Quality Vs. Quantity  

dancingmao 44F
7 posts
3/7/2006 5:09 pm

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3/14/2006 10:53 pm

Quality Vs. Quantity

Ever notice how many people write that they are NOT looking for a 1 night stand? Then you meet, you schmooze, you decide to hop in the sack... Poof, you never hear from them again. If it wasn't good. Say it. If it was good, you just don't want any more. Say so. If it was phenomenal but you want to try something(one) else. SAY so. Don't just disappear off the face of the earth. Try honesty, it sometimes hurts a little, briefly. It soothes the soul in the long run, though!

I'm not going to chase after someone either. It's a waste of my time & energy. I'm not trying to sound pissy or full of myself, here. I am, quite simply, frustrated. It's not just men that do this, it's women too. Granted, it's only happened to me twice, but I hear friends complain of the SAME thing.

madskillz96 49M

3/11/2006 1:58 pm

So true. The lack of honesty comes from insecurity. Whether its being insecure about getting the opportunity to me so you fudge a little or whether it's the situation you just described and the fear or the reaction.

What's frustrating to me is women who say they want something. They chit with someone that has to offer what they want but don't him a try. The complain about there not being any men.

nicewog 40M

3/24/2007 12:38 am

look at the bright side... at least you got to get some great (hopefully) sex and time out, rather thatn get tease by people with emails trying to catch up, then never living up to their words.

madskillz, you should know that it's hard to understand what most women wants even when they say it

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