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Fantasies or Porn??????
Fantasies or Porn??????
Is there really a different between watching porn and having a fantasy?????????
I have read some profiles here, saying they don’t fantasize, but enjoy watching porn to make them horny. Now, I have to wonder is that not a visual fantasy of sorts. For are they not watching it and thinking how much they would like to be in that scene, or to be with that person being viewed on the screen. Does that pounding flesh on the screen, transfer the passion to your mind, in return causes your heart rate to increase sending signal to the rest of your body to respond. The vessels of your penis expand, or the wetness develops creating a desire to fuck.
For myself I like to read others fantasies, and write a few as well. For the reasons I feel it give you a sneak review of the person writing it, what they may feel at a given monuments in time. Snatch and I have shared them for years, and I’m grateful she has. For I have become a better lover , meaning in bed, I know some of the feeling she may be having at a given moment in time, Kind of like having a signal in some way that tells me . Oh yea, it’s the rush of speeding down the roll coaster track where your body falls out from under you... Her body suddenly tightening her muscles of her legs, as I run my tongue across her clit, at the right time. Me pushing hard to hit the spot that hidden deep inside, she so much loves. Yes, for if she hasn’t shared some of her fantasies I would not be able to give her the best feeling possible.
Now , we know everyone has different buttons to push, and at times places that become to sentative to be stimulated at times, That is what make sex fun is, to give the other person everything they ask for and more hopefully. So I come to my wondering mind again, as always.
So do you like to tell someone your Fantasies before hand to make it, more enjoyment for both of you???????
Do you feel you have a greater advantage of pleasing someone if they are willing to share them?????
Or do you just keep quiet and hope they find it on their own???????
How turned on do you feel to read a Fantasy of a lover, verse watching porn??????
Thank you for your time as always, and enjoy reading fantasy of others. Even if you don’t act them out, there is still personal feeling shinning through at times. Bye