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dancewithme29 46F
207 posts
6/29/2005 11:54 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Oy

The most common complaint I hear and share is that men lie about their height and women lie about their weight. Granted not all of you do this but a good number are guilty. I don't understand the psychology behind it. I just measured my height and I'm actually 5'9.5". I round up to 5'10" because I know men will add a few inches...It's not only their height but unfortunately their cock. I was once promised 8" and got 6". Imagine my disappointment. Now if I knew it was 6" to begin with I would have been fine...never the wiser but to be amped up like that is fraud.

Then there's the false advertising with either fake or old pics. Or the obscure shots from far away taken on a cloudy day under a rock. WTF?

The novelty of this place is once again wearing thin and I'm heading outta here...after I meet the love of my life that is HA!


Always_Lickin 55M
5 posts
6/29/2005 1:44 pm

well my pics are true and real.. however i havnt measured my "little friend" lately.. would you care to lend a hand.. its way over 6" however im not sure if reaches 8".. lol ty


cgusa2 47M
1 post
6/29/2005 1:51 pm

Yikes, between this and the post from REAL early this morning it's a wonder that you keep on keepin on! Just to toss this out (and not to invite too much debate) but women tend to exaggerate their cup size about as much as men do their dick size. A push there at best. I figure that just about everyone may lie about their weight.

The pic thing would annoy the shit out of me. If you're on this site, post a real pic already. Otherwise, you're just waisting time when you actually get around to the "meeting in person" part.

Apologies for not being around, in GA until after the 4th. Still looking forward to confirming out measurements. Hope you are as well.


MillsShipsGayly 51M

6/30/2005 9:02 am

I am 4'11, have a 2" cock, brains of a dodo bird and I have a drooling problem when I get narcissisticly involved with my dates ...

Better to underpromise and overdeliver?


Needzit2 56M

6/30/2005 11:22 am

Dear dance,
I found a way to increase my tolerance of people's inaccurracies or little lies when they describe themselves. I just let it go! Why should I let their need for acceptance upset me? Why would I set myself up for disappointment by not recognizing that our sense of self is predicated on a deprivation model? "I want to be a failure" is not the goal of most people. Rather, "I want to be accepted" is the motivation. The incentive for lying is fear, as in "I am afraid of being rejected" or "I need something so badly that I am afraid I will not obtain it."
I think we all have these kinds of issues to some extent. As for me, I will tell you the truth because I know the hurt of rejection. I also know that I can not lie to myself without compounding issues around the lie. This understanding has lead me to accept others as having the same weaknesses that I have. It would be an double burden if I were to expect perfection from another. The burden on the other would naturally result in their failure to live up to my expectations. The burden on myself would result in another disappointment with its associated anger, then even higher expectations for the next person in the next situation. A vicious cycle? You bet it is, but this is the psychology of the situation you complained of.
I am concerned about your threat of leaving this site. I, as well as many, would miss your visuals spun from words. Could you not change your expectation or anticipation of what you may find here? After all it is a sex site. Hope to talk in person because I am better with my tongue than with the keyboard.
luv,
Dave


rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
7/7/2005 7:04 am

I just here to have a little fun, I'm not here to try to impress anyone. So, what you see is really me, the good, the bad, and the ugly! As far as cock size, you see it clearly in my pic so I leave the assesment to those who view it!


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