A true friend.......  

daighi 49M
1627 posts
6/3/2005 6:01 pm

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A true friend.......

What in your mind constitutes being .."A True Friend"?

Are you fortunate enough to have someone in your life that you would call your True Friend?Why so?

Thanks for your answers!


"Always remember...keep smiling!"



wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
6/3/2005 9:10 pm

A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you HAVE an
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!


22 posts
6/4/2005 1:16 pm

i have to say im lucky enough to find someone who is truely my true friend, my soulmate, my lover all in one person... now i just cant wait till he gets home!!

guynamedjim 58M
729 posts
6/4/2005 1:28 pm

Someone there even in the down times of ourlives and still loves us.
Thick or thin, richer or poorer, good times or bad. I think if a gal says the guy news to have specific type car, x amt of income, etc. etc. the love for them isn't for that person rather they are user friendly! A true friend loves you for who you are, and not what they want you to be. They see the richness of the inner self so often missed in this world of racing and longing hearts.

Chele46H 49F

10/24/2005 9:56 am


This is the blogg I posted re my true friends a wee while ago -

What is a friend?

For me (at this time in my life), a friend is someone that I can tell anything to and not feel inhibited in any way, for I feel confident they will not judge me, nor push me into doing what THEY think I should. They will be there to offer advice and let me choose if I act on it or not and not be offended if I choose not to. They will help me smile when life is grim, help me see sense when I'm losing the plot and give me a boot up the arse when I lack motivation.

I don't usually let people that close to me - self-defense mechanism I suppose - but there are a couple people that I now consider to be my true friends. They are all the above and more and I appreciate their friendship more than they will ever realise. They have changed my life and outlook on it in so many ways and given me a confidence that I've lacked for so much of my life.

People like that are 100% amazing and I just want to say thank you to them for everything. I'm honoured that they are my friends.

Chele xx

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