Fucking to Fuck, Part II  

daisy_lincoln 46F
3002 posts
3/11/2006 4:03 pm

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3/15/2006 6:02 pm

Fucking to Fuck, Part II

I'm curious how many of you can really have sex, fuck, get intimate, etc. w/o any trace of emotion involved? Not necessarily some sappy, pathetic, "I love you" kind of emotion, but just raw human emotion?


skeletonbobby 41M
2 posts
3/11/2006 4:29 pm

Passion is an emotion - can't really get stiff with out it!! Sex without any emotion would just be masturbation, wouldn't it? Satifying, but something you can do on your own...


fantasylover_05 62M

3/11/2006 6:47 pm

nope.... not me!!

Gotta have some deep connection before I can even consider sex!!


rm_mtnravyn 60M
890 posts
3/11/2006 8:28 pm

The answer to your question is "Yes, I can." But in reality, the question maybe should have been "Do you want to ......?" And the answer to that is no, that becomes a waste of time and energy. The spark that makes sensual play really pleasurable is the connection that develops between the two. That usually starts with conversation. I did an in-depth post on this and have strong feelings about the mental, emotional, intellectual aspects as strong complements to the physical.


LongStrokingUrt 42M

3/12/2006 4:18 am

I agree with mtnravyn. I've always been the type of guy that likes to get to know women so that it makes the experience more pleasureable for both of us. However, I have been in situations, such as an unexpected one night stand where it was just about fucking. Now that would probably only require passion because you realize it for what it really is, which is a fuck. 40 pumps as Bernie Mac would say on Kings of Comedy. But now if its someone I've been talking to for an extended period of time, the answer would be no. There would have to be some sort of mental, emotional, physical or biological aspects of emotion(s) involved. Maybe one day we can try this theory out on you when one comes to Cali, in May.


rm_redsands5 58M

3/12/2006 5:42 pm

Raw human emotion is your answer. Haven't you ever met someone that just sends some adrenalin pumping through you like a locomation? Hasn't your heart ever skipped a beat when you barely met a man? Ever got nervous just being introduced to someone?

The mind may say no, but the body is sending all those yes signals. Maybe it's some hot passionate kissing, or maybe some 2nd or 3rd base action. Or maybe a weekend of hot steamy erotic sex.

But to answer your question, for better or worse, I am one of those men that can have some hot steamy raw sex with a woman if the time is right and if there is some mutual attraction.


cobra70118 105M

3/13/2006 8:07 pm

Every Raw Stimulated Square Ounce Centimeter of; Passionate Breath Taking Cell Nerve Fiber Feeling Emotion Mental Thought Electrical Chemical Steamy Endorphinated Heart Pounding Neurotransmitter Oozing Secreted Sweaty Out of Control All of It...

or

never

mind...


AmazingRiz23 42M

3/14/2006 12:01 am

When I was 18 or so it was a lot more common than now. Since I got older it's more like friends that can also have sex for fun. They're still my good friends and it's not like we're settling for each other. The situation is unique to itself. We don't have any "love" emotions but can still be turned on physically by each other. It makes for a really fun night or weekend.

Don't get me wrong. I do like a date with the whole romantic experience too. Sometimes however, it is equally as refreshing to just be able to get intimate without all the fanfare. It's nice to have friends who are not only open to the idea, but are equally attracted to the concept. Again, as I got a bit older is when I found these types of special friendships. The lack of jealousy or possessiveness among our group is the best part. Who says you can't have an X rated Blockbuster Video night with some close friends?


cantb4now 48M
26 posts
3/14/2006 2:16 am

i cant get it up without some sort of feeling


rm_1kickinit4 50M
1 post
3/14/2006 7:47 am

I used to think I needed some type of emotional connection but lately Just raw sex and lust is good enough and sometimes preferable to a long drawn relationsip. That said, there is someting to getting to know your partners body, needs and likes that makes any sexual experience better.


rm_thriller269 45M
3 posts
3/14/2006 6:19 pm

Sex is just that... SEX! It is NOT love, just people having a GREAT time enjoying one another's bodies!!! There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it, it's natural!
I have fucked many people without ANY emotion, I could and would easily do it again, BUT, I actually perfer having some kind of feeling (still NOT necessarily love) and maybe even a connection in a way to the person I am being intimate with!


Jim195846 58M

3/15/2006 12:00 pm

No way I can do that . It just doesn't happen that way .


cobra70118 105M

3/17/2006 6:48 pm

Thinks we need a little more clarification. This post got me thinkin... Emotions are not neccessarily love and feelings may not neccessarily be emotions. Whatever they are I like intense...


rm_frehleyaxe 46M
10 posts
5/27/2006 1:50 am

I didn't have the time or want to read every entry, but if this gets read, I'll have to say that sex is a physical attaction thing first and foremost...love is something that grows with time, but the first time you see somebody and like the way they look, it's lust...it's just the way we're made and is why we keep getting made!


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