Need feedback...Can you see my blog?  

daighi 49M
1627 posts
7/15/2006 5:47 pm

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7/17/2006 12:56 am

Need feedback...Can you see my blog?

Hi there,thanks for dropping in.

I have just written to AdultFriendFinder customer services about this.

I REALLY need your help with this!!!...

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE...i implore you! will EVERY visiter to THIS post just leave a message to say hi.

I'm NOT looking for attention,i'm just trying to find out if you can SEE this blog.

I don't know what it is...When i submit a posting,WHAT happens to it?Does anyone know for sure?

I have checked my blog settings which are set to allow EVERYONE to view & vote in my blog,so it can't be that!

I NEVER seem to appear on the front page of the blogs,in either the most recent blogs listings,or any other listings,for that matter.That does'nt matter to me..!!!

What does matter to me is that i have spent ALOT of time writing blog posts,some sexy ones,some silly ones but ALL friendly ones.

Some get visiters almost straight away,others,
hardly any at all,i just don't understand that!

When i look at other blogs,i see that the numbers of viewers runs mostly into the 100's in a matter of hours,while alot of MY posts,hardly ever make it to the first 100 in a matter of DAYS.How can this happen.

Alot of people who have visited my blog have told me they enjoy it,& that i seem to have the balance right,between erotica,jokes,polls,& topical subjects.So WHY are my numbers remaining so low?

Once again,I implore you to please leave a comment in this post at least,just a short hello,so i can monitor for myself how many views are getting through.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart to ALL of you who regularly visit & post,you know i appreciate it!

Hugs & kisses all round,

D. XXX


"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
7/15/2006 8:05 pm

I can see your posts. I know sometimes it takes awhile before it actually shows after it highlights on my list. I think the numbers are all messed up. I have maybe 30 visitors a day and my number of views are in the 100's? I question that alot. I know that some of them are mine for replying to the comments left. I will always keep reading.

~Country~


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/16/2006 2:11 am

You see..this just illustrates my point.I submitted this blog post nearly nine hours ago,& there STILL is only 9 views,& DESPITE my asking for EVERY visitor to post a comment & say hi,it still has'nt happened.

I can only conclude that either,people can't see my post,for whatever reason,OR people just don't care what others write in their posts enough to comment on them.

THIS has been the ONLY post lately where i have ASKED...indeed BEGGED
people to leave a comment,all in the interest of helping me with my problem,BUT it STILL has'nt happened.WHY IS THAT?

Disheartened,slightly peeved & confused!

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/16/2006 3:41 pm

    Quoting rm_firehot2003:
    hey mate congrats just after seein you face in the slots
    you must be doing something right

    love firehotxxx
Thanks fire,may i ask you,what are the slots?Where are they displayed?

I hav'nt seen them as yet!

Cheers for your comment also.

D.

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


BaronessK 52F

7/16/2006 11:34 pm

Just found your blog, yesterday. I don't know how long it took for your posting to appear, but like someone said up above, sometimes someone will show up as having a new posting but when I click on it.... Other times, it will show something like 2 to 8 {!} new postings, yet when I go to the blog, there is only one {even when I check back later}. So yes, everything is screwy!

The 'Slots' are on the main blog page -- it's the pictures {3} showing actively watched blogs; someone {HB, I think, I don't really recall now} said that the slots were all messed up. For instance, I have NEVER seen MzHuny's picture there...and everyone I've seen comments from reads HER blog.

As for view{s} count, that's a whole different bee's hive or whatever...if someone links directly to one of your posts, that's 1 hit, of course; BUT if they link to your blog {where a whole page comes up, with multiple postings}, then it counts a hit for each posting that is on that PAGE, and another hit for which ever posting they actually go in to. There are a load of confusing things like that, so that's probably why they don't go by view anymore, I guess. Although, of course, no one seems to know how they get the stats for 'unique' comments, either!

Just my $1.47 f'amble!


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/16/2006 11:52 pm

    Quoting BaronessK:
    Just found your blog, yesterday. I don't know how long it took for your posting to appear, but like someone said up above, sometimes someone will show up as having a new posting but when I click on it.... Other times, it will show something like 2 to 8 {!} new postings, yet when I go to the blog, there is only one {even when I check back later}. So yes, everything is screwy!

    The 'Slots' are on the main blog page -- it's the pictures {3} showing actively watched blogs; someone {HB, I think, I don't really recall now} said that the slots were all messed up. For instance, I have NEVER seen MzHuny's picture there...and everyone I've seen comments from reads HER blog.

    As for view{s} count, that's a whole different bee's hive or whatever...if someone links directly to one of your posts, that's 1 hit, of course; BUT if they link to your blog {where a whole page comes up, with multiple postings}, then it counts a hit for each posting that is on that PAGE, and another hit for which ever posting they actually go in to. There are a load of confusing things like that, so that's probably why they don't go by view anymore, I guess. Although, of course, no one seems to know how they get the stats for 'unique' comments, either!

    Just my $1.47 f'amble!
Hi BK,it may have cost just $1.47,but to me it's priceless!!..lol

Thank you for explaining all that to me.I don't feel such a plonker now after reading that!

I was beginning to worry about the admin,but they wrote back & said that everything seemed ok too.

I guess it will take time to establish my blog with people.

Do drop in any time you can,it's nice to see you.I will of course,reciprocate,& i will try to answer all your comments when i can too..promise!

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/16/2006 11:54 pm

    Quoting countryheart_71:
    I can see your posts. I know sometimes it takes awhile before it actually shows after it highlights on my list. I think the numbers are all messed up. I have maybe 30 visitors a day and my number of views are in the 100's? I question that alot. I know that some of them are mine for replying to the comments left. I will always keep reading.
You know CH,some things just don't make much sense,but reading your blog,& your comments does!I'm so glad to have you visit & post to my blog,thank you for taking the time to do so.

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/17/2006 12:01 am

    Quoting Wickedwytch69:
    I've just caught up with your latest posts- Only now do I have time to post a comment.

    Yes I can see them all ok -

    The front page listing for new blogs is indeed very hit and miss - sometimes your post can be stuck on there for hours and other times it never seems to apprear ( I guess at busy times the chances of everyones post appearing on show are slim to none really).

    The slots seem to be very hit and miss also - not sure how AdultFriendFinder work out who goes in that - at one time I appeared alot but not recently (maybe its to do with posts you write or number or views/comments)?

    As for your numbers - well I'd just say hang in there and give it time - you have been away for some time - people may have taken you off their watched list or they may not have discovered your blog yet. It took me months and months before I saw a steady pattern of 'regular' viewers on my blog - I also know if you are away or not blogging or perhaps blogging on one subject that doesn't appeal to all, you will become uninteresting to some regular viewers.

    Finally lots of people read and never comment - I rarely comment to be honest BUT that doesn't mean I don't enjoy what I read. Just keep with it - don't give up yet- keep doing what you are doing and give the viewers chance to get to know and like your blog.

    Take care
    Suzie x x x
    p.s. sorry for waffling!
Suzie,you are so supportive of me.I so appreciate knowing you,as i do.

Thank you again for your words of support,as always.I will keep posting & trying different things to give my blog a good mix & balance
of topics,as you suggest.

I'm glad that you have decided to keep blogging yourself,i so love reading your blog,but then you know that!..lol

I know that things are a bit up in the air for you right now honey,but you know i'm here for you.If you need to talk,i am here to listen!

Take care for now,hope your ok?!

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/17/2006 12:05 am

    Quoting blonde367:
    agree with all the above, I can see ures fine, but in my watched blogs it often tells me you have posted a new one, but when i check i cant often see till a good while later, but find that happens with other watched blogs i have as well..xo J
Hi there J,thanks for that.It's nice to know that i'm in your watched blogs list.I feel so privaleged to know that.

Of course,you know that your in mine to,i really enjoy the posts in your blog,& i'll try to comment in it whenever i can.

Best wishes,& hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


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