Okay fellas let me pick ur brains...(ladies chime in too!)  

daintynipples 52F
14 posts
3/28/2005 9:13 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Okay fellas let me pick ur brains...(ladies chime in too!)

I want to know if I am in a small growing minority on AdultFriendFinder or if most women on AdultFriendFinder fall into this category....

I truly enjoy being the lady in public and a whore in the bedroom. Sex is best when it is erotic, sensual, bold, messy...I love oral, fucking, orgasms are the best but my real exitement is in the build up....I like to check those inhibitions at the door and let myself go sexually and other ways and then when we are both exhausted I want the man holding me to still respect the woman I am outside of the bedroom...

Let me set the scenario up ~ last night I had a great time talking with a man I have met (so far online only but that is definitely going to change)here. By the end of the conversation, we were both horny as two rabbits (with Easter and all). This man has an incredibly sexy voice and well I am a sucker for verbal stimuli especially with a voice like his and he has a creative mind (another weakness of mine...sigh) and we decided that instead of just saying good night we both wanted to cum....fast forward after I have three nice orgasm (those kind that come in waves), I said to him now let me take care of u and I proceeded to tell him how I would suck his cock and balls and make him shoot his load like a volcano (I hope I am not being too graphic here ~ I am just very descriptive).

After some incredible verbal massage, he came and then told me how impressed he was that I wanted him to get off. I said what do u mean?? How/why would I not want u to get off for me...I love to listen just as much as u do. He told me I was the first woman ever (he is fairly experienced online and otherwise)to want to get him off during phone sex and even after getting mine.

I was blown away! For those of u who enjoy a little naughtiness like this, is this the case with most women?? Do they get theirs and then leave u hanging?? I could not imagine...I loved bring this man to the crest and then hearing him let go....what a rush!

kisses & licks!!

love_2_hump_u 59M

3/28/2005 1:39 pm

ok, i'll take a shot at this. yes, it's not the most common for both conversing parties to cum at the end of a good phone sex session. There are a number of possible reasons for this.
One example is where the receiving party is in the privacy of their own home, and the other can't cum, such as driving. For example, I gave some nice phone sex to a wonderful woman (guess who?) who came very nicely. I was driving down the road. I couldn't be on the receiving end.
Another factor is the difference in stimulation between the sexes. I know I risk getting bitch-slapped here for overgeneralization, but I think there are solid psychological basis for this. That is that women tend to be stimulated more by sounds, like a firm, sexy voice telling her to cum. Men tend to be more stimulated by the visual. Such as a voluptious pair of tits bouncing under his manly thrusts. This is why men like webcams more and women like romance novels more. The difference is verbal vs. visual stimulation.
So anyway, that's my two cents worth. Anybody else?

keithcancook 60M
17846 posts
3/28/2005 3:09 pm

I have experienced that before, but I suppose it is only natural for it to happen sooner or later in LTR's. Some of my early escapades met with this problem but that was probably due to inexperience of both of us. Overall, it has been a rare occurance for me, but it has happened.

Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
3/28/2005 3:34 pm

How droll I am today once I played on the phone with my g/f's and vice versa when dstance was a barrier to getting together, Now the buzz of phone sex is just not there. Damn it I must be getting myself into a rut. hahahaa

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

daintynipples 52F

3/29/2005 12:43 am

Very interesting points gentlemen...love_2_hump sounds like u are "da man" darlin...multitasking while driving...u know, I wouldnt be surprised if things got pretty darn close for u during that little phone fuck session ~ what a lucky lady!

insunpol 53M
2 posts
5/3/2005 9:13 pm

i don't know, i think that phone sex can be great with the right person...don't you dainty nipples?

sukof 53M/56F
3 posts
7/12/2005 9:04 pm

I have orgasmed on the phone for women's entertainment (more with current and well known girlfriends, but also with some practical strangers). And, I do truly enjoy talking erotically to a woman and listening to her orgasm. Usually, I can time my own orgasm close to the woman's if I choose. Sometimes when I cum with someone else on the phone, I choose to be quiet to enjoy listening to the woman. If she is rather quiet, I might let my moans go loudly.

One or two girls on those phone chat lines had sex with me, but hung up immediately after they came. Others have (or fake?) their orgasm in their recorded greeting (seemingly to attract guys to connect with them?, but they don't allow a connection on the line). These both seem pointless.

It would seem that men are far more interested in phone play than women, but I think there is a wide variety of sexual expression possible for both genders (and largely untapped). I have had phone relationships with otherwise strangers and with regular lovers. One can look at physical sex as a handful of positions, but the posibilities are infinite. Phone sex is more limited, but there are still countless posibilities.

bill_e_2 72M  
811 posts
7/30/2005 3:13 pm

Hi daintynipples! If you are a "sucker" for a sexy voice then we need to talk on the phone tonight! I'm horny and I can decribe my desires to you in language you'll enjoy.All the women seem to think that I have sexy voice but too me it's just a deep southern voice.Let's talk

rm_girlsfuntoy 54M
4 posts
8/10/2005 9:27 am

Excellent blog. I also love to hear a sexy voice. I talked to w lady late one night, very similar to what you described. Her voice was so sexy, I was hard just from hearing her voice. We talked for a couple of hours, and also each had incredible orgasms. She used one of her favorite toys while I talked with her, told her what I would do. It was hot. She said I also have a sexy voice, which completely turned her on. It was an incredible encounter, the pleasure we both achieved. There have not been one before or since. But would enjoy another.

golfprotiger 59M
9 posts
9/14/2005 7:32 am

Nothing better in sex than to make SURE the lady has the first orgasm !! Even better if she can have two or three before the guy's first explosion. Skilled and sensitive men have the ability to give pleasure. I have fucked alot in my life, but have learned the best sex only occurs when the lady releases her body for extreme pleasure. Guys can not be self centered--go in for a three minute pop and ask, "How was it for you?" Generally, the lady will lie and say, "Great, baby!" I would like to think, at my age, my experience has taught me differently.

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