Women & Oral sex...  

daighi 49M
1627 posts
7/2/2006 8:59 am

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Women & Oral sex...

Hi there,

I'd like to try to get into the minds of all you sexy members out there.

I have always wondered....Do women actually enjoy GIVING Oral sex?

&

What do you be thinking of while doing it?

With that in mind,heres a short Poll for you all.Please indicate which best describes how you feel about it,& also,can you leave a comment to explain why?

Thanks for you input.

D.
I LOVE giving Oral sex ,as it makes ME feel horny doing it.
I give my partner Oral sex,because i know my partner/s like it,& i like doing it too.
I love Oral sex,because i love the feeling of having a cock/pussy in my mouth.
I like Oral sex,because it's a great way to start sex.
I hate Oral sex.I think that it 's a discusting thing to do.
I don't really like Oarl sex,but i'll do it to make my partner feel good.


"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/2/2006 9:04 am

I have indicated response #2.Mostly because i really DO like oral sex,giving as well as recieving.

It makes me feel good that my partner/s is enjoying the sensations i'm giving her/them.The more she/they enjoy it,the better i feel.

YUMMY!!!

D. XXXXXXXXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


akron42   
2375 posts
7/2/2006 10:14 am

I picked #1. I get hot giving oral sex to a man or a woman. Penis? GOOD. Pussy? GOOD. It's all good.


wildokiewoman 44F
30 posts
7/2/2006 10:17 am

I love giving oral. There is just something about knowing you can turn your partner on that much with just your mouth!!!


talkdirty_2me 40F

7/2/2006 10:37 am

Honestly, it depends on whose dick it is! There is one guy in particular that I LOVE giving it to because I know exactly how he likes it. He goes CRAZY and I love to let him cum in my mouth.

If I have to be down there forever and a day trying to get a guy to cum than it certainly loses some of the fun of doing it. Some men just don't get off that way.

Also, if a guy tries to push his dick all the way down my throat that will probably be the last time I venture anywhere near there. That's not cool.

One more thing...it's best if a guy makes noise or talks to you and doesn't just lay there. Then we know what is feeling good for him and can keep doing it! Everybody likes it different and we need some help figuring out how each one does!


rm_DeeNWTx 52F
1 post
7/2/2006 10:38 am

I love giving oral sex. With the right partner, if they enjoy it, it makes all other aspects of making love, just that much better...that much more intense. I didn't really care about receiving until the last year. I guess that's what being with the right person really does for you.


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/2/2006 10:54 am

    Quoting akron42:
    I picked #1. I get hot giving oral sex to a man or a woman. Penis? GOOD. Pussy? GOOD. It's all good.
Hi there,Thanks for dropping in,voting & for leaving a comment.It's much appreciated.

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/2/2006 11:40 am

    Quoting jmebug:
    i def didnt use to like it, but as time goes by, it has gotten better, i do love the taste of a good cock in my mouth, but not for long, i want to go on with the fun and it gets boring. i do like making them feel good though.
I agree,Oral is just a good way to get the juices flowing,& to get things moving in the right direction...lol

Thanks for posting! It's much appreciated.

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/2/2006 11:43 am

    Quoting wildokiewoman:
    I love giving oral. There is just something about knowing you can turn your partner on that much with just your mouth!!!
I feel just the same way.It really gets me going when i know my partner/s is enjoying it too.

I often say.."If your that good with your mouth,how good is the rest of you gonna feel"?!..lol

Thanks for posting,it's much appreciated.

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/2/2006 11:55 am

    Quoting talkdirty_2me:
    Honestly, it depends on whose dick it is! There is one guy in particular that I LOVE giving it to because I know exactly how he likes it. He goes CRAZY and I love to let him cum in my mouth.

    If I have to be down there forever and a day trying to get a guy to cum than it certainly loses some of the fun of doing it. Some men just don't get off that way.

    Also, if a guy tries to push his dick all the way down my throat that will probably be the last time I venture anywhere near there. That's not cool.

    One more thing...it's best if a guy makes noise or talks to you and doesn't just lay there. Then we know what is feeling good for him and can keep doing it! Everybody likes it different and we need some help figuring out how each one does!
Hi there,

I also have a friend that i feel that way about.I just can never get enough of licking her pussy.It's like an afrodisiac to me.Every time that we are together,i just HAVE to taste her.

I also agree that if oral goes on for TOO long,it can become tiresome.
Some people,like you said,just find it hard to cum by oral sex,which is not a problem for me.I just move onto different things to do,& try to make them happy in other ways.

Having a guy shove his cock down your throat forcibly,is never a good thing.Oral sex,like making love,is all about feeling pleasure,& enjoying the experience.If you don't enjoy it,then whats the point?

I always talk,moan,& pant while recieving oral sex,especially if the person giving it to me is doing a damn good job.I will always make it known.

Not everyone gets it right the first or next time,as it normally takes practice,& alot of communication.It's good to talk....but often NOT with your mouth so full..LOL..Wink!

Thanks for posting,it's much appreciated.

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/2/2006 12:00 pm

    Quoting rm_DeeNWTx:
    I love giving oral sex. With the right partner, if they enjoy it, it makes all other aspects of making love, just that much better...that much more intense. I didn't really care about receiving until the last year. I guess that's what being with the right person really does for you.
It sure does DEE.When you meet that person,& it all feels right,there's just NO better feeling than giving each other pleasure.

I'm glad that you discovered the benefits of oral sex,& i hope that you continue to explore it to it's fullest potential.

Thanks for posting,it's much appreciated.

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/2/2006 10:45 pm

The results so far....

Now theres a surprise.....2 votes for disliking oral sex,but you will do it to please your partner..Hmmmmmm....!Thats very interesting.

I'm sure that there are not many people out there that would do the same,so i have to say...respect to those who do!My only hope is that YOUR needs are being met with equal gusto & enthusiasm.

Option #2 so far has 4 votes.No surprise there then.Most of us like some form of Oral sex,both giving & recieving.It's a nice way to please & be pleased,& also a good appetiser for the main course..

Option #1 so far has 5 votes,& is fast becoming a clear winner..lol
Good to know that there are some of you that are just so damned horny,that you can get off from anything!!!...lol Only joking!

Linda Lovelace was said to love Oral sex so much,& loved to deep throat,that people thought she might have a clitoris in her throat.

Imagine that!!!..Oral sex would never be the same!..lol

Anyway,thanks to the people that voted so far,& keep voting folks.It's fun to find out these things....

Hugs & kisses,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


rm_phattycoo69 37F

7/3/2006 9:49 am

It depends on whose dick and pussy it is! There are two guys that definiely LOVE giving head to. It makes so aroused when placing my juicy lips around their dicks. It is the smell that he gives,the look that the dick has(it is aesthically pleasing to the eye?), the guttharal sounds. A pussy is the same way.

I agree with talkdirty about not liking when a guy forces his dick on you while performing the deed. I hate that! I say, "I'm doing you a favor,just lay back and enjoy the ride and let me do my job down here."

For the most part, I would pick the first, for a few select people and for the rest of the world, I 'd pick the second selection.

I would not put my lips on everyone. To me, oral sex is very intimate and romantic and should be shared only by those very close to us. That way, sex has a boundary and limit. Some things are meant for only select people, especially in this lifestyle.


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/3/2006 12:46 pm

    Quoting rm_phattycoo69:
    It depends on whose dick and pussy it is! There are two guys that definiely LOVE giving head to. It makes so aroused when placing my juicy lips around their dicks. It is the smell that he gives,the look that the dick has(it is aesthically pleasing to the eye?), the guttharal sounds. A pussy is the same way.

    I agree with talkdirty about not liking when a guy forces his dick on you while performing the deed. I hate that! I say, "I'm doing you a favor,just lay back and enjoy the ride and let me do my job down here."

    For the most part, I would pick the first, for a few select people and for the rest of the world, I 'd pick the second selection.

    I would not put my lips on everyone. To me, oral sex is very intimate and romantic and should be shared only by those very close to us. That way, sex has a boundary and limit. Some things are meant for only select people, especially in this lifestyle.
Hi phattycoo,thanks for your vote & posting.

I agree with your opinion on how intimate Oral sex can be among people.It IS a very intimate act,& it should be kept for those close to you.

I never have one night stands,& there needs to be some connection between me & my partner/s before we get intimate.

Having said that phattycoo,i don't believe that i'm doing anyone "a favor",by perfoming the act on them.I do it because i like doing it,first & foremost,& that i want to make them feel good.

I think if i felt that you were doing it to me as a favor,i'd loose interest in what your doing very quickly.Thats just my view,but i understand what your trying to say too.

I think talkdirty was saying that she does'nt like it when a guy grabs her hair & tries to force his cock down her throat.I don't know if thats because she does'nt like it rough,or whether it's because it causes her to gag.

Oral sex is meant to be enjoyed by both people doing it.if you don't enjoy whats happening,then whats the point?

Interesting post phattycoo,thanks.

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/7/2006 8:05 pm

Ok,it looks as though option#1 is the clear winner in this one,with 11 votes so far.Thats followed very closely by option #2 with 8 votes.

Option #6 comes in 3rd place with 3 votes,which still amazes me.It's nice to know that there are people out their still willing to go that extra mile to keep a partner happy.

This is followed by option #3 with just 2 votes,& cumming up the rear(No pun intended),is option #4 with just 1 vote.

Coming in with NO vote thankfully,is option #5.What this tells us fellow bloggers,is that Oral sex,in some shape or form IS important to us within our sex lives.Which is great,because I for one love doing it!

I think that was a worthwhile poll,don't you?Thank you to all of you that read it & voted,& especially to those of you that commented on it.It's much appreciated!

Hugs,& kisses,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


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