unsatisfied in pa.  

daffodils2004 58F
4 posts
10/16/2005 8:53 am

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6/5/2006 12:36 pm

unsatisfied in pa.

Still lookin for that certain someone....are with someoen now that certain habits are unnerving to me, but he would do amything for me, yet I still crave the excitement I used to have with a past lover, who is now seeing someone else.....He has contacted me first and continues to want to see me, he has commented that it won't be long before she dumps him and I beleive that the one I'm with is just here for the comfortness and sex and friendship, he still refers to me as, "the lady". he's with over the phone to someone if he makes a call or the one I'm seeing, never girlfriend or even lover, and I don't know why this bothers me, but it does.......the one I used to see made me laugh all the time and we found humour in everything and never had a dull day or nite together, what shall I do???????? He's getting very persistant and my walls are breakin down, but I don't wanna hurt this guy who has helped me out in so many ways.....anybody please give me some advice, even if it's kinda off the wall!!!!!

rbnf440 55M

10/16/2005 7:30 pm

Hi -
Hmmmm...I don't know about this dude you're discussing.
I am noticing patterns in women's blogs about being hung up on guys with someone else.
That's dangerous territory and it's not to be trusted.
And us guys are REALLY good at this.
You may just want to tell the guy (so he can't be hurt) you MET someone else - whether you have or not.
That may stop his persistance -- and certainly there are plenty of decent single men that are available (I know it may not seem it - but it's true).
Do what's BEST for you.
Best of luck !

rm_DaDizneals 35M

1/9/2006 8:56 pm

word of advise, you are stringing yourself along and he is helping you do it. move on

daffodils2004 58F
1 post
6/5/2006 12:36 pm

Thanks for all your comments to my problem.......In answer to some of the questions, no, I never lived with either guy... The guy I ised to see, I broke it off, coz I felt like he didn't really care(made jokes about everything), don't know now why that bothered me then, but recently found out that is just his way, and he cared very much about me, more than I'll ever know now.....sigh.....he still wants to see me as a bed buddy and good friend, we had awesome times, but this is not sitting right with me, I'll get those feelings all over again with him, and since he is seeing someone steady right now, I feel that I'll just be a play toy for him while the cat's away(if ya know what I mean).....

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