what's the secret  

d14mello 48M
6 posts
10/7/2005 4:08 pm

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10/12/2008 6:57 pm

what's the secret

well I have been at this for about 2 weeks and I have a wink but that is it. Is there some big secret to this? An even better question, does this work? Ladies any suggestions....


PawPr1nt 51M
133 posts
10/7/2005 5:25 pm

You got a whole wink, just for you?!

Wow! What's your[/] secret?

realmom2 58M/50F

10/7/2005 5:45 pm

Hi sweetie. This site does work, I've met with a lot of people and have a lot of fun. As a single male, your sucesses will be limited, that's just how it is for you poor guys. Be honest, don't play games, and be patient, your rewards will cum. Good luck.

1586 posts
10/7/2005 5:52 pm

I don't know if there's a secret, but it does take some effort.

I would suggest that you read profiles (and blogs if they have them) thoroughly and only send emails to those who truly interest you.

Lots of people resort to sending mass emails and it's obvious to the people that receive them. I don't answer those ever.

The chatrooms are also a good place to chat with people in real time. It gives you a better sense as to what they're about. I've dodged a few bullets that way. LOL

If you're in a rush, this might not be the best website for you.

Best of luck.

d14mello 48M

10/11/2005 7:34 pm

Thanks for all your comments so far. I will keep at it for a little while.


lmbrown210 48F

12/22/2008 5:08 pm

Hi , Its been a while since u asked.... just wondering has it gotten any better.

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