BIG Guys....an Observation.....  

daighi 49M
1627 posts
7/9/2006 6:48 pm

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BIG Guys....an Observation.....

Hi there,thanks for dropping in.

Before you read on....I'm a large built guy,& yes,i have a large tummy,but i also have kind,caring & sensitive heart too.

I also have a funloving,in depth,intuitive,& yes sometimes a slightly kinky,but healthy mind.


As i pass through the many profiles on this site i have noticed that there are alot of people who specify that they have no desire to meet with "LARGE men with beerguts".

Now i have to say,that is fine,but it makes me wonder why is SIZE such an importance for some people?

I make it a point of not judging anyone by their size,race or creed.So why is it so hard for some people to be the same?

This is NOT an attack on those people,& i'm NOT taking offense.In fact,i respect their wishes,& just move on.

I'd just like to ask those people,& you reading this..."Do you NOT think that your missing out?

I have been intimate with ladies of ALL shapes & sizes,& i have had a wonderful time with all of them.

One thing that i have found is that larger people,
including myself,tend to make much more of an effort,when it comes to sex.

The fact that we are BIG does'nt prevent us from wanting sex just as much as the slimmer people.In fact larger people can be downright insatiable,just as much.

There are ALOT of guys out there who LOVE being with BBW's,so why is'nt it the same for the ladie's.

Just because a guy is slimmer,& maybe has a larger cock,does'nt mean that he's good in bed,Or that he has a better personality than a large guy.

Ok,i will admit that size can have a bearing on the amounts of sexual positions that can be done.Being larger,often means that we are limited,in how bendy our bodies are.

What i DO know is that we find other ways of pleasing our partner/s,by foreplay,& a fruitful imagination,& sensual activites.

I for one,won't stop until i know that my partner/s are fully satisfied,& wanting for more.
Thats not a brag...it's just something that i feel i have to do,to compensate my partner for my size.

Does that sound weird to you?

All i ask of all of you,is that you give larger people a chance,when you look in on their profile?

There's often MORE to them,than meets your eye!


What do you think,am i wrong in my observations,& am i wrong to feel this way?

Please tell me HONESTLY what you think!

Hugs & kisses,

D. XXXX


"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


HBowt2 58F

7/10/2006 5:01 am

Honestly....i'm attracted to personality not size....most people I meet I have spoken to beforehand and got to know them before i even see what they look like. I believe that one of the reasons women are more attracted to thinner guys could go back to the need to be protected ...like in cave man times...it's seems we all carry things left over from then...anyway thats my tuppence worth...HB2xx


rm_aqustic2 44M
1335 posts
7/10/2006 2:36 pm

very true.........differant strokes for differant folks.

gee i do like a stroke.


moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
7/10/2006 6:01 pm

It's definitely more a personality thing than a physical thing. I prefer big men who make me feel small...I'm not small. I don't mind bellies, as long as it isn't too far out of hand.


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/11/2006 2:59 am

    Quoting amberabercrombie:
    Want to do whatever you want with me for a day..? Want a slave..All you have to do is jump on the bandwagon and let me know you voted for me! Tsk the title of this should have been wronged!? xoxoxo!? xoxoxo!..Im counting on you !..Hey give me some credit here I have a long night of spamming blogs ahead of me !

    Im sorry im fudging shameless tonight!
Hi amber,thanks for visiting my blog.Good luck with your voting in you poll,i'm sure you make someone very happy with your offer!

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/11/2006 3:13 am

    Quoting HBowt2:
    Honestly....i'm attracted to personality not size....most people I meet I have spoken to beforehand and got to know them before i even see what they look like. I believe that one of the reasons women are more attracted to thinner guys could go back to the need to be protected ...like in cave man times...it's seems we all carry things left over from then...anyway thats my tuppence worth...HB2xx
Hi HBowt2,& it's a very valuable tuppence worth indeed.It's an interesting analysis of my topic.I would have been of the impression that women would want a bigger,more sturdy,well built guy to "Protect" them.

At least that has been my experience with the ladies that have been prepared to give me the time of day.

I'm so glad that you tend to give guys like me a chance.It rerally should be more about personality,& not size.But unfortunately,life is'nt like that in my experience to date.

My post is NOT one of anger,or a hissy fit,it's just an observation based on my reading many profiles on here.

Thanks for your input HB2,it's much appreciated.

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/11/2006 3:52 am

    Quoting blonde367:
    We all have our preferences as to what turns us on, hay one bloke cut me off once cos i wasnt big enough for him, was really into bbw's and i by no means fit the bill as he not so nicely told me, so it can go both ways
Hi blonde367,again i understand your point of view.It IS a preference to us all,who we choose,& thats fine.However,what i'm trying to say is that i'd love for more people to base their decision or preference,not on size,but more on personality.

Who is to say that big guys,can't turn a lady on?I consider myself a very sensual,& giving lover.I make it a point of ensuring that my partner/s enjoy their experience/s with me.(This is not a boast,it's a fact.I make more of an effort because of my size.)

If you make your decision not to meet me,based on my size,how will anyone get to know that fact?

Of course,there ARE people who DO like larger people,but they are very few & far between.I for one,like to meet people of ALL shapes & sizes,i have NO preferences.Thats not because i'm desparate,it's just that i don't judge anyone by their size.I make my decision to meet someone,based on their personality & character,those of which i learn from chatting with them beforehand.

The guy who cut you off,obviously was an insensitive guy,& acted immaturely.The point of my topic,is to prevent that from happing to you & me,& people like us in the future.

Thanks for your posting,& input.Just for the record,i think your a very beautiful lady indeed,& i would'nt change anything about you based on your looks & blog.

Hugs,& kisses,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/11/2006 3:58 am

    Quoting rm_aqustic2:
    very true.........differant strokes for differant folks.

    gee i do like a stroke.
Thanks for that aqustic2,i hope that you find someone to "Stroke" you in any way youor looking for...lol

You look slim from your photo,so i guess that you would have no problem in attracting the interests of all the sexy ladies of this site,large or small.

Good luck in your efforts in attracting the one for you.

D.

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/11/2006 4:07 am

    Quoting moonlightphoenix:
    It's definitely more a personality thing than a physical thing. I prefer big men who make me feel small...I'm not small. I don't mind bellies, as long as it isn't too far out of hand.
Hi moonlightpheonilove that name),I'm so glad to hear you say that.
You are obviously one of the ladies in a minority here on AdultFriendFinder.

It's just like i said to HB2,it was my experience that women i have been with,did feel alot more protected by being with me because of my size.

I'm 6ft tall,& about 19/20st,but i carry it well.I take pride in my appearance,even though i'm large.

Put it this way,there's more to grab on to,& cuddle into...lol..

I hope that you find what your looking for,& i hope that we can become friends,over time?

Hugs,& kisses,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/11/2006 4:09 am

    Quoting moonlightphoenix:
    It's definitely more a personality thing than a physical thing. I prefer big men who make me feel small...I'm not small. I don't mind bellies, as long as it isn't too far out of hand.
moonlight, i don't know how that icon became part of your name.Sorry about that.I did'nt mean to make you look angry.

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
7/11/2006 8:56 am

    Quoting daighi:
    moonlight, i don't know how that icon became part of your name.Sorry about that.I did'nt mean to make you look angry.

    Hugs,

    D. XX
LOL...no problems, mate. That happens to me sometimes too...not sure how, but it does.

Enjoying your blog...keep up the good work.


sexymom20069 48F

7/11/2006 2:26 pm

I for one LOVE BIG GUYS.

My last boy friend was a big guy - He didnt believe me when I used to tell him that I loved touching his body and I loved it . but he also told me that noone else ever made feel as good as I once did.


A couple of my ex fuck buddies was big guys. To me , they are sweeter and more nicer. I am not all that skinny but once you get to know me - I have a sweet personality. It's not what is on the outside BUT what is on the inside that matters the most.. But guys with muscles also appeal to me. There is more to touch and hold on too.


HUGS AND KISSES 'D' , Linda


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/13/2006 3:09 am

    Quoting sexymom20069:
    I for one LOVE BIG GUYS.

    My last boy friend was a big guy - He didnt believe me when I used to tell him that I loved touching his body and I loved it . but he also told me that noone else ever made feel as good as I once did.

    A couple of my ex fuck buddies was big guys. To me , they are sweeter and more nicer. I am not all that skinny but once you get to know me - I have a sweet personality. It's not what is on the outside BUT what is on the inside that matters the most.. But guys with muscles also appeal to me. There is more to touch and hold on too.

    HUGS AND KISSES 'D' , Linda

It's so nice to know that you like big guys.it's very hard to find women over here that do.Your right in saying that it's whats on the inside that counts more,but alas,guys like me very rarely get beyond the first look stage when it comes to ladies choosing a partner.

I love being with ladies that have curves.I think they look far sexier,& healthier,some how.

It's nice to be able to cuddle into a woman's busom,or nicely rounded ass,as we fall asleep in each others arms..lol..

BIG HUG & sensual kiss,

D. XXXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


BaronessK 52F

7/15/2006 5:58 am

I have always been much more attracted to bigger guys {body size} and regular/smaller guys {private wise}. Maybe I just like having someone with bigger shoulders than mine? That's not to say that I rule out {or whatever} other types {or whatever}, BUT...it's what I am attracted to, physically. Naturally, there has to be a mental attraction and all that as well, for a deeper relationship of whatever sort.

Too many people assume that a larger person doesn't keep clean and all, which of course is crap. I find that someone who has experienced not being 'in the in crowd' is more understanding about Life in general; I like them better, as people, basically -- especially as people I want around me in my life on a regular basis.

When I met my last bf, he was almost 300 pounds; I drowned in his eyes and his personality. He was on the Atkin's thing, and while he was healthy as a horse then he 'feels' better about himself now. I went on it with him, and went from 250# to 175#; it's still the same me, inside, though...so now I am brutally rotten to those guys who wouldn't give me a second glance back then when they do know...because they are shallow and I have never liked shallow people! I can see personal preferences and being turned on by certain things, but these people are just shallow about it all.

I'm rambling again {as usual}, aren't I? Sorry, I do go off on my tangents. Really enjoying your blog; put it on my list so that I can finish reading when I don't have to be up for work in less than 6 hours! Thanks.


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/17/2006 12:54 am

Hi BK,sorry that it's taken me so long to reply to your post here.Thank you so much for it.You can ramble on as much as you'd like,i don't mind.

I love a woman who can express herslf & talk freely.It makes life so much easier for all concerned.

It's interesting that you bring up the cleanliness issue here.I have often thought that myself.Thats why i make it clear in my profile that i like cleanliness,& that i present myself well.It's a way of ensuring that people realise,that just becaus i'm large,i'm also very clean,& sexy too!..lol

Although i like them to find THAT part out for themselves as time goes by!..lol..

I'm glad that you are enjoying my blog,& i look forward to reading more of yours & sharing more with you as time goes on.You in my list too,so talk with you soon!

Hugs,

D. XXXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


BaronessK 52F

7/17/2006 3:13 am

Yes, definitely sexy! {I am soooo 'sucking up', aren't I? Actually, it's not sucking up...when it's TRUE.}


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/17/2006 12:55 pm

    Quoting BaronessK:
    Yes, definitely sexy! {I am soooo 'sucking up', aren't I? Actually, it's not sucking up...when it's TRUE.}
AWWW...shucks!...i'm blushing now! ....

Thanks for your compliment,my esteem has just gone through the roof now!

But thats a good thing right?Not wanting to seem smug!

Hugs,

D. XXXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
7/18/2006 7:14 pm

I'm convinced the reason I don't find big, tall men sexually attractive (even though I may find them handsome) is because my dad and brothers are all big men.

My sexual tastes go toward men of medium to short height (not too short, I'm 5'5" ) and slim build. Wiry, if you will.

This does not mean there haven't been one or two exceptions, of course, but they are exceptions and not the rule.


The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/18/2006 7:34 pm

    Quoting PrincessKarma:
    I'm convinced the reason I don't find big, tall men sexually attractive (even though I may find them handsome) is because my dad and brothers are all big men.

    My sexual tastes go toward men of medium to short height (not too short, I'm 5'5" ) and slim build. Wiry, if you will.

    This does not mean there haven't been one or two exceptions, of course, but they are exceptions and not the rule.

Thank you PK for that comment.It's good that you know where your preferences lie.It makes it clearer in your mind what you want.Maybe a BIG TALL guy,reminds you too much of your father & brothers,in a physical sense?

Much in the same way that an older woman would'nt be with a teenager,as it would remind her too much of her son.Do you know what i mean?

It's nice to know however that you hav'nt closed the door on the possibility of being with a big guy.At least IF one should come along that appeals to you,he would have to consider himself a very lucky man..lol..

Thank you for visiting my blog,& for posting a comment to it.I appreciate your time.

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
7/19/2006 7:15 am

I have been with a couple of big men, and it was fun, but you hit the nail on the head, that's exactly what I meant about big men being a little too familiar for my taste.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


MarcySullivan 52F  
3598 posts
7/22/2006 10:47 am

Very interesting post daighi! It is true that some positions are not easily done especially of both parties are large but it doesn't take away the fun in doing the other positions available to them!!

xoxo


xoxo
Marcy

Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/22/2006 2:12 pm

    Quoting MarcySullivan:
    Very interesting post daighi! It is true that some positions are not easily done especially of both parties are large but it doesn't take away the fun in doing the other positions available to them!!

    xoxo
Hi there Marcy,thank you so much for that & for visiting my blog.

There are so many positions that i love to try.Sex is supposed to be fun as you say,& yes i DO love it when i can find a new one to use.

I think i'm up to position number #65 in the Kamasutra book of sexual positions,how far along it are you???lol..

Ahhh...GO ON!.....ok then!...whats you favorite?..cheesy question!

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


MarcySullivan 52F  
3598 posts
7/26/2006 3:03 pm

Can't say I know about the book let alone #65 but I'll go for doggy anytime

xoxo


xoxo
Marcy

Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/26/2006 3:36 pm

    Quoting MarcySullivan:
    Can't say I know about the book let alone #65 but I'll go for doggy anytime

    xoxo
The Kamasutra,is a book of both spiritual & erotic sexual postions.

It illustrates all of the known sexual positions,some of which,i have to admit,you'd need to be a contortionist!..lol

Positions like the "Lotus flower" etc,really hit the spot!..

But,i'd have to agree with you Marcy,I LOVE the "Doggie" position too.It's ONE of my favorites.Mostly because i can thrust into you hard & fast,as well as slow & deep,but most of all because i can look at your bum while i'm doing it.

I like the Missionary too,because i can look into your eyes as we make love,& i can kiss you intimately,whilt deep inside you.

MMMMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....sounds really nice,& i bet it would be too!?..lol..

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


MarcySullivan 52F  
3598 posts
7/26/2006 7:33 pm

Lotus flower huh??? sounds intriguing!!! lol

I still prefer doggy!!! lol

xoxo


xoxo
Marcy

Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!


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