Are You  

daisy_lincoln 46F
3002 posts
10/3/2005 7:36 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Are You

I get at least 10-15 e-mails each day, asking me this question, and I'm a little unsure what it means.

Would someone care to elaborate for me?

NickRules999 39M
9464 posts
10/3/2005 8:39 pm

I think it's a really rude question and I see it often in the chat room. Basically, the guy is asking if you're gonna fuck him, which is the way I see it. Also, I guess it means, if he writes you, and you respond, are you gonna give him a link to your website? I, myself, have gotten that many times. I guess I'm just hitting the wrong women, but still I write. So don't be discouraged.

Besides, I know your real. If your video intro and blog are any indication, I know you're the real goods, babe. I just wish I were closer to you. LOL

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

hobie2003 60M
25 posts
10/3/2005 8:47 pm

Dear Daisy, I now know why I love daisy's so much! Wow! You are very beatiful. Have you ever seen the movie "Please don't eat the daisy's"? Well I have to say that your one daisy I could not resist.
You seem to be a real person to me by the way you write. Maybe you sound to good to be true to alot of guys. Im sure there are alot of head games going on here all the time. I would love to dee any other pictures you might have of your beautiful body and would love to hear from you. Thanks hobie2003

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
10/3/2005 9:17 pm

It means, are you really who you claim to be? Are you the person in your pics? Are you truly looking for what you claim to be looking for? Or are you a cocktease who's going to lead on men and never meet? Or are you going to lead them to another website where you're going to ask them to buy an adult pass to view your naked webcam girls? It means, are you genuine, or are you someone pretending to be something you're not.

rm_8StreetPlaya 43M
15 posts
10/3/2005 9:37 pm

It's simple. We want to know if we are corresponding with the girl in the photo AND if that girl is being truthful in her profile and response.

I'm surprised you get the "are you real" question considering that you are confirmed. The e-mails you receive are either "form letter" e-mails or they are coming from idiots.

Instead of "are you real", I usually asked very specific questions about a girl's profile or a question about their city or location. You'd be surprised how many "canned responses" I get, usually asking me to send an e-mail to a different location. --Yeah right. . . so some asshole can verify my private e-mail and spam me with a bunch of viagra crap! --I don't think so!

My other favorite is the "girl" who says she's 5'9" with a 34D bra, yet the photo shows a girl no taller than 5'4" with tiny 32A cups. --This is my first clue to the BS! --And it's rampant on AdultFriendFinder!

Sorry you have to deal with so many crap e-mails, but I definitely understand the motive. --Hell. . . I sent you an e-mail a couple months ago and all I got was an autoresponse and I never heard from you again. --If you were not confirmed, I'd be asking the same question.

frogger1995 39F

10/3/2005 9:53 pm

I think it means "do you want money for sex or my e-mail address to seel to another site?" Apparently a lot of men on this site get suckered in to such by attractive women. Take it as a compliment.

lancslover2000 52M
12 posts
10/3/2005 9:56 pm

Hi, maybe other guys have already said this, but it is very easy to become disillusioned and cynical on these lines. I have on several occasions had what seemed to be genuine responses to my ad, only to follow them up and find I was 'chatting' to a machine giving automatic responses trying to get me to give my credit card details out to get 'free' access to her site to see her naked.
I think I've learned to spot them now... but maybe other guys haven't and you are getting the fallout?
Nevertheless I would try to chat with a woman and judge by her responses whether she was 'real' or otherwise, rather than come out with the rude and immediate question that you complain of. I suppose it's a sort of sexual Turing Test.
Ok good luck.
Kevin x


10/3/2005 10:07 pm

I basically agree with the others that said it is a question aimed at seeing if you are who you say you are. I have received a ton of email from girls who want me to sign up for their websites to get their contact information and this question want to distinguish who is real and who isn't. I don't think it is a rude question, although it could be interpreted as one, and it comes with the virtual medium we have all chosen to sign up for. Personally, I know you are for real and it is a damn shame I haven't met you yet! I haven't met anyone from this site yet nor I have I received any responses to my emails so the reality of AdultFriendFinder has yet to hit me! I can't wait until it does! =)


10/3/2005 10:16 pm

The UNREAL R SCAMMERS! No matter what you write to them U get; “Wow U sound really hot, interesting, JUST what I want” or more to the point what YOU want, they say they travel a lot, (good excuse for delays) but willingly give an e-mail address to reach, or ask for yours, but then do a bait and switch leading one to yet ANOTHER site where; “they chat from work”, or “where their pics are or they talk to their (exclusive!) contacts”. THESE are always ANOTHER PAY 2-B FRIENDS SITES. I have absolutely no doubt that there are folks on other sites luring others to AdultFriendFinder–that’s I-NET capitalism BABY! (let’s see if big-bro lets me print this!)

I always ask “tell me something about where we live” (details about our town),
ELABORATE; on something of mine YOU’VE READ, blog/ e-mail.
When I (kindly) insist on these responces–I never hear from them again! watch it, there’s ones out to get women TOO! : (


10/3/2005 10:28 pm

it's a PICTURE of a woman! And possibly a guy or a computer writing resposes, i'm not fooled or flattered.
My computer is full of WOMEN made of light!
I came HERE to find one with a PULSE!
I wish i knew how to send them VIRUSES!

Efilnikufecin69 47M

10/4/2005 12:54 am

Daisy I have to agree with MissAnn on that one. When someone is as beautiful as you are, it is hard for many men to get a grip with the fact of why you are here. Meaning, why is such a beautiful, intelligent woman such as yourself, running around the world alone?

I know you are real. Your friends know you are real. You just stay real okay hon!?

Love from Germany


dart2500 39M

10/4/2005 5:46 am

I will tell you exactly what it means... It means that you are very hot and men, naturally being suspicious and using only one head or one track thinking when surfing an adult site, tend to ask straight out if a hot woman is fake! You should take it as a compliment, I for one am so happy that there are other hot, good looking real people on here

beachfun69000 54M

10/4/2005 7:27 am

Is Daisy real? It is the weaks best opening line. And possibly a question by men who have been burned by fake picture leading me to come up with the 5/50 reply. The pictures we get sometimes are 5 years old and 50lbs ago.
I am very sure that Daisy is real as I live in the area and am very sure I've seen her once or twice.
I would like to nominate Daisy as the AdultFriendFinder poster girl. All in favor say AYE!

passionateforit 46M

10/4/2005 7:33 am

Dear Daisy, it is dead simple. Some have already lined that out here, the question derives from experiences with bots and fakes here. It is of course a rather bold question, probably in order to scatter a bot愀 or fake愀 disguise by mere directness. You扉e got these fakes here, like it was said, who find good excuses for leading you - trying to lead you, actually - to some other site, with some chat where they claim to be found, some payline by means of phoning...(telling you that it is just taking precautions because all the evil, bad men in the world wouldn愒 use that line or can be spotted out, or that by this they avoid being terrorized on their private phone because they made soooooo bad terrible experiences - even though you might have never asked for the phone number) Their answers may be, like IByerGIGG said, "wow you sound hot, just what I want" etc etc, NO MATTER what you wrote to them. They really give you the feeling to be scum, using your feelings, your nature, your longings with no respect whatsoever, even considering you sdoopid enough to believe all this - very annoying!
The point is that normally these spammers use photos of the "ultimate" woman, one that the majority of men would probably die for. So there is a slight, even though in a way odd, compliment involved. I once saw a lady online here - and got pessimistic. Such a lady could just be a fake. She really knocked me out, she wasn愒 average, the photo itself wasn愒, the pose wasn愒... so there it was: distrust. This once again could only be a fake, using whatever you just dream of. So it was me to ask the bold, bitter question: "You are not real, are you?". She corrected me:"I am."

We had a wonderful chat.

passionateforit 46M

10/4/2005 7:34 am

oops wrong smilie: she answered: "I am."...

rm_8StreetPlaya 43M
15 posts
10/5/2005 6:03 pm

I don't think there's much else you can do. Don't let the morons get you down.

. . . you have private photos? --That's it, I'm sending a network invite to you right now! --That is, of course, if you are real. . . heheheeheee. . .

Efilnikufecin69 47M

10/5/2005 9:59 pm

D, the only other thing you are perhaps missing... me!

Love and kisses


kokpelli_999 61M

10/5/2005 10:55 pm

You are real! No doubt in my mind Daisy.I speculate many are using the question as an enticement to get you to repsond. It's a form of manipulation. If you have a tinge of insecurity acknowledge it and call it an experience. There's much to be learned. Can you choose to be enlightened rather than intimidated?
Best wishes Kok.

rm_McNastyinSAC 47M
2 posts
10/7/2005 12:51 pm

Trust me when I say this. I need some daisy style up in here! When are you coming up?
Cheers baby,

NickRules999 39M
9464 posts
10/8/2005 12:06 pm

Daisy, do you ever make it to Utah? I would love to get with you.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

howdy_all 45M

10/13/2005 9:40 pm

daisy, you are gorgeous. One benefit of AdultFriendFinder is that although there are a lot of fake and pretencious (sp) people on here, once in a while you come across that true diamond in the rough. One other nice thing is the IGNORE button you can use on those that ask the question.

Hockeyplayer4you 43M
3 posts
10/22/2005 3:16 am

That is EXACTLY correct. I've become more wise as is the case....

rm_dave251465 37M

10/22/2005 11:29 am

Hallo daisy bin aus deutschland und finde deine Fotos voll Geil ! Am liebsten würde ich gerne mal deine heise Muschie auslecken und dir meine faust in den Arsch schieben !!!

rm_crs6d 36M

10/22/2005 4:43 pm

I think many people could think couldn´t exist a girl like you here I mean is easy to doubt about if you are indeed real or only a fake to gain more people at this site but is easy to know that you are real beauty first you have a full and interesting profile most of your captures has titles which are so spicy and nice and last you make this forums that probe that you are a really beauty, so for some people should be hard to imagine why a beauty like you is in this site.

Daisy you really are a very nice girl I hope never decide to let this site

realbiker1969 47M
1 post
10/23/2005 7:44 pm


I think I used that question in winking at someone on this site. When I did I was thinking, GOD, this woman is stellar, so hot and desirable. In that way I was saying, you are so amazing that it's dreamlike.

But, since you've brought this up I've had to rethink it. I'm not going to say that again.

BTW, you are one stellar, hot and desirable woman. Wish I could swing in the big leagues with someone like you.


george2761 55M

11/12/2005 2:02 pm


fixitboy007 54M
3 posts
12/4/2005 12:18 am

Hey daisy, of course you are real ! And real intelligent! An amazing woman behind a real pretty face !

Wishing u well.

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