Vegas or Bust: The Final Chapter of the Kenny Chronicles  

cuteNEway 41F
1774 posts
9/2/2006 7:20 pm

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9/7/2006 3:03 pm

Vegas or Bust: The Final Chapter of the Kenny Chronicles

As much as I have laughed while telling these stories, this part is very painful for me to tell.

Well. Here goes.

When I met Kenny he had recently returned from a trip to Fabulous Las Vegas. It was all he could talk about. How nice everyone was and how clean it was.

He had said he was planning on leaving within the next year because he couldn't stand New York anymore. You know because New York is nothing but assholes and scumbags.

Well after we got serious we spoke about going together. Eventually getting married. But between conversations of this nature, he would say things like, "If we ever break up, no matter what, we're gonna be friends. OK?"

Throughout our relationship I heard, "I can't wait to move to Vegas! I hate New York, it's nothing but scumbags and assholes." Did this make ME an asshole and a scumbag? Well according to him there were a select few exceptions. Me being one of them. Oh JOY!!

He stopped talking about moving after a while.

One day out of the blue, in early 2000, he comes home BEAMING! "Baby I got great news!" I looked up from what I was doing. He pulls something out of his coat. Holds it up, "Look baby! Dad bought me the ticket to go to Vegas!"

HUH? .........WHAT? .........TICKET?

"What? When did this happen? You didn't say anything about trying to get a ticket?" He hadn't said anything in months. My head was spinning. "Oh I'm so sorry baby..." I didn't hear much else after that. Except that we were still gonna work it out so that I can move there with him. Still shocked.

He left two weeks later.

A couple of weeks after that, I went to see him in Vegas. Spent two weeks with him at his brother's apartment. OH a funny thing happened the night before I left.

He decides to try going down again. He was actually doing pretty well. My leg involuntarily spasmed and I managed to drag a toe on his balls. Yeah he was in pain and stopped. Can't blame the guy but hey, no one said a comeuppance was pleasant right? But I digress.

Well I left Vegas and moved back to Puerto Rico. Once there I bought a calling card and called him every day. Until I realized he never called me. So I didn't call him anymore.

He called after a month, "Baby, why don't you call me anymore? During the time I waited for him to call me, I thought about all the shit he put me through. What I've told in the chronicles have been the less humiliating details of what transpired.

I decided I did NOT want to move to Vegas with this clown. I was feeling free for the first time in 3 years. Now HOW was I gonna tell him.

"I was calling you every day so it's only fair that you spend money on calling too." He agreed and apologized. And then he told me that he didn't think it would be a good idea for me to move to Vegas with him.

I was relieved and I told him that I was glad he said it because I was afraid to say it. Why was I afraid to say it? Because this boy is so delicate that after our first major argument, I went out to buy cigs after he went to shower and when I came home he was on the floor with a knife writing a suicide note. He thought I had left him because I didn't tell him where I was going.

So we continued calling eachother. Talking about who HE was dating. I wasn't dating anyone. He was dating everyone. Eventually he told me that he had reunited with an old army buddy and that they were in LOVE and they were gonna buy a house in her hometown and get married. I was happy for him. A little jealous but I gave him advice as to how he was NOT going to treat her.

Half assed apology for his transgressions. Yeah yeah whatever. We still spoke about what was going on in our lives. Forward 18 months. I called him to tell him that I was pregnant. These ARE things you tell friends right? Apparently not because he didn't say a word for a long time, finally he spoke to tell me he had to get ready for work and then hung up.

I haven't heard from him since.


NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
9/2/2006 9:41 pm

I like to visit Vegas. I'd live there, but it gets so goddamned hot during the summer. I have visited Reno, though, and I decided I could live there.

It seems Kenny didn't go out with a bang, more like fizzled out. At any rate, it seems you've gone on with your life, as did he.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?


cam_couple2006 42M/40F
22 posts
9/2/2006 9:50 pm

Move on girl and don't look back....this guy is an ASSHOLE plain and simple.


elmexicano_2k 46M

9/2/2006 9:51 pm

Well all I can say is good riddance to bad rubbish. BTW, are you sure that leg spasm was involuntary? Sounds just a tad bit suspicious to me.....

Butch: I'm American, honey. Our names don't mean shit.


PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/3/2006 12:01 am

No big loss... ALL gain. *HUG*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


woofff 41F

9/3/2006 12:57 am

Hey you…aww Cute….you must erase this memory now.

I know you are a courageous woman just by knowing you wrote this series.

Thank you hun for sharing.

Hugs CuteNEway.
xxx
Woofff


haversack_smith 40M
6192 posts
9/3/2006 2:36 am

Dear Kenny,

You're an arse.

Smith.

Cutey-pie, it is so good you got away from that guy. Sounds like he was a real first-degree loser.


GnarlDesexCrick 41M
18 posts
9/3/2006 3:14 am

hey cute hows it going. i will be honest i just got home from a night of drinking so bare with me. fuck him hes a asshole. and once again i will say this i dont know you but somehow i want to reach out to you and give you the warmest and friendliest hug i can. you seem so sweet and genuine that it bothers me that you had to deal with such a toolbox. i will leave a better response tomorrow but until then all i can do is give you the biggest hug i can over the net. stupid distance and crap. well from the bottom of my heart i say good ridance but i wish i could be there to hold you why you tell this terrible saga of your life. from the guy who understands your pain in buffalo i say goodnite.


cuteNEway 41F

9/3/2006 5:14 am

Nicky...I never had closure. Maybe telling it here will help.

Cam couple...I'm trying. It's hard not to be suspicious of all of them after that.

mexicano...totally involuntary. I was getting eaten baby. If I were to do a fake injury it would be whil we were doing something HE liked!! lol

Foto...yeah thank goodness I don't have to deal with ex-BF drama!

Diggin..."may the universe share it's riches and rewards with you." Riches? I guess I haven't gotten my revenge...

PK...absolutely! He was pure poison for me.

woofff...I'm glad to know that there are people out there that have such great advice and support for me

Dys...I know about these things but why do they take so fuckin LONG?? I've been alone since he left.

Smithy...He is.

pez...I'll take that hug! Now go sober up!!


kitchenfun1234 44M
1797 posts
9/3/2006 7:31 am

Here's wishing you better lovers for the future. You deserve it after that indurvidual. Never mind involuntary spasms, that guy needed the sort of kick in the nackers that you can only get with Doc Martin boots and a bloody good run-up.

What a manipulative little loser.

Hmmmm whatever he told you I think the truth was/is something closer to.....

So Kenny continued telling lies. Talking about who HE was dating. He was dating no women though. Kenny eventually he told me that he had reunited with an old army buddy. The guy's name was Skip or Mac or Buddy or something. He thought that they were in LOVE, they were gonna buy a roach-infested shack near a swamp. Kenny also thought thy might get married in a vegas drivethru.
I was happy for him, and a little sorry for Buddy.

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.


velvetgrrrl 39F

9/3/2006 12:13 pm

Wow I was expecting something a little bit different than him getting all weirded out about you having been pregnant. Maybe he still cared, like that would have made a difference ha, and had issues with you sleeping with other people

Oh well c'est la vie!

You're a better person from the experience
Always take that with you

`Velvet
Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.


AtomicArtist0 45M
6015 posts
9/3/2006 2:19 pm

so he left the assholes and scumbags in New York and moved to Vegas where there are no assholes and scumbags at all?


cuteNEway 41F

9/3/2006 2:50 pm

kitchen...poor buddy! Turns out they broke up. I wonder why??

velvet...he didn't care! He didn't even want kids! In fact one time that I thought I might be pregnant he was mad at ME. Saying. "you know you have to get an abortion right?"

Atomic...he would complain later that everyone in Vegas was so fake oh boo hoo. I had told him, "Everyone is nice when you're on vacation."


cuteNEway 41F

9/3/2006 3:17 pm

    Quoting woofff:
    woofff...I'm glad to know that there are people out there that have such great advice and support for me

    Is this wit, sarcasm or affection,Cute? I cannot read the tone.

    Woofff
woofff honey! definitely affection! I love that people are rooting for me here! I'm not wuite used to that! lol


elmexicano_2k 46M

9/3/2006 4:24 pm

Go Cute Go! Go Cute Go!

Butch: I'm American, honey. Our names don't mean shit.


GnarlDesexCrick 41M
18 posts
9/3/2006 5:50 pm

hey cute im sobered up and ready to give you that hug now. youll have to imagine it cause i may be tall but my arms cant stretch all the way down to you in the city. here it comes huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuugggggggggggggggggg. well i hope that was as good for you as it was for me. i love the warm soft touch of a woman. well sweety talk to you later.


rm_CauseISaidSo 48F
182 posts
9/3/2006 6:03 pm

There isn't much more I can say after what everyone else has just said..I echo it all!

I'm just sorry you wasted so much valuable time energy and affection on someone so undeserving.


woofff 41F

9/3/2006 9:34 pm

    Quoting GnarlDesexCrick:
    hey cute im sobered up and ready to give you that hug now. youll have to imagine it cause i may be tall but my arms cant stretch all the way down to you in the city. here it comes huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuugggggggggggggggggg. well i hope that was as good for you as it was for me. i love the warm soft touch of a woman. well sweety talk to you later.
Waits patiently for her hug.
.....

Wellllll? (Taps foot significantly)



Woofff!


free2chose2 66F

9/4/2006 6:27 am

I'm glad he wasn't the father, what a jerk

Don't worry, be Happy


cuteNEway 41F

9/4/2006 8:12 am

woofff...

BadAngel...definitely good that we aren't together. Who knows where I would be right now.

free...the father is a whole new story...


MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
9/7/2006 1:47 pm

Surely he wasn't dumb enough to think that after 18 months he was the father. Was he?


cuteNEway 41F

9/7/2006 3:03 pm

spunky...one always feels the ache after a painful molar has been removed.

MissAnn...He's a selfish asshole. He never wanted kids but he was probly pissed cuz the kids weren't his. Its kinda like, "you're not having my baby but I don't want you having anyone else's"


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