Mr. and Mrs. Smith, I presume......  

rm_dandth 48M/38F
193 posts
8/8/2005 2:28 pm

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Mr. and Mrs. Smith, I presume......


One of the things we enjoy most in participating in the swinging lifestyle, is that "partners in crime" feeling you get. Non-swinging friends are quick to point out that they worry that bringing someone else into their bedroom would cause their marriage and relationship to grow apart or split altogether. If you're a cheater and you bring someone else into your bedroom, I guess it's easy to see how this is true. I mean, you're being dishonest with the one person you should trust and be trustworthy towards in the whole world above all others. But.... when you work together, we feel it brings us even closer. One of my friends asked if I was worried if my better half would find someone who's better in bed.... my only thoughts on that were, well, if there's someone out there better than you at sex, wouldn't you want to know what they do and how they do it? If my better half cheats on me, disclosure wouldn't include things like "wow, then she did this and he did this and all I could see were sparkles of purple light as I passed out from joy".... but since we're in this together, I get comments like "Wow! She did this and he did that, and let me show you how it feels!"... so, someone's only better than me at sex for the time it takes my better half to share their secret . Like Mr. and Mrs. Smith (the not so bad not so good movie with Brad Pitt and Angelina Jo-lips), seperate we're pretty good, but together we pool our resources and become one hell of a team.

rm_dandth 48M/38F
173 posts
8/14/2005 6:06 pm

Thanks! We were nervous getting started, but we're so glad we did! We love all aspects of the lifestyle, the sex is part of it, but the dating and making friends, and the adventures, make it more than just a bedroom escapade.


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