Vulcans v 's Humans  

daighi 49M
1627 posts
7/15/2006 3:59 am

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Vulcans v 's Humans

Hi there,thanks for dropping in.How are you all today?I sincerely hope that this finds you all well!

As i'm a BIG Star Trek fan,so i decided to use this analogy for my next post....bear with me on this one ok,there IS a thought in there SOMEWHERE!!

VULCANS:...Cold,emotionless,almost heartless,
logical perfectionists...Their decisions are based on Logic,& not common sense,they are very ridgid in the way they do things,being calculating
& precise.They are very ritualistic spiritual creatures,& are steeped in tradition.

They tend to live their lives accordingly,having SEXUAL relations only every 7 years,with their mate,who is chosen for them,almost from birth.During their cycle of "Pon Farr",they become very passionate & are almost constantly aroused until their cycle is PURGED.They have some very intimate traditional techniques,for releaving the stresses of the day.

They marry their chosen one without loving them
mostly,but tend to GROW in FONDNESS for their partners over time.They have a great sense of character about them,but consider themselves superior to humans,in every way.They tend to be a very male dominated society,although their are a few very powerful women who are almost on an equal footing.

HUMANS:...Warm blooded creatures,full of compassion for others.There lives are full of emotions,that helps them to make decisions based more upon instinct,& are less calculating.

Although well disciplined,they can be drawn on their emotions.They can be agressive,but mostly in self defence.Human's tend to want to enjoy life to it's fullest,having fun along the way.Unlike Vulcans,Humans have feelings,often quite intense.They also tend to make their decisions based on a "Gut Feeling" & instinct,rather than a purely logical one.

Humans are also very passionate about life,
enjoying most of lifes little pleasure to the full.Unlike Vulcans,Humans choose their sexual & life partners over a period of time.Their choice of partner is based more on attraction,mutual trust & understanding.Their love also grows over time,but often manifests itself in an emotional bond of two hearts,as well as two minds & bodies.

Humans have a tendency to desire friendships on many differing levels.Their sexual prowess takes place at basically any time that one feels comfortable with another,& they are sometimes driven by their lust for others,in their search for sexual gratification.Propogation of the species can take place at almost any time,& they also have multiple sexual & intimate techniques for releaving the stresses of the day,but in a less controlled fashion.

Humans ally themselves to many other species,often taking varying animals as pets.They generally rely on social interaction & bonding to enable them to exist in an ideal world.Most Humans will go out of their way to make friends,& help them out in any way possible.They are easy to befriend,but also can be an unamiable foe if provolked.


So,which analogy closest describes YOU,& how you approach life?Would you say that your more like a Vulcan,or a Human?

The reason for my question is this..

I have often thought to myself that i should become a "Hard Man" in life.Rigid,& emotionless like a Vulcan.That way,i would'nt give a shit about anybody,care about anybody,& mind what anyone says about me.

But,I just can't seem to change who i am!..

I can't help it if i get emotional over the little/simple things,because it's the little/simple things in life that are SO special,& mean alot to me.

I can't help it if my emotions run wild sometimes,
& that they are varied according to everyday happenings.

I can't help trying to be everyone's friend,even though i know thats impossible.

I can't help needing to feel wanted & to be a special part in someones life every now & then.But,i don't want to be the one thats pushed aside,just when it suits.

I'm worth more than that,surely!?

I CAN'T BE the stonefaced,hard guy,takes what he wants,uses it,& throws it aside when he's finished with it.

I can only be ME!..the person that you see before you.Full of the joys of life,sensitive,passionate & warm,as well as caring & compassionate.I can onlt be a NICE guy!


So please explain to me...

How come NICE guys ALWAYS come LAST?

Why do ALOT of women PREFER the BADDIE over the NICE guy?


See,i told you there was a point to all this..

Thanks for reading,i hope that you can find it in your HUMAN heart,to leave a comment
& tell me how you FEEL about it?..lol..

Have a great day..Live Long & Prosper!

Hugs & kisses,

D. XXX


"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
7/15/2006 8:42 am

I sometimes wish that I could be like a Vulcan, then I wouldn't get hurt. You wouldn't know what you would be missing about love because you would never have those feelings. Sometimes my tender heart gets in the way. Singing....'I'm gonna harden my heart. I'm gonna wipe away my tears and I'm gonna leave you here'...(if only I could). Thanks for giving me something to ponder.

~Country~


rm_AnOddGirl 57F
3469 posts
7/15/2006 12:19 pm

I'm a Trekker, dayum it!

Reading this kind of reminded me of a short story - 'Man of Steel, Woman of Kleenex' by Larry Niven (who is a real wild man when he drinks!)



Odds


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/17/2006 12:32 am

    Quoting blonde367:
    Massive trek fan here also, have stacks of the dvd's and am first in the queue when a new film comes out..As for nice guys coming last usually, hard one to call, a lot of the time i thinks its the unattainable that attracts,, probably an excitement element to it,, who can say,,, most of us cant explain why we're attracted to one person and not another xo
Hi J,I am a huge fan of Star Trek.I have every episode EVER released,either on video or DVD.From the Pilot episode,"The cage", to the last episode of Enterprise,& ALL of the 10 films released.

I'm so thrilled to have found a fellow trekie!..This just gets better & better!..lol

I think that it's the challenge of trying to "Tame" a guy that keeps a ladies interest in him.But what happens when he IS tamed?Do they just get bored with him & move on?

I hate it when a woman use the phrase "Your just TOO nice!" to me.

This is why i wrote this post..i have to say..WTF!...when that is said to me..i just don't understand it!How can someone be TOO nice?

Would they rather that i treat them like crap,& abuse them,beat them around,& be with every woman in sight?

Now you see my dilema!?

I agree that it IS hard to explain what attracts one to the other.Some say it's opposites that attract,but i'm not so sure of that theory!I think that there is too much confllict in something like that,much the same then if people are too similar.That also causes conflict.

I think the secret is to strike a balance between the two.Each have some things in common,& each have things that they like to do on their own,or with others.That seems to be the ideal scenario for a good relationship.

Finding someone like that...now thats the problem for us all,i feel!..lol..

Thanks again for your post!

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/17/2006 12:39 am

    Quoting countryheart_71:
    I sometimes wish that I could be like a Vulcan, then I wouldn't get hurt. You wouldn't know what you would be missing about love because you would never have those feelings. Sometimes my tender heart gets in the way. Singing....'I'm gonna harden my heart. I'm gonna wipe away my tears and I'm gonna leave you here'...(if only I could). Thanks for giving me something to ponder.
CH,your welcome as always.Please let me dry those tears with a gentle kiss on each eye to sooth you,& comfort you.

I love a woman with a soft heart,as she is so sweet to know.I'm a kindred spirit in many regards,as i too,have a warm & soft heart.

Having a good nature,often means we get taken advantaged of by others.
I hate to feel that i'm being taken advantage of,don't you?I guess that it's in our nature that we attract people who are willing to do it,which is unfortunate!

In your pondering,just know that you are appreciated here,i really mean that!

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/17/2006 12:44 am

    Quoting rm_AnOddGirl:
    I'm a Trekker, dayum it!

    Reading this kind of reminded me of a short story - 'Man of Steel, Woman of Kleenex' by Larry Niven (who is a real wild man when he drinks!)



    Odds
Wow! yet another Trekkie!..Yippee! I thought that being a trekkie,would be something that people found boring about me.Afterall,not everyone,especially women,is into Sci-Fi,let alone a cult TV programme,such as Star trek!

I'm afraid that i hav'nt read that book,but it does sound interesting.I'm not much of a bookworm.

I'll pass on the recommendation to some of my friends,& my sister.They like to read alot,& so might enjoy it.Thanks for visiting,& posting!

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


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