005 8:00 am

Mine (PK) was a character I created during my brief interest in online gaming (way back when a 28.8 Kbps modem was hot shit). I kept the handle long aafter my patience with gaming wore out.

This handle is a variation on it created for reasons I'd rather not discuss publicly.

AnEnigma517 59M

12/22/2005 9:36 am

Well... it's like this. I've always been kind of a mystery, mainly to myself... well, not mainly, but there's a lot about me that I still haven't figured out. And being somewhat, uh, gifted with the English language, I wanted to find something that sounded like mysterious, but not real common, so the uncommoness of it would maybe make people wonder "What IS that?" There were other "enigma" handles, so I put "An" in front of it... not to be THE mystery, but just another one of them. The 517 is my birthday.

Seemed like a neat name starting out... and after a couple little bumps with some asshole who thought it was cute to compare me to an "enema" (goes to show how much he knew!) I'm still kind of happy with it.

Yup... there's lots of assholes who are so insecure with who they are, even when they're hiding behind some really stupid handles, that they just need to bully the cool dudes like us, eh?

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
12/22/2005 11:06 am

I loved that scene, too!

OK, my handle (which I think is dumb, btw)

On the phone at midnight, with my friend saying, "You've GOT to log onto this website! But you've gotta create a profile to do it" and finding that every reasonable handle was taken. I was afraid to string numbers after a chosen word, because I always forget them. Wahine means woman in Hawaiian, so I tried all sorts of wahine phrases. 1hot was probably the millionth combination. But it worked, so I was rechristened as One Hot Woman. If there was an "oh brother" eye rolling smiley, I'd insert it here.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
12/22/2005 3:30 pm

I wrote saint and then lianna.........thats about it. No I was reading a book about saints and Lianna was the name of the woman in "The Ninth Gate".

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
12/22/2005 3:31 pm

Oh I posted your 12 days on my blog, heehee.

_Safira 53F
11260 posts
12/22/2005 3:45 pm

GREAT name AND story ... not stoopid a'tall.

My screen name is a reincarnation of sorts. I was known for many years as Mistress Angelique', both on this site and in the BDSM community. However, that name was also associated with my ex-husband. Divorce, new beginning, new name; right?

I chose my name from one of the main characters (the dragon) in the Inheritance Trilogy by Christopher Paolini. The book? ERAGON The character? Saphira ... a blue-eyed, blue-scaled completely sentinent, exceedingly loyal, wise dragon. Mistress Safira is born!

This is my blog - Comes With Warning Labels. There are many like it, but this one is mine.

RECOMMENDED READING: A F F ... The Only Site For Me?

TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
12/22/2005 5:35 pm

lol well the story behind my name is a unique one.... i have another profile that is a couples profile for me and the hubby. i started chatting in the philly tristate room and not many spoke to me much at all... so i decided a great way to get ppls attention and it was a huge hit LMAO.... i went into chat and started fondling ppl at random and ppl started chatting with me and it wasnt long before they started referring to me as "The Fondle Queen" LMAO... and when me and the hubby started playing alone i made myself a new profile for just me and used this name so ppl would know who i was at first site in chat LMAO.... so i got a name for myself and got my self noticed.... now i am expected to fondle countless ppl when i enter or leave chat and it take me 15 minutes to say hi/bye to everyone and give out their expected fondles LMAO

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....

carebearluv2 42F

12/22/2005 7:49 pm

When I started on this site, I didn't want to use a sexually based name because what I was really looking for was friends. So I used my nickname, Carebear (my real name is Carolyn) and just added the luv part to be cute. The 2 was given to me because someone had the other handle. Nothing exciting I know but that's my story.

rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
12/22/2005 10:14 pm

After my first couple of choices flunked out, Corazon came to mind but it was taken already. Easy to remember but spelled slightly different.

RedheadedMedStd 34F

12/22/2005 10:54 pm

My handle is another really simple story. I was a redhead as a little girl and in stages it has regrown to the original auburn color. It's natural I swear. The medstdt thing? I am in PreMedicine in college. I usually either get a Wow, or a good luck! So there you go. RedHeadedMedStdt I am finding it easier to go by Red for short which Tillerbabe has unknowinlgy dubbed me cause my handle is so long. I think I like it. I think I'm gonna keep it.


curious082385 31F
4925 posts
12/22/2005 11:20 pm

A friend of mine from this site first created my profile. She is always teasing me because I really am interested in just about everything. Those of you who talk to me outside of here know that "out of curiousity..." or "just curious..." are things I say often. The numbers were supposed to be my birthday, but she mixed it up...should have been 082285. Not as interesting as your story, Dash, but there it is.

MrNuttz05 49M

12/22/2005 11:34 pm

HA HA HA AH AH HA HA HAAAAA. Do you really want ME to get into this, Dash? O.K. Here goes! My handle can be viewed, & I hope it is, in a very ambiguous way. The 1st reason can speak for itself, but the after thought is where I REALLY lie... For those who don't know me, I am sort of a nutty guy, a peculiar one @ that. I am a "Special Nut", more than mixed, with a very hard shell, tough to crack... So my double edged sword has deviant implications, but @ heart, I am just a fun cat to deal with... Hey, Dash, glad you didn't buy the "Lion King" DVD, or you might be running around here calling yourself "Uncle Scar"... Peace bro'...

tillerbabe 55F

12/22/2005 11:58 pm

It's not stupid, I've always liked your handle!!...and it "suits" you well! LOL!
Mine....I explained it in an earlier post: [post 114781]

dasher121 36M

12/23/2005 6:59 am

Celtic- very understandable, and that is a pretty cool little background i must say so.

Divinity- hahahah yeah i know exactly the part you mean. yet another one that made him my favorite!

AnEnigma- well you def are a man of mystery i must say. and yeah they hate the cool peeps like us. and you are a very cool dude i must say. once again, love your writing. wish you much luck with the upcomming publishing. keep me posted, would very much like to read your writing that appears off site if you dont mind.

1hot- thats awsome! very good idea and cool meaning behind it. and yeah, i need to keep things simple myself for memory purposes haha.

SisterSaint- now im def going to watch that movie. Ive heard of it, whats your opinion on it? Oh, and thanks for putting that up, Im blushing and humbled lol.

Safira- thank you very much, and your story is def one of my favorites of how the handle was created, thats very very cool. Like the body art too, have some myself that im proud of, ill try to get them up on here sometime.

dasher121 36M

12/23/2005 7:09 am

Lil- Im still laughing about yours. Thats awesome, the online fondler eh? hehehe you are so very bad......and that is great!

Care- yes that is very cute and simple. and thats a good combination.

Corezon- gotta keep things simple right? too much complexity out there.

Red- yet another that makes sence to who you are and vry simple. nice

curious- nah, mines not really that interesting. but i have noticed that you do have a very curious nature miss hehehe

MrNutzz- yet another one of my fav stories behind the name. also still cracking up to your response. and def share your personality trait for being a nutty dude myself. its the best way to be man!

Till- u never cease to amaze me hehehe clink, oh shit spilled that wine again......sorry let me get that lol.

humbold- very very interesting and cool story as well. Ive always wanted very much to see the redwoods since iwas a child. and im actually going to make that dream come true in the near future

rm_texasgal1978 45F
225 posts
12/23/2005 5:14 pm

mmm my nick on here is very boring. I'm in Texas, I'm a gal, and 1978 is a number that I can remember easily. Also, every other name I tried to enter was already being used.

If you have any better suggestions for me to change to just let me know..I am flebile and open to change

TheLilFondler 33F  
2576 posts
12/23/2005 6:03 pm

a lot more bad then most in the blog world realize LMAO

i lost my virginity years ago.....
but i still have the box.....

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
12/24/2005 10:33 pm

pretty simple here...my birth year..1946 was typed after
Goddess .........like you, the first couple of names
that I chose were not available.

Merry Christmas Dasher...hope you have fun & good luck in AC !

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

SaucyNSassy 39F

12/30/2005 11:46 pm

Your blogs are always so entertaining. I think the way you came up with your name is adorable....lol... and cute.
My way was easy.... Saucy - I had an ex that always told me "Don't get Saucy w/ me Bernaise'" The dorkiest line but it stuck. He always said I was a saucy one that not even he could handle...lol
N Sassy - That's obvious... (I know you already have) Read one of my blogs and you will see how very Sassy I can be. Not bitchy, Sassy.
Good Night,

jadedbabe78 105F

12/31/2005 1:42 pm

lol, at least you had some creativeness in your handle. The explanation to mine is here: [post 176038]

Basically, I lacked creative flair.

dasher121 36M

1/4/2006 4:50 am

texas- hey, its simple, it makes sence. nuff said

goddess- it was a very merry one. had alot of great family news and cool things happen. hope yours went well as well as your new year.

jade- welcome to my humble home lol. did read your post about that, hey whatever works right? and I also enjoy that color as well.

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