My pet peeves  

daisygirl123 48F
12 posts
11/20/2005 10:54 am

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My pet peeves


While I suppose I may be just a little naive, my experiences with this site so far have been disappointing (except for Charles....baby, I miss you!). I've actually met 4 guys so far, and for the most part the sex was good enough to make me want to hookup with all of them again. The chatting was great, the phone conversations were nice, and then poof......we have sex and all correspondence stops. I'm not looking for a series of one-night stands but had hoped to find some friends with benefits for maybe one or two on-going relationships. I'm convinced there are no such truly intelligent guys out there and that the guys I've met so far (except for Charles) are not only liars but fakes.

I suppose much of it has to do with the fact that I am a big girl, but I thought I had made that perfectly clear on my profile and while chatting. Okay, so I have not-so-big breasts and a huge ass (lol)....I'm working on these things. Nothing that a diet and a boob job can't fix, right? Or maybe my intelligence has scared them away.....I've admittedly had to tolerate some pretty dumb-downed conversations, that's for sure. Anyway, regardless of the reasons, I'm still looking for that one guy who can rock my body and my mind at the same time and can get over himself enough to realize that beauty is more than just what's on the outside.

Finally, a word of advice.....if you are looking for a beauty queen, please don't even pretend you are interested. I'm too busy to be wasting my time on another shallow potential lover. And if we do meet in person, and you are not really interested and/or attracted to me but you pretend to be and then wait until after we fuck to just blow me off, well.....fuck you! Be honest with me and say "hey, I had a great time but we won't be doing this again." Don't just put me on your IM stealth settings or not return my calls (which I RARELY call anyone anyway). No problem, nice knowing you, I'll just find someone else. Guys complain about female honesty all the time and how most women on this site are fake.....please give it a rest.

Until then, I hope each of the men I've met so far (again, except for Charles) find that "perfect" woman worthy of their undying attention after fucking them.....and I hope she ignores each of you, or at the very least turns out to be just another dumb, lying, gold-digging bitch who can't give a blow-job worth shit. Karma is a truly wonderful thing.

Ciao,
Daisy

cristale75 41F

11/20/2005 11:44 am

I completely hear you, Daisy. With exception of one guy Ive met here they are just fakes. And believe you me.....KARMA IS REAL!


mailmantrouser2 54M
534 posts
11/20/2005 11:57 am

So what happened to or with Charles?
Anyway, you shoild control your weight, but do not think that getting a boob job will make it any easier. Any guy who falls for you because of your tits, real or silicone, is not worth the trouble.
Besides, most girls I have known with big tits did nothing but complain about them. And the ones worth remembering were the ones who were small.
Mailman


HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

11/20/2005 12:07 pm

I HEAR YA THERE, I AM A THICK GIRL AS WELL, AND WITH THE EXCEPTION OF ONE GUY I MET ON HERE,OOOO WAIT,NO,NO GUY I HAVE MET OFF HERE HAS KEPT IN AS MUCH CONTACT AS BEFORE WE MET. AND WHEN I SEND THEM THE "NO WORRIES AND FUCK OFF" E-MAIL I NORMALLY GET ONE BACK, "NO, BABY I HAVE BEEN BUSY" BULLSHIT. AND I JUST KEEP THINKING ABOUT THAT AGE OLD SAYING " DON'T HATE THE PLAYA,HATE THE GAME."


daisygirl123 48F

11/20/2005 1:18 pm

Thanks for the posts. Charles was the first guy I met from this site. He was from out-of-state and traveled to Oklahoma once a month on business. Unfortunately, he changed jobs and no longer travels out of state so it's doubtful I'll see him again anytime soon. However, the times we shared together were absolutely wonderful.

Thanks for asking.

Ciao,
Daisy


inrgee 52M

11/20/2005 10:14 pm

you are a riot! sorry you have had such bad luck. i think someof it may be your brain more than anything else. men don't like feeling inferior on any level - if you "outIQ" them by too much, they probably can't deal with it. that won't be a problem with me - i hope you respond to the email i sent you.

inrgee


rm_OKCman20 32M

11/24/2005 10:08 pm

hey daisy we should hook up and meet. if ya interested hit me back please


rm_redhottogo 48M/50F
26 posts
11/24/2005 11:05 pm

Totally understand.....some guys can be that way....Most don't know what they want either. FLAKY and DUMB...I think that there is something to day for someone working on their outer beauty especially when they have inter beauty and brains. Lucky you...what goes around comes around.


GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
1/3/2006 7:51 am

I always say that "sexy" and "hott" come from within. I can't speak for everyone, but I do know that for myself once I make the move to actually meet someone it sure better not be for just one time... lol. I put a lot of work into developing friendships and trust beforehand (as well as building anticipation...lol) to just toss that aside after just one meet!

Anyhoo, sorry to hear about the bad experiences. I know they are not all thataway... hang in there!


dj4he2rm0it 42M

1/16/2006 1:28 pm

look daisy im married and everything I do has to be discreet but if you want to chat and maybe go farther with a real guy then look me up im also on aim, yim, and for more personal cahts


fireburning1 60M
1 post
5/16/2006 12:04 am

Hi Daisy-I hope you don't condemn and stereotype ALL men because of a few (well, maybe a lot-LO selfish jerks. I run into that all the time and women put their walls/blocks up and they land up constantly on the defense. It's hard to get to know someone when they feel that way and definately turns potentially Good Sex and Making Love into a simple, non-sensuous Fuck. If I feel a woman isn't reciprocating with my openness, I won't waste my time. You know, there a lot of men that stereotype women because of similar experiences they have had, and that's a Big reason they treat them the way they do. I could EASILY do the same due to my past experiences, but I believe in giving the woman I'm interested in a fair shake, and hopefully she'll treat me the same way. Basically what I'm saying is Don't give up! There are intelligent men out there that don't allow themselves to fall into that trap, and Genuinly know how to treat a Woman. Have a Great Day Daisy!!


freeasabird84 32M
1 post
7/24/2006 1:34 am

Hope to hear from you soon!!


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