apparently no one has the answers  

da_beaches 55M/53F
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6/25/2006 2:39 pm

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10/13/2006 6:55 pm

apparently no one has the answers


not sure how to get answers to my questions maybe I need to seek the all knowing all powerful.

rm_Gordy012000 46M

6/26/2006 1:32 am

Well......I think it's always nice to get a response.....even if it's a "not interested". There really is no nice way to tell someone your not interested. All you can do is make it hurt a little less. I mean....who wants to hear that? I think the best way is to flatter someone before you hit them with the crappy part. For example...."you are a very attractive person and I'm sure you have much to offer but I/we are just not interestd at this time". Thats about as close to painless as you can get. Many, many people will make a effort and never get any response at all. Now what do you think has more of a impact on a persons self esteem? To feel like your not even worth the time to respond to or a response thanking them for their interest and little flattery before letting them know? I think taking the time to respond shows that even though your not interested, atleast you have enough respect to acknowledge them. I try to do this with everybody who sends me email or shows interest in me. After all.....I do appreciate the interest even if the person is not my type.


da_beaches 55M/53F

6/26/2006 6:26 pm

gordy. thanks for the insite
We do try to respond to most, the ones we dont generally respond to are the one liners that show no respect whatsoever,( I think you know the ones the rude and crude ones) I feel if you cant show a lil respect your not worth my time.
I do think it is nice to show that you have at least gotten the email and appreciate the time that they took to write to you.

Now I need to go back and look at emails to make sure I didnt just walk all over my tounge on that one..


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