Seduce My Mind...  

damn_dame 46F
64 posts
2/26/2006 2:18 am

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4/28/2006 11:27 pm

Seduce My Mind...


Seduce my mind and you can have my body,
Find my soul and I'm yours forever.
~ by Anonymous ~

How much of seduction is in our minds? Is this the first place it begins? Yeah, I'm talking to you, don't be shy. Post and let me know what you think.

timberwolf6972 44M

2/26/2006 2:31 am

I think that seduction starts in the five senses and goes to the brain where it stimulates the mind and then to the body. That's just my opinion of course. {=}


MarinadelMar 59F

2/26/2006 3:16 am

Oh yes, I firmly believe that good sex can become great sex if the mind is fully engaged as well as the body ... even better if you spend the preceeding hours planning and imagining what you will do together before getting down to it


frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
2/26/2006 3:29 am

My body wont follow if my mind isn't in it....that's why we aren't all running around having sex with hot bodied (very) young men that we can't connect with mental....well that's my experience anyway.

Frangi


rm_FiremanCop05 50M

2/27/2006 11:09 am

I think seduction is completely in your mind, in it's many different forms. You can seduce with sexy talk or provocative dancing. You can seduce with intelligent conversation. You can seduce with a stroll in the park, holding hands, talking, but really about nothing. You can seduce over dinner, looking in her eyes, letting her know you think she is the most beautiful woman in the world, even without saying a word.

There are many subtle ways to seduce, and they are all appealing to the mind. Without seducing the mind, a relationship could never advance beyond a doomed purely physical stage.


DearsTorsoHoops 41M

2/27/2006 11:35 pm

The mind is just one of the places where seduction takes place. It also takes place with physical contact and the surroundings. I believe that seduction first takes place with physical contact and arousal.


damn_dame 46F

3/1/2006 12:28 am

Timberwolf, I tend to agree as well. If we are fortunate enough to see someone, sight must be the first sense to initiate seduction. The curve of a lip in a smile, the crinkle at the corner of an eye, the slow sure movement of a hand...these can all begin the act of seduction. When all the senses are involved...OH MY!

Marinadelmar, I have found the same thing to be true! I often think daydream about things. I have a very active imagination and it is quite easy for me to fantasize about things I want to happen to things I would like to have done. Thinking about it and anticipating is almost as orgasmic as the real thing.

Frangi, isn't that a good thing?! LOL I know what you mean. I have seen some fabulous looking people that were extremely attractive, until they opened thier mouths and spoke. If you can't engage me, you can't engage my body. *But nice eye candy!*

Helpp1970, sounds like you know a little something about seduction. I agree that it is in those small acts that you might overlook. A soft touch, a knowing look, even the smell of your lover, all make up the seduction scenerio.

Firemancop, I like that you pointed out seduction isn't always those hot moments leading up to sex, but the sweet tender moments shared between two people, like the holding hands remark and the gaze of two people over dinner. You are so right that without seducing the mind a relationship won't last. Seducing the mind, in my opinion, makes for a complete experience, so much better than the alternative.

Wolfman, yes, seduction involves the physical and the environment, but, can you not be seduced without those two factors? I can attest to being seduced over the internet, and I have yet to be touched or be included in their environment.

In my humble opinion, seduction is first and foremost in the mind. You HAVE to engage it if you want the best sexual and emotional experience you can have. Webster's says that seduction is to entice or tempt. (usually something illcit!)How can you entice someone without engaging the brain in some way? It is the promise of something pleasurable at the end of the "game" You have to think about what that pleasure might be. It is different for us all, but, without a doubt, each of us has to engage our brain in some form or fashion.

Thank you all for posting, keep it coming!!
The Damn Dame


cowboyhavinfun0 50M
7 posts
3/1/2006 12:48 pm

A man or a woman can suduce the oppisite (sometimes the same) sex without even realizing they are doing it. The way a woman turns her head to get the hair out of her eyes. The way a man walking into a building and holds the door for the lady walking in or out at the same time. These and just simple everyday acts that may catch someones attention and makes them smile. The times a man or a woman say hi or even a smile at a stranger and that stranger thinks about that person for the rest of the day. Seduction is in the mind! If you can still seduce the person you are with after a time of being together then you have stimulated the soul.


cyrus_mp 44M
23 posts
3/3/2006 4:56 am

The art of seduction is like luring a lion on your backyard. Catch his/her attention at the right time and make him/her come to you willingly. If a person is more in "action" make "words". And all of a sudden "You'd just made love to a damn "LION". congrats!!!.


nevertootall4u 53M

3/3/2006 8:35 am

always use BOTH heads. . charm, personality, wit, style. everything cums with a great mind and body. one has to be STIMULATED both in mind and body. it is the TOTAL package. being sexy is MORE than having a sexy body. its internal and external. enjoy both heads, but use them BOTH equally


bigfootfireman 50M

3/8/2006 7:44 pm

The mind is the key to all things,with your heart.If your heart is not in tune with your mind ,your body can'nt reach your desired plesure,therefore you don't truely enjoy the passion that you seek.


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